Yesterday at lunch there was a discussion about how people misuse the English language. They say things that if you really listen to them, make no sense. There is misuse of words, and words that don't even exist (the word is CONVERSE, not CONVERSATE), or misuse meaning (as in "whenever" I was at my sister's house, the TV show was on....it is "WHEN" I was at my sister's house the TV show was on). Pronunciation is the other hot spot. We don't AX a question. We ASK a question.
This morning I was thinking about how I get very frustrated when people call on my "spiritual" listing and say terrible things about the people in their lives. First of all, part of being psychic is swimming in the energy of the situation when people are asking questions. You are immersed in it, and protected from it at the same time. At least you are if you know what you are doing. I can feel emotions and energy attached to the situation. When you are dealing with a person who is unstable, hateful, resentful, angry, or any other negative emotion, it is like swimming in muck.
Being "spiritual" means believing that there is more to this world than we see. It is not the same as being religious. Religion is based on faith, spirituality is more based on life experiences and knowing through those experiences. It is also a quest of sorts, a quest to talk to the other side, from ghosts to guides, to obtain information. It is about trying to live life the way we need to, knowing there is more, and preparing for it. It is about doing the right thing, knowing we are being taught and guided, and making good choices to bring us not only into the right energy later, but the right energy right now. Knowing we can change our lives as we live them. It is about knowing we have loving help every moment of the day, and how to obtain that help. It is about being positive, strong, questioning (rather than faith based), and proactive. It is about belief, helping, teaching, and guiding.
Now knowing what spirituality is, why would a person spew venom in that arena? Why would a person ask hateful question after hateful question? People can be so horrible. There have been times when I literally hung up the phone and went to take a shower. Literally. There are times when I walked outside and grounded myself and let all that YUCK drain back into Gaia, to be transformed back to its' original state. I don't have much trouble when a person is down on themselves, and I try to counsel them UP, but when they hope and wish and pray that a person gets hurt in life as retaliation for a suspected wrong done to them, I want to scream. The "ugly" can be so strong , it is overpowering.
It is terrible that there are people like that in the world at all, and that they spread this hate, negativity, and fear constantly. NEVER spread any of those things, ever. Some people make a hobby of it , especially in the political arena. They do the energy of the universe a great disservice. Learn to make a positive difference. Not to spread hate or fear, or to wish bad things of any sort on anyone. It only comes back to you in spades!
Learn the meaning of words, AND don't spew garbage.
Oh, and by the way......we flip the switch, we don't flip the script. I think we are the only country in this world that cannot speak its' own language.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Timing needs to be right
The discussions I have most often lately involve a "when". "When will I get this job, when will I get married, when will I have children." The answer is WHEN the time is right.That is the best time.
So many have a rush to things that are major in life. Things that shouldn't be rushed. Things that are not happening because many people simply aren't ready. God/the Universe/Allah has a plan, schedule, and list of things for you to learn. They all know MUCH better than you do when is the best time, the best way, the best process. They know what is ahead. Things don't happen because we aren't READY for them to happen, even though we may WANT them to happen.
When we rush people to do things who are not ready and force them onto our timetable, we create issues. They may be everyday issues, like adding another mouth to feed when there isn't enough money to feed the ones you have, or it may be resentment that surfaces 10 years down the road. I can't tell you how many "childhood sweethearts" (don't get me wrong, these relationships DO work out between 2 mature people), fail because the couple never dated anyone else, had children immediately, taking away much of that fun teenage and young adulthood experience, and dove headlong into trying to keep their heads above water.One or both people reach age 30 in debt with three children they are trying to manage and raise and they want OUT, they want freedom, peace, and the life they feel they missed out on.
There is no rush. Not even to have children these days. Yes, that is easier when you are younger, but it is not impossible after 40.
Never rush another person. There seems to be an idea out there that when you and a partner are exclusive,wedding bells should be ringing within a year. Really? Who came up with that rule? They should be ringing when you are ready. You really don't "know" a person after a few months. The best thing is to go through and resolve successfully, any issues first. Are there family issues? Resolve them. Do you already have children? SLOW DOWN THEN, make sure the kids are ready. How are finances? You should be on a relatively equal footing and in decent shape. Are old relationships resolved? Have you honestly moved away emotionally from an ex, and are you getting married because it is the best next move, or are you in a race with the ex to find a new partner.
It amazes me how many people just filed for divorce and want to know when the new long term person is coming. They want it now. That rush to marriage is what got them in the situation they are in in the first place!
Life is not a race, it is not a contest. It is a progression and a series of experiences that you learn from, grow from, and achieve from. Some people can successfully marry their high school sweetheart and be together happily ever after. They are the people with a true love, strong sense of self and equally strong sense of what a partnership is. They are usually based in faith and have positive outlooks on life.
A marriage that happens after a year statistically doesn't last . A marriage that happens after 3 years on the average, lasts. Beware the person you have been dating for 7 years, they statistically will never get to the altar.
Timing has importance to it, but never rush. Timing is best when it is allowed to happen by itself. Never rush anyone and remember that if you give an ultimatum, be prepared for the other other person to say "sorry I can't do that" , and walk away from you. NEVER give an ultimatum unless you are truly prepared for an answer either way!
Slow down!! A wise person once said, "Stop and smell the roses".
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
So many have a rush to things that are major in life. Things that shouldn't be rushed. Things that are not happening because many people simply aren't ready. God/the Universe/Allah has a plan, schedule, and list of things for you to learn. They all know MUCH better than you do when is the best time, the best way, the best process. They know what is ahead. Things don't happen because we aren't READY for them to happen, even though we may WANT them to happen.
