When we talk about going to haunted locations, we get a mix of responses. One is "You believe in that stuff?" The second is "Why bother the dead?". The third is "Can we come too!?"
The first answer is" absolutely" . I have had too many direct experiences that happened WAY before the creation of TAPS and GAC that were pretty convincing. Then I learned about how to communicate with my guides, and the information I garnered was very valuable.
Question two, "why bother the dead"? Why do people think the dead are being bothered? Many approach people, come into their homes and even cause issues. When they cause issues we send them on their way, just as you would any misbehaving or unwanted guest. I would say from experience MOST spirits we have communicated with aren't bothered at all. They want to communicate, and many cannot see, hear or feel them...or are afraid of them, so their opportunities are limited. Some do want to be left alone, and we do leave them alone unless they are causing distress to someone living. Then we either make a deal with them to behave, or oust them.
The dead are the same people they were in life. The talkative, friendly, active people are still the same and have no problem interacting with you. The grouchy, nasty, unfriendly ones, are also still the same and either won't interact, or will be negative.
When we are told "we don't want to talk", we move on. We do not EVER provoke, demand, or force answers from spirits. We know we wouldn't want someone coming into our home and treating us like that, so we don't treat them like that.
Question three, "can we go too?" . The answer is "maybe". I have seen people come and go, they either get scared, feel guilty, worry about things following them home (which can be an issue if you don't know what you are doing), or act so badly that they ruin an investigation ( the biggest issue). Currently we have a group that votes members in, and they have to have experience. That doesn't mean we won't go on "ghost walks" and teach people, but we do not invite them on investigations, especially to client's homes.
When you visit a haunted location, please be respectful. How would you like it if a group of people barged in your front door and demanded answers from you? The "do unto others" rule applies to the dead also.
Remember also that the dead are active in the daytime, they are around you always, they are just who they were when they were alive, you just can't see them (unless you are a medium). Make sure that you treat them well, but if they "act up" treat them like a child who needs instruction or an intruder in your home, depending on the situation and severity. Make sure that when you need help, that you get qualified help.
Ghosts ARE people too.....
Do the right things for the right reasons!
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Thursday, January 30, 2014
Thursday, January 16, 2014
ASSUME.....well you know how that goes
Yesterday was a day that was full of people assuming things and making their life worse for it.
There are so many times when a small issue can be quickly cleared up, but instead is made into Mount Everest. The way to keep this from happening? Simple, ask a question.
How many situation comedies are based on someone seeing , hearing or experiencing something that they get the wrong idea about?You as the audience know, as you are privy to the actions the "assumer" didn't get to see, and you laugh your way through the show watching them make a fool out of themselves.
How many times in real life have you been that fool?
This life is school. We are here to learn to show our achievements (or failures so we can be taught again). We are here to communicate with , teach and learn from others. Instead of assuming the worse about people, assume nothing.
Here are two examples from the past 48 hours.
A woman sees on her boyfriend's phone a text to a female saying "You are beautiful". She had not time to read others....just that one. I looked and found it to be to a family member. I can think of other scenarios where someone may text this and it doesn't mean that he is having sex with her. I told my secretary this once when she helped solve a huge problem for me....so does that make me a lesbian? People let their minds go to places of their own insecurity. This lady I am talking about went totally insecure and almost messed up a great thing..
First of all , remember Shakespeare's words. "Peek not through the keyhole lest you be vexed".(King Lear)
In other words, when you are nosy, you may find something you don't like, and it may be about you. You may find something that you totally do not understand and worry about that is totally nothing at all. We find what we look for. When we look for negative in the world, we find it. When we look for positive in the same world, we find it. Train yourself to look for positive.
Getting back to the lady with the phone...her boyfriend was texting his 10 year old daughter who was being picked on in school. She met his daughter, and lo and behold, it was her name on the text.....
The next issue was a person who had made a mistake in life, she felt very guilty about it and was having trouble reconciling the event. During an argument with her boyfriend, he said to her that another male friend (who the boyfriend was jealous of), had told everyone of her mistake she made in life. It worked, she shut that man out of her life.