When we rush people to do things who are not ready and force them onto our timetable, we create issues. They may be everyday issues, like adding another mouth to feed when there isn't enough money to feed the ones you have, or it may be resentment that surfaces 10 years down the road. I can't tell you how many "childhood sweethearts" (don't get me wrong, these relationships DO work out between 2 mature people), fail because the couple never dated anyone else, had children immediately, taking away much of that fun teenage and young adulthood experience, and dove headlong into trying to keep their heads above water.One or both people reach age 30 in debt with three children they are trying to manage and raise and they want OUT, they want freedom, peace, and the life they feel they missed out on.
There is no rush. Not even to have children these days. Yes, that is easier when you are younger, but it is not impossible after 40.
Never rush another person. There seems to be an idea out there that when you and a partner are exclusive,wedding bells should be ringing within a year. Really? Who came up with that rule? They should be ringing when you are ready. You really don't "know" a person after a few months. The best thing is to go through and resolve successfully, any issues first. Are there family issues? Resolve them. Do you already have children? SLOW DOWN THEN, make sure the kids are ready. How are finances? You should be on a relatively equal footing and in decent shape. Are old relationships resolved? Have you honestly moved away emotionally from an ex, and are you getting married because it is the best next move, or are you in a race with the ex to find a new partner.
It amazes me how many people just filed for divorce and want to know when the new long term person is coming. They want it now. That rush to marriage is what got them in the situation they are in in the first place!
Life is not a race, it is not a contest. It is a progression and a series of experiences that you learn from, grow from, and achieve from. Some people can successfully marry their high school sweetheart and be together happily ever after. They are the people with a true love, strong sense of self and equally strong sense of what a partnership is. They are usually based in faith and have positive outlooks on life.
A marriage that happens after a year statistically doesn't last . A marriage that happens after 3 years on the average, lasts. Beware the person you have been dating for 7 years, they statistically will never get to the altar.
Timing has importance to it, but never rush. Timing is best when it is allowed to happen by itself. Never rush anyone and remember that if you give an ultimatum, be prepared for the other other person to say "sorry I can't do that" , and walk away from you. NEVER give an ultimatum unless you are truly prepared for an answer either way!
Slow down!! A wise person once said, "Stop and smell the roses".
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
LIfe can be stranger......
Life is full of mystery, strange occurrences that can't be explained, and events that happen to us we don't understand. It makes life fun, interesting and even exciting. No one has yet to figure out why there are "moving rocks" in California. They are high in the desert in Death Valley at a place called Racetrack Playa. Some would say when the ground gets wet (which isn't very often in Death Valley!), the wind blows the rocks over a slippery surface. However the wind/rain combo doesn't happen often enough for the pace of some rocks, and their tracks (going in all kinds of directions at the same time), doesn't make sense. No one has ever actually seen the rocks move. You can check them out here:
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38823016/ns/technology_and_science-science/#.UTXxtVeg_FU
That is a cool mystery, one to have fun trying to figure out.
There are also reports of many mummies in the desert southwest over 7 feet tall.. Such beings are in many places all over the globe, including Egypt. They are all ancient and seem to be a part of an ancient race. Some say the Aztecs were one of these races. These were found all over the US including Tennessee.
This was at a time when nutrition wasn't all that great, and most people were around 5 feet tall or less. It is something to really think about, after all we do have "giants" today, they usually are in the NBA, but they exist. Are they part of those ancient races?
We can get voices on recorders that we can't hear with our ears.Are they the dead? People living in another dimension we can't see? What they say sometimes leads us to that explanation. Many are clear and they sure don't seem to be unhappy about where they are. They sometimes provide valuable information or information that can't be disputed.It is exciting to capture one of these voices.
So with some very cool mysteries out there, real things that make us wonder.People have a hard time buying into all the things I mentioned above, yet they are all true, all documented. They have been scientifically studied and many people have facts and theories about them. Yet many refuse to believe there is anything "strange" or unknown to them, that they are just things that can easily be explained away without using myths, legends, paranormal ideas.
Those same people however do something every day, or just about every day. They pass along untruths that in the here and now and are damaging to someone.They console themselves saying they are exposing truth, when in fact they are just passing along a story made up in some far away part of the world! Their reason for passing things along are totally misplaced. They usually aren't bad people, they are just on a path that sometimes blinds them to a belief or path that blinds them to other ideas, views, and even truth at times. These scams can be as simple as giving a recipe that will waste your time, as it won't work and tastes like cardboard; an act that just wastes your time; an email that makes you fear and act irrationally; slander on a public figure, group or organization. The Nation Enquirer used to be the sole proprietor of these tall tales, but then man invested the internet!
The latest going around is that Obama pays a trainer $100k of our money. Not true. It is simple as checking Snopes, urbanlegend, Fastcheck, or any other non biased source that researches these tall tales. There is one still going around about praying for Marines on a hilltop that they haven't been on in 5 years. There is another about a microchip having to be implanted for Obamacare. There is one about making "cooler corn" where the PCB's released will at the least make your corn taste like a cooler, and at the most can cause cancer or kill you. When you do these things, or pass them along to your email list or Facebook community, you create a web of untruth, and someone in the Mid East or Asia is laughing their butts off.
Most of these "helpful" and "informative" email start in the Mid East and Asia. Most of the scams that involve money begin in Nigeria. Not everyone uses a bomb or blows up a plane to hurt us, they use more subtle techniques. It is also a great way to see who is gullible. Gullible people then get preyed upon, and this is mostly in the online dating community. When catfish see that someone will believe anything, they zoom in and collect the cash that is willingly given them. Next time you pass along something without checking it out, think of how you are a pawn in the life of a person who hates Americans and thinks we are a bunch of idiots. They want us to hate our leaders, and life. People buy right into it .
There are so many really awesome mysteries out there. So much really exciting news, so many causes to support, so many wrongs to fight. Why waste time and energy and create a glob of crappy energy around you swimming in lies and what amounts to online practical jokes? Check the pages that are out there (and more and more are going on line every day), use them. They are free and will only take a minute of your time. That is better than creating an aura of untruth, gullibility, unrest and hate around yourself. Much better! Most people pass these things along thinking they are helping someone. They can REALLY help by checking it out first.
Don't be the butt of someone's huge worldwide joke, be the smart person, and meanwhile pass the mysteries listed above along...it will give your friends something true and positive to think about!
Be smart, and RESEARCH the RIGHT WAY before you pass it along!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38823016/ns/technology_and_science-science/#.UTXxtVeg_FU
That is a cool mystery, one to have fun trying to figure out.
There are also reports of many mummies in the desert southwest over 7 feet tall.. Such beings are in many places all over the globe, including Egypt. They are all ancient and seem to be a part of an ancient race. Some say the Aztecs were one of these races. These were found all over the US including Tennessee.
This was at a time when nutrition wasn't all that great, and most people were around 5 feet tall or less. It is something to really think about, after all we do have "giants" today, they usually are in the NBA, but they exist. Are they part of those ancient races?
We can get voices on recorders that we can't hear with our ears.Are they the dead? People living in another dimension we can't see? What they say sometimes leads us to that explanation. Many are clear and they sure don't seem to be unhappy about where they are. They sometimes provide valuable information or information that can't be disputed.It is exciting to capture one of these voices.
So with some very cool mysteries out there, real things that make us wonder.People have a hard time buying into all the things I mentioned above, yet they are all true, all documented. They have been scientifically studied and many people have facts and theories about them. Yet many refuse to believe there is anything "strange" or unknown to them, that they are just things that can easily be explained away without using myths, legends, paranormal ideas.
Those same people however do something every day, or just about every day. They pass along untruths that in the here and now and are damaging to someone.They console themselves saying they are exposing truth, when in fact they are just passing along a story made up in some far away part of the world! Their reason for passing things along are totally misplaced. They usually aren't bad people, they are just on a path that sometimes blinds them to a belief or path that blinds them to other ideas, views, and even truth at times. These scams can be as simple as giving a recipe that will waste your time, as it won't work and tastes like cardboard; an act that just wastes your time; an email that makes you fear and act irrationally; slander on a public figure, group or organization. The Nation Enquirer used to be the sole proprietor of these tall tales, but then man invested the internet!
The latest going around is that Obama pays a trainer $100k of our money. Not true. It is simple as checking Snopes, urbanlegend, Fastcheck, or any other non biased source that researches these tall tales. There is one still going around about praying for Marines on a hilltop that they haven't been on in 5 years. There is another about a microchip having to be implanted for Obamacare. There is one about making "cooler corn" where the PCB's released will at the least make your corn taste like a cooler, and at the most can cause cancer or kill you. When you do these things, or pass them along to your email list or Facebook community, you create a web of untruth, and someone in the Mid East or Asia is laughing their butts off.
Most of these "helpful" and "informative" email start in the Mid East and Asia. Most of the scams that involve money begin in Nigeria. Not everyone uses a bomb or blows up a plane to hurt us, they use more subtle techniques. It is also a great way to see who is gullible. Gullible people then get preyed upon, and this is mostly in the online dating community. When catfish see that someone will believe anything, they zoom in and collect the cash that is willingly given them. Next time you pass along something without checking it out, think of how you are a pawn in the life of a person who hates Americans and thinks we are a bunch of idiots. They want us to hate our leaders, and life. People buy right into it .
There are so many really awesome mysteries out there. So much really exciting news, so many causes to support, so many wrongs to fight. Why waste time and energy and create a glob of crappy energy around you swimming in lies and what amounts to online practical jokes? Check the pages that are out there (and more and more are going on line every day), use them. They are free and will only take a minute of your time. That is better than creating an aura of untruth, gullibility, unrest and hate around yourself. Much better! Most people pass these things along thinking they are helping someone. They can REALLY help by checking it out first.
Don't be the butt of someone's huge worldwide joke, be the smart person, and meanwhile pass the mysteries listed above along...it will give your friends something true and positive to think about!
Be smart, and RESEARCH the RIGHT WAY before you pass it along!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Thursday, February 28, 2013
Stranded, the show.
Last night I watched Stranded, the new show on SyFy. I am not sure about it yet. I liked it, I loved the location. I think I will just have to wait and see.
The premise is that people are dropped off, stranded actually, at a haunted site. This group was on an island for 5 days in a haunted hotel. Things did happen, and sometimes they were investigated and sometimes not, depending on the level of fear in the participants. The location was good, the coverage (hidden cameras, etc), was excellent, and the premise is fun. The downside is that you don't get to really hear the EVPs collected (or the one last night was really faint), or see any evidence collected. It is more a show about people's reactions than haunted sites.
I do have to say it very much interested me on another level. The teacher, and the person in me that earned the psychology degree, were very much fascinated with it.Many times people want to go on these forays, thinking they either have watched all the ghost shows and this is not going to be bad, or that they are a skeptic (like one of the participants last night), and so it will be a piece of cake.
First let me say that most people are skeptical of what they fear. They don't want to believe something for a specific reason, not just because they are a walking, talking version of Dr Sheldon Cooper. They don't want to believe something can be standing over them , watching them, and walking around their attic at night, so it becomes the dog, the wind, the old creaking house.
The human interaction and reaction part of things, is pretty predictable after 4 plus years of psych study and work, but it was still fun to watch it happen.
The gal who was the so called "skeptic", was the most afraid, upset, and panicked person there. True skeptics wouldn't be scared, they would be showing you how that board fell because it wasn't propped up against the wall securely, or the window slides shut hard and fast, that is why it closed. She quivered, cried, and yelled for the man in the group to come and stay with her.