The problem, the man friend never said it, never told anyone, he was a friend of hers when this event happened, and the boyfriend wasn't even around yet. She found out when the boyfriend confessed to her after the old friend was cut out a few weeks. Her "wonderful" boyfriend was gloating over how vulnerable she was, he was "showing her" that she needed him becasue she couldn't make sound decisions on her own. Apparently her "picking boyfriend abilities" aren't that sharp. I told her to ditch him....she did. She and the old friend are friends again.
I have said it in many blogs. When you have an issue with someone talk to THEM about it. You can get other people's opinions, but ALWAYS make sure that you talk to the person who you think wronged you.You may find out that you are assuming.....the wrong thing.When they won't talk to you, that is OK, it's their funeral.
Someone asked me last night what I would do if a person I knew , assumed something untrue about me. I said...Let them go. I have done it and will do it again. I have done it recently.
When a person who is close to you in some manner, assumes something bad or negative about you and doesn't bother to stop a moment and ask you about it, then good riddance. I don't need people like that in my life. I have better things to do and better people to associate with. I have done it a few times now, in my life. I would do it again. I have no problem weeding my garden.
Make sure you always ASK, not ASSUME. It will keep you from stressing over things, it will help you make the right decision, and it will keep you from looking like a total fool.
Don't be the star of your own situational comedy!
Do unto others...
and
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
There are so many times when a small issue can be quickly cleared up, but instead is made into Mount Everest. The way to keep this from happening? Simple, ask a question.
How many situation comedies are based on someone seeing , hearing or experiencing something that they get the wrong idea about?You as the audience know, as you are privy to the actions the "assumer" didn't get to see, and you laugh your way through the show watching them make a fool out of themselves.
How many times in real life have you been that fool?
This life is school. We are here to learn to show our achievements (or failures so we can be taught again). We are here to communicate with , teach and learn from others. Instead of assuming the worse about people, assume nothing.
Here are two examples from the past 48 hours.
A woman sees on her boyfriend's phone a text to a female saying "You are beautiful". She had not time to read others....just that one. I looked and found it to be to a family member. I can think of other scenarios where someone may text this and it doesn't mean that he is having sex with her. I told my secretary this once when she helped solve a huge problem for me....so does that make me a lesbian? People let their minds go to places of their own insecurity. This lady I am talking about went totally insecure and almost messed up a great thing..
First of all , remember Shakespeare's words. "Peek not through the keyhole lest you be vexed".(King Lear)
In other words, when you are nosy, you may find something you don't like, and it may be about you. You may find something that you totally do not understand and worry about that is totally nothing at all. We find what we look for. When we look for negative in the world, we find it. When we look for positive in the same world, we find it. Train yourself to look for positive.
Getting back to the lady with the phone...her boyfriend was texting his 10 year old daughter who was being picked on in school. She met his daughter, and lo and behold, it was her name on the text.....
The next issue was a person who had made a mistake in life, she felt very guilty about it and was having trouble reconciling the event. During an argument with her boyfriend, he said to her that another male friend (who the boyfriend was jealous of), had told everyone of her mistake she made in life. It worked, she shut that man out of her life.
The problem, the man friend never said it, never told anyone, he was a friend of hers when this event happened, and the boyfriend wasn't even around yet. She found out when the boyfriend confessed to her after the old friend was cut out a few weeks. Her "wonderful" boyfriend was gloating over how vulnerable she was, he was "showing her" that she needed him becasue she couldn't make sound decisions on her own. Apparently her "picking boyfriend abilities" aren't that sharp. I told her to ditch him....she did. She and the old friend are friends again.
I have said it in many blogs. When you have an issue with someone talk to THEM about it. You can get other people's opinions, but ALWAYS make sure that you talk to the person who you think wronged you.You may find out that you are assuming.....the wrong thing.When they won't talk to you, that is OK, it's their funeral.
Someone asked me last night what I would do if a person I knew , assumed something untrue about me. I said...Let them go. I have done it and will do it again. I have done it recently.
When a person who is close to you in some manner, assumes something bad or negative about you and doesn't bother to stop a moment and ask you about it, then good riddance. I don't need people like that in my life. I have better things to do and better people to associate with. I have done it a few times now, in my life. I would do it again. I have no problem weeding my garden.
Make sure you always ASK, not ASSUME. It will keep you from stressing over things, it will help you make the right decision, and it will keep you from looking like a total fool.
Don't be the star of your own situational comedy!