It makes good TV, but may not be for the strict "ghostie" types. I know a panicked person in your group at a site is entertaining for a few minutes, then that usually turns to annoying. You can't ghost hunt with a crying, quivering, complaining person....heck you can't even get decent EVPs. They talk constantly out of nervousness and subconsciously they are talking to make sure that they can't hear the voices that may be whispering in their ear. They can even cry, scream, and make themselves literally ill. It makes for an very unproductive and frustrating hunt at a certain point.
We make sure we take new folks where they can be in a large group, where people aren't paying a bunch of money (no one wants their $100 night at a haunted location ruined), and where they can learn to use different equipment in different settings. We train, and we never leave anyone alone. People can freak themselves out.
I thought the show was good, and it is certainly entertaining, but it is NOT a show to watch to learn about ghost hunting.It may not even be for the ghost show people, because it is about human reaction, not ghosts.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The premise is that people are dropped off, stranded actually, at a haunted site. This group was on an island for 5 days in a haunted hotel. Things did happen, and sometimes they were investigated and sometimes not, depending on the level of fear in the participants. The location was good, the coverage (hidden cameras, etc), was excellent, and the premise is fun. The downside is that you don't get to really hear the EVPs collected (or the one last night was really faint), or see any evidence collected. It is more a show about people's reactions than haunted sites.
I do have to say it very much interested me on another level. The teacher, and the person in me that earned the psychology degree, were very much fascinated with it.Many times people want to go on these forays, thinking they either have watched all the ghost shows and this is not going to be bad, or that they are a skeptic (like one of the participants last night), and so it will be a piece of cake.
First let me say that most people are skeptical of what they fear. They don't want to believe something for a specific reason, not just because they are a walking, talking version of Dr Sheldon Cooper. They don't want to believe something can be standing over them , watching them, and walking around their attic at night, so it becomes the dog, the wind, the old creaking house.
The human interaction and reaction part of things, is pretty predictable after 4 plus years of psych study and work, but it was still fun to watch it happen.
The gal who was the so called "skeptic", was the most afraid, upset, and panicked person there. True skeptics wouldn't be scared, they would be showing you how that board fell because it wasn't propped up against the wall securely, or the window slides shut hard and fast, that is why it closed. She quivered, cried, and yelled for the man in the group to come and stay with her.
It makes good TV, but may not be for the strict "ghostie" types. I know a panicked person in your group at a site is entertaining for a few minutes, then that usually turns to annoying. You can't ghost hunt with a crying, quivering, complaining person....heck you can't even get decent EVPs. They talk constantly out of nervousness and subconsciously they are talking to make sure that they can't hear the voices that may be whispering in their ear. They can even cry, scream, and make themselves literally ill. It makes for an very unproductive and frustrating hunt at a certain point.
We make sure we take new folks where they can be in a large group, where people aren't paying a bunch of money (no one wants their $100 night at a haunted location ruined), and where they can learn to use different equipment in different settings. We train, and we never leave anyone alone. People can freak themselves out.
I thought the show was good, and it is certainly entertaining, but it is NOT a show to watch to learn about ghost hunting.It may not even be for the ghost show people, because it is about human reaction, not ghosts.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
There IS always someone watching!
Last night a fellow reader and I were going back and forth in email, about how if people really grasped the idea of what was around them, then they would be afraid, embarrassed, or shamed in just about everything they do.
I frequently write about "your team". Your team is your guide, or guides, Angels, runners, helpers, totem animals, gatekeepers, and more. Then there are the other worldly beings that are not assigned to us, like spirits of family and friends; the other beings out there, like Black Shadow people; the dead, who we may NOT have known life.
You are never alone. Never. Your guide is around most of the time, if not only a second away to help. The same goes for all of your team, but one of them is always on guard when another is away. There are always spirits around us, even if they don't communicate or bother with us (anyone who lives in a haunted house will wish they had that type). Rarely does the "icky" stuff hang around you, they only do so when they are getting attention, when not, they prefer dark, quiet places where they can manipulate and plan about where to go and who to torment.
Your friends and family who have passed can check in on you. Some prefer to do that often, others have crossed all the way over and have no intention of checking back on you , unless you are in crisis. You may have a spirit of a loved one who hangs on and is always near by. That is when we frequently get into "hantings". You may also have a past home owner living side by side, never interfering until you rip out a wall, or replace their favorite cabinetry that the loved so much. People and objects can also be haunted, although that is more rare.
But someone is always around. Think of that in a good way, most of them mean you no harm , and actually are there to help. They watch and know you , the real you, the person you are when you think no one is watching. Your guide, angel and protectors are always watching, at least one of them is. They use your actions to decide your direction and lessons....and oh yes, Karma.
I remember being in a situation in a cemetery once where there were negative (as in non human icky stuff) entities surrounding us. It happens, not frequently, but it happens. I immediately pulled the group together and surrounded us with white light. I then called in help, and asked a gifted friend to watch our backs. We were in a bad spot. I am not sure what they were up to, but it wasn't good. They were circling and coming closer in. There were several of them and they were not afraid of us at all.
When I called for help, two giant Newfoundlands bounded through the circle out of nowhere.Those of you who are unfamiliar with Newfoundlands, they are a dog the size of a pony! The entities scattered, and their owner ran up saying that they had never done that before, and that she was sorry. I told her..."Not a problem". All the bad energy was gone, the dogs went home with the owner, and all was quiet, so quiet in fact that we didn't see ,hear or feel another thing all evening. Our protectors were all there doing an excellent job.
Sometimes that which is watching isn't a good thing, and that is why we need to always be the best we can be. When bad stuff sees a lot of bad behavior, it wants to be around that bad behavior. Especially people who do things to harm others in any way. They also love people who harm themselves. People who are alcoholics and drug addicts, frequently have these energies around them. It is so easy to take advantage and have fun.
You may have thought a good reason to be the best you can is because you have to answer for it some day. You are answering for it everyday. Guides and angels adapt your lessons and push harder when you don't get it, then Karma comes in. There is no escaping learning our lessons, that is our purpose to learn, and be higher in vibration and being. We then teach, and move ever higher.
You are never alone, but that really is not a bad thing. It may creep some people out, but remember that your team is only a thought away!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
cellent job.
I frequently write about "your team". Your team is your guide, or guides, Angels, runners, helpers, totem animals, gatekeepers, and more. Then there are the other worldly beings that are not assigned to us, like spirits of family and friends; the other beings out there, like Black Shadow people; the dead, who we may NOT have known life.
You are never alone. Never. Your guide is around most of the time, if not only a second away to help. The same goes for all of your team, but one of them is always on guard when another is away. There are always spirits around us, even if they don't communicate or bother with us (anyone who lives in a haunted house will wish they had that type). Rarely does the "icky" stuff hang around you, they only do so when they are getting attention, when not, they prefer dark, quiet places where they can manipulate and plan about where to go and who to torment.
Your friends and family who have passed can check in on you. Some prefer to do that often, others have crossed all the way over and have no intention of checking back on you , unless you are in crisis. You may have a spirit of a loved one who hangs on and is always near by. That is when we frequently get into "hantings". You may also have a past home owner living side by side, never interfering until you rip out a wall, or replace their favorite cabinetry that the loved so much. People and objects can also be haunted, although that is more rare.
But someone is always around. Think of that in a good way, most of them mean you no harm , and actually are there to help. They watch and know you , the real you, the person you are when you think no one is watching. Your guide, angel and protectors are always watching, at least one of them is. They use your actions to decide your direction and lessons....and oh yes, Karma.
I remember being in a situation in a cemetery once where there were negative (as in non human icky stuff) entities surrounding us. It happens, not frequently, but it happens. I immediately pulled the group together and surrounded us with white light. I then called in help, and asked a gifted friend to watch our backs. We were in a bad spot. I am not sure what they were up to, but it wasn't good. They were circling and coming closer in. There were several of them and they were not afraid of us at all.
When I called for help, two giant Newfoundlands bounded through the circle out of nowhere.Those of you who are unfamiliar with Newfoundlands, they are a dog the size of a pony! The entities scattered, and their owner ran up saying that they had never done that before, and that she was sorry. I told her..."Not a problem". All the bad energy was gone, the dogs went home with the owner, and all was quiet, so quiet in fact that we didn't see ,hear or feel another thing all evening. Our protectors were all there doing an excellent job.
Sometimes that which is watching isn't a good thing, and that is why we need to always be the best we can be. When bad stuff sees a lot of bad behavior, it wants to be around that bad behavior. Especially people who do things to harm others in any way. They also love people who harm themselves. People who are alcoholics and drug addicts, frequently have these energies around them. It is so easy to take advantage and have fun.
You may have thought a good reason to be the best you can is because you have to answer for it some day. You are answering for it everyday. Guides and angels adapt your lessons and push harder when you don't get it, then Karma comes in. There is no escaping learning our lessons, that is our purpose to learn, and be higher in vibration and being. We then teach, and move ever higher.
You are never alone, but that really is not a bad thing. It may creep some people out, but remember that your team is only a thought away!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Monday, February 25, 2013
Good and Bad of ghost hunting
This is a reprint of a blog from last year. It talks about the negative "stuff" out there in the energetic world that you need to be careful of. Please remember that what you see on ghost hunt shows is about 50% of what you need to know, 75% of "good" investigative information, not all valid, and edited to death (no pun intended). I heard of three negative ghost hunting experiences yesterday...the magic number, THREE! One had an outcome which was not good at all, resulting in someone getting physically hurt by a friend who either freaked out or was temporarily possessed. He is OK now, but it wasn't so great the other night for him.
It may seem like fun, but is it NOT a game, be careful out there!ONLY until you have a lot of experience, only ghost hunt with experienced people.
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People know of things like God, angels, demons, and maybe guides. They think that is the spectrum of what lives in that non visible world. In fact that is just scraping the surface. There is much more, good and "bad" out there. There is also a HUGE difference between "bad" and "Evil".
Much of my life has been spent knowing things, and seeing things, especially when I was younger. I had to force the door closed a bit and set up boundaries, as after a while it gets to be problematic. Yet, I have seen and "met" energies from other dimensions. It sounds all very Star Trek, but it isn't at all.
The most known besides angels and demons, is guides. Many people in the last few years have met their guides and use them for help when they are in situations in life that are difficult. We each have at least one, and it is a person who lived many lifetimes on this earth.They have experienced every human emotion, situation, and struggle. They were male, female, African American , European, Native American, and every other culture you can think of. They come to you with vast knowledge. They are beings who have progressed through lives, each one on this earth being more spiritual than the last. No guides were "bad people", or suicides, they don't get to guide others for obvious reasons!They may have had those experiences lifetimes ago, but not the most recent death.
There are other positive beings as well, they are helpers, runners, and animal spirits to name a few. All have a job, a purpose, and using them for those jobs makes your life easier. They are all ready and willing to help. They help in many ways from making difficult tasks easier, to helping you exhibit energy that will enable you to succeed.
The opposite side of the spectrum is more limited (thank goodness). There is a little more good in the world, at least there is supposed to be, to balance it out, the Law of Polarity demands it. That being said, there are not a bunch of demons hiding around every corner to attack you. When you have repeated "demon experiences" and you are not a Vatican Exorcist, seek medical / psychological attention. Seriously.
There are spirits who are "bad". They were horrible people in life (think of souls like Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, child molesters, crazy people, murderers and rapists), they are still horrible people in death. People do not become peaceful, and good unless they cross all the way over. When they don't , they are still the evil jerk they were, just without a body. When they are smart enough, or have been in that energy long enough, they can move things, and create actions in this dimension. So they can throw stones, scratch, harm, hurt. Just because something hurts you, doesn't make it a demon, it makes it a person who was a harmful evil jerk in life, who is he same in death. I am not sure where all the demon crap popularity came from, but I blame Ryan Buell and Paranormal State. Zak Bagans went through a "demon period" but thank goodness seems to be coming out of it. The odds of encountering a demon are ridiculous. A billion to one would probably be giving way too much credit to the demons.....