Do unto others...
and
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Thursday, January 9, 2014
It is all relative
I notice that the media (and especially the social media), like to use blanket statements about all kinds of different things , that they state as facts. I have yet to see a Facebook posting that has a full honest statement on it. It is always someone adjusting little snippets of almost truth to prove a point. That is very hard to do when there is little to no factual information in the statement, but people don't seem to care. Then people read it, think it is cool, and pass it on as fact.
The finer points of information in the mundane world are easier to show proof or to negate. When someone makes a statement like "the highest cost of living occurs in Moscow, Russia", it is easy to check that out (and that is true by the way). You can research and find lists of cities worldwide. When you have a statement like "workers in Norway make the best products because they are the highest paid in the world", you are treading in dangerous territory. Firstly I want to say that I made that up, but let's for a moment assume I did not. Where is the proof that their high pay is the reason that they make better product? Maybe it is their technology. Maybe they are raised differently with a value and pride in their work. Maybe they are the highest paid, but maybe they live in the country with the highest cost of living, so they aren't feeling so "well paid" and passing that feeling on to the work. When you make $10 an hour and a loaf of bread is .85 cents, you have a better cost of living than a country where you make $20.00 and hour, but a loaf of bread costs $3.00.
It is all relative.
The same goes with the spiritual or metaphysical world. A prime example is that people think that you have to be clairvoyant to be psychic. Not true. That is like saying you have to be a center Hall Colonial to be a house. A clairvoyant is a a type of psychic. Clairvoyants easily get messages through images they have to interpret. Sometimes the image is a archetype, and other times a specific image. It is a rare person indeed who is able to get messages the way you see on TV, that is by watching a scene play out.
The problem on the metaphysical side is unlike the mundane, where we can get a specific answer, we are many times left to "figure it out". This is why the beat paranormal investigators have a big touch of skepticism. Remember, an EVP does not a haunted building make....and many times weird photos are simply weird photos. They can be common things that are caught looking "uncommon". Bouncing raindrops in the right light, look like little fireballs coming out of the earth.
Whenever someone uses a statement including words like "best", "most", "always", be careful. RESEARCH before passing anything on.
Social media is the worst place to find facts, and should always be read with a healthy dose of skepticism. I had a friend one day pass along a "cleaning" hint that involved heating ammonia....when you heat ammonia, it explodes. It is what people make bombs out of (ammonium nitrate). It would take your breath away , make you pass out, and you probably wouldn't feel the explosion...but that is the type of stuff that is posted on Facebook.
An intelligent person is not one who has memorized a bunch of facts, but one who can think for themselves. It is a person who looks for answers, isn't gullible, and who knows how to properly research. Make sure that you are one of those if you are in the paranormal, metaphysical , or mundane community.
Check it out before passing it on!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The finer points of information in the mundane world are easier to show proof or to negate. When someone makes a statement like "the highest cost of living occurs in Moscow, Russia", it is easy to check that out (and that is true by the way). You can research and find lists of cities worldwide. When you have a statement like "workers in Norway make the best products because they are the highest paid in the world", you are treading in dangerous territory. Firstly I want to say that I made that up, but let's for a moment assume I did not. Where is the proof that their high pay is the reason that they make better product? Maybe it is their technology. Maybe they are raised differently with a value and pride in their work. Maybe they are the highest paid, but maybe they live in the country with the highest cost of living, so they aren't feeling so "well paid" and passing that feeling on to the work. When you make $10 an hour and a loaf of bread is .85 cents, you have a better cost of living than a country where you make $20.00 and hour, but a loaf of bread costs $3.00.
It is all relative.
The same goes with the spiritual or metaphysical world. A prime example is that people think that you have to be clairvoyant to be psychic. Not true. That is like saying you have to be a center Hall Colonial to be a house. A clairvoyant is a a type of psychic. Clairvoyants easily get messages through images they have to interpret. Sometimes the image is a archetype, and other times a specific image. It is a rare person indeed who is able to get messages the way you see on TV, that is by watching a scene play out.
The problem on the metaphysical side is unlike the mundane, where we can get a specific answer, we are many times left to "figure it out". This is why the beat paranormal investigators have a big touch of skepticism. Remember, an EVP does not a haunted building make....and many times weird photos are simply weird photos. They can be common things that are caught looking "uncommon". Bouncing raindrops in the right light, look like little fireballs coming out of the earth.