There are also beings who are originally from other dimensions, and they are , by our standards half mad (as in insane), ugly, half formed things with little power or intelligence. They look like a mixture of real and imagined animals and creatures, some with human features. They aren't demons either, although if you see one, I am sure that thought will come automatically into your head. Some of these are also capable of manipulating energy in this world, although their main power is in their hideous appearance.
There are black shadow people. There are three kinds of BSP, and none of them are demons. Being black, we associate them with darkness and evil. They are nothing of the kind. Their strong energy can overtake us, make us feel ill, and even do things we wouldn't normally do. They cannot manipulate our world for whatever reason, but they sure can make you feel bad and startle the crap out of you, but they aren't Evil.
One type of BSP is a spirit who is trying to manifest and cannot get up enough energy to appear as they did in life. A second group seems to be studying us as much as we do them. They never speak, they just watch. A third are very fast moving beings who center around haunted sites. From what I gather from my research and experience they are protectors of the dead. Maybe even pyschopomps. They are certainly beings on a mission and are of all kinds of shapes and sizes. All kinds of BSP can move through solid objects, defy gravity, and morph into other shapes.Sometimes "regular" spirits can shadow themselves and try to present themselves as BSP. Any demon can also do that, so it is wise to be careful around such entities. Mostly trust how you feel, and if it is not good , move! (Which is good advice anyway).
There are orbs, balls of energy that zip around. No one is exactly sure what they are as they do not communicate with us. Theories go from spirits in a certain state, to mass transit for many souls to move together at once. I am sure that someday we will know for sure.
I wrote of psychopomps. They are beings who help gather up lost souls and try to get them to cross over. They herd the dead , to be blunt. Sometimes part of the herd gets away, they won't chase you down, you still have free will in death. I believe BSP can be and are psychopomps, among other things.
There are also Ascended Masters, Master teachers, Nature Spirits, Constructs, Elementals and the Godhead. There is a lot out there.There is no reason to fear it. The good ALWAYS out powers the bad, God/Creator/The Universe is ALWAYS in charge. The only way to be taken over by a demon is to somehow welcome them in. ALWAYS. Some people do it unknowingly through drugs, alcohol, or mental illness. Some do it through dabbling in the black arts. Some are physical mediums and can be overtaken, but most physical mediums have many protection "firewalls" set up to keep that from happening. It is always a door you have to open first!
So when a place feels creepy, makes you feel ill, or you get scratched or harmed in some way, it doesn't mean there is a demon inside. Many spirits will use "demon" tactics to scare you away as they want to be left alone. They easily fool the inexperienced.This does however mean that there is an entity that at least wants your energy, and a wise ghost hunter knows how to control that. It can also mean an entity that wants MORE than just some of your energy. Be aware that those who can manipulate the environment are very strong indeed, and it is a wise ghost hunter who doesn't provoke or mess with them.
Be aware that if you do not know what you are doing, they can attach to you, possess you , or follow you home. The dangers of ghost hunting are real, and that is why I always recommend only ghost hunting for the first time with an experienced ghost hunter. NEVER investigate in any way in your own home. Since you are always there a spirit can take that as a constant invitation to play!
Christopher Penczak puts is clearly " I do believe in harmful forces in the Universe. I believe in a need for protection and awareness. I believe in entities who have fallen away from any connection with life and the creative force. Evil exists, but evil comes from fear and anger, the absence of love and forgiveness...they play off our own fear and images of evil...Spirits appear as devils, demons and other nightmarish creatures.They play on our movie mythology and horror novels. Demons come from disenchanted spirits seeking a power they never had. They do not force you into harm unless you choose it. Do not give them that much credit. "
Use common sense, and use protection, spirits can attach to you , go home with you and make your life a living hell of no sleep and hidden car keys. When you think spirits are cute or entertaining in your home, you will soon find that they become stronger and start to take over.
Be mindful and careful of situations that you enter into. Be also VERY mindful of people who claim to have demon fights every day. Be safe, smart, and always stay in the white light of protection.
Happy hunting!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2012 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
It may seem like fun, but is it NOT a game, be careful out there!ONLY until you have a lot of experience, only ghost hunt with experienced people.
**********************************************************************
People know of things like God, angels, demons, and maybe guides. They think that is the spectrum of what lives in that non visible world. In fact that is just scraping the surface. There is much more, good and "bad" out there. There is also a HUGE difference between "bad" and "Evil".
Much of my life has been spent knowing things, and seeing things, especially when I was younger. I had to force the door closed a bit and set up boundaries, as after a while it gets to be problematic. Yet, I have seen and "met" energies from other dimensions. It sounds all very Star Trek, but it isn't at all.
The most known besides angels and demons, is guides. Many people in the last few years have met their guides and use them for help when they are in situations in life that are difficult. We each have at least one, and it is a person who lived many lifetimes on this earth.They have experienced every human emotion, situation, and struggle. They were male, female, African American , European, Native American, and every other culture you can think of. They come to you with vast knowledge. They are beings who have progressed through lives, each one on this earth being more spiritual than the last. No guides were "bad people", or suicides, they don't get to guide others for obvious reasons!They may have had those experiences lifetimes ago, but not the most recent death.
There are other positive beings as well, they are helpers, runners, and animal spirits to name a few. All have a job, a purpose, and using them for those jobs makes your life easier. They are all ready and willing to help. They help in many ways from making difficult tasks easier, to helping you exhibit energy that will enable you to succeed.
The opposite side of the spectrum is more limited (thank goodness). There is a little more good in the world, at least there is supposed to be, to balance it out, the Law of Polarity demands it. That being said, there are not a bunch of demons hiding around every corner to attack you. When you have repeated "demon experiences" and you are not a Vatican Exorcist, seek medical / psychological attention. Seriously.
There are spirits who are "bad". They were horrible people in life (think of souls like Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, child molesters, crazy people, murderers and rapists), they are still horrible people in death. People do not become peaceful, and good unless they cross all the way over. When they don't , they are still the evil jerk they were, just without a body. When they are smart enough, or have been in that energy long enough, they can move things, and create actions in this dimension. So they can throw stones, scratch, harm, hurt. Just because something hurts you, doesn't make it a demon, it makes it a person who was a harmful evil jerk in life, who is he same in death. I am not sure where all the demon crap popularity came from, but I blame Ryan Buell and Paranormal State. Zak Bagans went through a "demon period" but thank goodness seems to be coming out of it. The odds of encountering a demon are ridiculous. A billion to one would probably be giving way too much credit to the demons.....
There are also beings who are originally from other dimensions, and they are , by our standards half mad (as in insane), ugly, half formed things with little power or intelligence. They look like a mixture of real and imagined animals and creatures, some with human features. They aren't demons either, although if you see one, I am sure that thought will come automatically into your head. Some of these are also capable of manipulating energy in this world, although their main power is in their hideous appearance.
There are black shadow people. There are three kinds of BSP, and none of them are demons. Being black, we associate them with darkness and evil. They are nothing of the kind. Their strong energy can overtake us, make us feel ill, and even do things we wouldn't normally do. They cannot manipulate our world for whatever reason, but they sure can make you feel bad and startle the crap out of you, but they aren't Evil.
One type of BSP is a spirit who is trying to manifest and cannot get up enough energy to appear as they did in life. A second group seems to be studying us as much as we do them. They never speak, they just watch. A third are very fast moving beings who center around haunted sites. From what I gather from my research and experience they are protectors of the dead. Maybe even pyschopomps. They are certainly beings on a mission and are of all kinds of shapes and sizes. All kinds of BSP can move through solid objects, defy gravity, and morph into other shapes.Sometimes "regular" spirits can shadow themselves and try to present themselves as BSP. Any demon can also do that, so it is wise to be careful around such entities. Mostly trust how you feel, and if it is not good , move! (Which is good advice anyway).
There are orbs, balls of energy that zip around. No one is exactly sure what they are as they do not communicate with us. Theories go from spirits in a certain state, to mass transit for many souls to move together at once. I am sure that someday we will know for sure.
I wrote of psychopomps. They are beings who help gather up lost souls and try to get them to cross over. They herd the dead , to be blunt. Sometimes part of the herd gets away, they won't chase you down, you still have free will in death. I believe BSP can be and are psychopomps, among other things.
There are also Ascended Masters, Master teachers, Nature Spirits, Constructs, Elementals and the Godhead. There is a lot out there.There is no reason to fear it. The good ALWAYS out powers the bad, God/Creator/The Universe is ALWAYS in charge. The only way to be taken over by a demon is to somehow welcome them in. ALWAYS. Some people do it unknowingly through drugs, alcohol, or mental illness. Some do it through dabbling in the black arts. Some are physical mediums and can be overtaken, but most physical mediums have many protection "firewalls" set up to keep that from happening. It is always a door you have to open first!
So when a place feels creepy, makes you feel ill, or you get scratched or harmed in some way, it doesn't mean there is a demon inside. Many spirits will use "demon" tactics to scare you away as they want to be left alone. They easily fool the inexperienced.This does however mean that there is an entity that at least wants your energy, and a wise ghost hunter knows how to control that. It can also mean an entity that wants MORE than just some of your energy. Be aware that those who can manipulate the environment are very strong indeed, and it is a wise ghost hunter who doesn't provoke or mess with them.
Be aware that if you do not know what you are doing, they can attach to you, possess you , or follow you home. The dangers of ghost hunting are real, and that is why I always recommend only ghost hunting for the first time with an experienced ghost hunter. NEVER investigate in any way in your own home. Since you are always there a spirit can take that as a constant invitation to play!
Christopher Penczak puts is clearly " I do believe in harmful forces in the Universe. I believe in a need for protection and awareness. I believe in entities who have fallen away from any connection with life and the creative force. Evil exists, but evil comes from fear and anger, the absence of love and forgiveness...they play off our own fear and images of evil...Spirits appear as devils, demons and other nightmarish creatures.They play on our movie mythology and horror novels. Demons come from disenchanted spirits seeking a power they never had. They do not force you into harm unless you choose it. Do not give them that much credit. "
Use common sense, and use protection, spirits can attach to you , go home with you and make your life a living hell of no sleep and hidden car keys. When you think spirits are cute or entertaining in your home, you will soon find that they become stronger and start to take over.
Be mindful and careful of situations that you enter into. Be also VERY mindful of people who claim to have demon fights every day. Be safe, smart, and always stay in the white light of protection.
Happy hunting!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2012 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Ordained minister & Higher Education
I had a question a few weeks back on becoming an ordained minister. There is the easy way....pay your money and get your piece of paper...and the hard way, do the work.
The program I took was 6 months. It involved not only the pastoral counseling end of things, but is one of the only schools that is truly accredited (and I will talk about that in a minute), and not only teaches you, but tests you, and yes you have to pass the test. It isn't cheap (the good stuff never is), but it is worth it. They preferred people with a degree already in psychology or some type of genre that included counseling, social services or medical training. This was to prevent people from doing counseling that NEED a LOT of training and a counselor themselves.
When you are an authentic ordained minister you will have to fill out monthly reports as to what your ministry is doing, and you need to pay a fee, called dues. The fee is low, it is simply for processing the reports. You not only have to be schooled, and ordained, but current on your dues to be an authentic ordained minister. In other words, if you took the courses and then never registered, filled out reports and paid your dues, you are not an ordained minister.If you paid your dues for a year , and then let them slide, you are not an ordained minister.
When you are going to use this training to perform ceremonies, counsel or work in the metaphysical field, you best know what you are doing! There is MUCH to learn and that is why REAL courses take so long. There is usually also direct interaction, in other words, it is not all completed over the internet, most schools want to evaluate YOU. Are you capable, sane, realistic? They need to know YOU. There are some totally on line authentic sources, but they are very few and far between.
Back to the accreditation part of things. Being an accredited school means that the school is registered as a higher learning institution with the US government. They had to follow certain guidelines to register. The reason is that this authenticates your "piece of paper", it also means that the school meets all the guidelines for an institution of higher learning. It keeps people frm paying for a useless degree.
The reason the government is involved is so that a person in California can know the guidelines in his school he attends in Georgia are the same. His degree isn't just good for a job in Georgia, it is good all over the US. It also means that you can get government loans to attend that school.Most importantly you are getting a QUALITY education. Only accredited schools can get government student loans.
The National Council for Higher Education is the governing body. There are then regional groups that oversee their areas, like the New England Association. They make sure that the school, faculty, and materials are quality, authentic, current, and that admission requirements are followed. It is important to make sure that your school is accredited. It makes that "piece of paper" something more than a tool to start a campfire, and it allows you to transfer credits to an accredited school, otherwise when you find out your school isn't accredited, all the work you did is wasted.
There are many "schools" out there that say they are accredited, then when you read the small print, they will say that they really aren't. They legally have to. Seriously. It is amazing what some places will try to get away with. Make sure that they don't have in the small print, that they really aren't accredited in Washington. You will see that frequently. They are hoping people won't read it or understand what it means and gloss over it.
Major universities and colleges are accredited, and each school has to go through a program to obtain that accreditation. They also go through periodic review. A little side note, there is a difference between a college and university. A community college only offers certificates and two year studies. A college offers bachelor's degrees, and a university offers higher learning, masters and doctorate degrees.
Please do not go online and get a degree that you cannot use. Most online schools are bogus. There are good college extensions online. A good example is The University of Phoenix. There are certain "hands on" classes that will not, and cannot be done online, for example, you can't become a medical doctor or nurse on line. You need hands on. There is no quick, cheap and easy way to real education.
Check out your school before putting down a dime, many people have been ripped off recently by "schools" that have no accreditation, and therefore no standing in the community. They make that piece of paper worthless. Check with the U.S. Department of Education if you are not sure (http://www.ed.gov/).
Happy Learning!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior permission.
The program I took was 6 months. It involved not only the pastoral counseling end of things, but is one of the only schools that is truly accredited (and I will talk about that in a minute), and not only teaches you, but tests you, and yes you have to pass the test. It isn't cheap (the good stuff never is), but it is worth it. They preferred people with a degree already in psychology or some type of genre that included counseling, social services or medical training. This was to prevent people from doing counseling that NEED a LOT of training and a counselor themselves.
When you are an authentic ordained minister you will have to fill out monthly reports as to what your ministry is doing, and you need to pay a fee, called dues. The fee is low, it is simply for processing the reports. You not only have to be schooled, and ordained, but current on your dues to be an authentic ordained minister. In other words, if you took the courses and then never registered, filled out reports and paid your dues, you are not an ordained minister.If you paid your dues for a year , and then let them slide, you are not an ordained minister.
When you are going to use this training to perform ceremonies, counsel or work in the metaphysical field, you best know what you are doing! There is MUCH to learn and that is why REAL courses take so long. There is usually also direct interaction, in other words, it is not all completed over the internet, most schools want to evaluate YOU. Are you capable, sane, realistic? They need to know YOU. There are some totally on line authentic sources, but they are very few and far between.
Back to the accreditation part of things. Being an accredited school means that the school is registered as a higher learning institution with the US government. They had to follow certain guidelines to register. The reason is that this authenticates your "piece of paper", it also means that the school meets all the guidelines for an institution of higher learning. It keeps people frm paying for a useless degree.
The reason the government is involved is so that a person in California can know the guidelines in his school he attends in Georgia are the same. His degree isn't just good for a job in Georgia, it is good all over the US. It also means that you can get government loans to attend that school.Most importantly you are getting a QUALITY education. Only accredited schools can get government student loans.
The National Council for Higher Education is the governing body. There are then regional groups that oversee their areas, like the New England Association. They make sure that the school, faculty, and materials are quality, authentic, current, and that admission requirements are followed. It is important to make sure that your school is accredited. It makes that "piece of paper" something more than a tool to start a campfire, and it allows you to transfer credits to an accredited school, otherwise when you find out your school isn't accredited, all the work you did is wasted.
There are many "schools" out there that say they are accredited, then when you read the small print, they will say that they really aren't. They legally have to. Seriously. It is amazing what some places will try to get away with. Make sure that they don't have in the small print, that they really aren't accredited in Washington. You will see that frequently. They are hoping people won't read it or understand what it means and gloss over it.
Major universities and colleges are accredited, and each school has to go through a program to obtain that accreditation. They also go through periodic review. A little side note, there is a difference between a college and university. A community college only offers certificates and two year studies. A college offers bachelor's degrees, and a university offers higher learning, masters and doctorate degrees.
Please do not go online and get a degree that you cannot use. Most online schools are bogus. There are good college extensions online. A good example is The University of Phoenix. There are certain "hands on" classes that will not, and cannot be done online, for example, you can't become a medical doctor or nurse on line. You need hands on. There is no quick, cheap and easy way to real education.
Check out your school before putting down a dime, many people have been ripped off recently by "schools" that have no accreditation, and therefore no standing in the community. They make that piece of paper worthless. Check with the U.S. Department of Education if you are not sure (http://www.ed.gov/).
Happy Learning!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2013 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior permission.
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