Whenever someone uses a statement including words like "best", "most", "always", be careful. RESEARCH before passing anything on.
Social media is the worst place to find facts, and should always be read with a healthy dose of skepticism. I had a friend one day pass along a "cleaning" hint that involved heating ammonia....when you heat ammonia, it explodes. It is what people make bombs out of (ammonium nitrate). It would take your breath away , make you pass out, and you probably wouldn't feel the explosion...but that is the type of stuff that is posted on Facebook.
An intelligent person is not one who has memorized a bunch of facts, but one who can think for themselves. It is a person who looks for answers, isn't gullible, and who knows how to properly research. Make sure that you are one of those if you are in the paranormal, metaphysical , or mundane community.
Check it out before passing it on!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Happy 2014
I would like to start by saying that I am sorry that there has not been much blogging lately. I always "take of" between Christmas and New Year, but it was extended this year because we sold our home, bought a home, and helped move a raptor program (which involved building new mews). This was compounded by the usually Christmas celebrations that included a trip to an airport that is 2 hours from home...that was 4 car rides for a total of over 8 hours spent driving. Now it it time to get back to business....so here we go!
2014. The world is changing. Each year many exit at the end of the year, and this year that was even more evident in my personal life than last year. Each year the veil gets thinner, people who are "walking their talk" get rewarded even more, and people who are not doing the right things, get taught even more. Karma is working her way more strongly than ever. It isn't instant in many cases, but it is timely, and many are seeing big changes. Please remember that Karma is a TEACHER not a PUNISHMENT.
Those who are not only doing the right things, but manifesting correctly and working with their team, are getting amazing results. The Universe is listening and depending on what you are doing or saying, that is a good thing or bad thing.
A few years ago, I coined the phrase "Do the right things or the right reasons". It is a simple statement for life, and how to make the right choices everyday. It makes the decision easy, maybe not the action of it, but the decision part is simple. It is even more important today than it was when I first typed it on this blog. It is exponentially more important today.
This year I was slow in making changes with people, I was trying to slowly and gently back out of a group, the Universe thought I took to long and gave me incentive in words and actions of others that were reprehensible. I wrote about it in an earlier blog, so I won't go over it again here, but it was a shining example of how our way of doing things, and the Universe's way can sometimes differ. My way was too slow for the Universe (and I realize now why that was too slow), so it sped me up. This will be another year o "weeding the garden", what we do not weed out, the Universe will, it is still in action and even more active than in the past.
This year I will again be teaching reiki, it's energy seems to grow more powerful by the day, and it is an awesome healer. I will not waste time with people that I know are using me, and I will not allow myself to be sympathetic to those who deserve no sympathy, it sounds harsh, but it is a reality. "Helping" means giving a hand, or showing others how to do things differently, it does not mean "doing it for them repetitively".
Make sure that you are growing and fostering growth in others.
Have a safe, happy and healthy 2014!
Always do the best you can with the right intent. Keep searching out knowledge and learn as much as you can! Always do the right things for the right reasons!~
Love and Light this 2014
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf.
2014. The world is changing. Each year many exit at the end of the year, and this year that was even more evident in my personal life than last year. Each year the veil gets thinner, people who are "walking their talk" get rewarded even more, and people who are not doing the right things, get taught even more. Karma is working her way more strongly than ever. It isn't instant in many cases, but it is timely, and many are seeing big changes. Please remember that Karma is a TEACHER not a PUNISHMENT.
Those who are not only doing the right things, but manifesting correctly and working with their team, are getting amazing results. The Universe is listening and depending on what you are doing or saying, that is a good thing or bad thing.
A few years ago, I coined the phrase "Do the right things or the right reasons". It is a simple statement for life, and how to make the right choices everyday. It makes the decision easy, maybe not the action of it, but the decision part is simple. It is even more important today than it was when I first typed it on this blog. It is exponentially more important today.
This year I was slow in making changes with people, I was trying to slowly and gently back out of a group, the Universe thought I took to long and gave me incentive in words and actions of others that were reprehensible. I wrote about it in an earlier blog, so I won't go over it again here, but it was a shining example of how our way of doing things, and the Universe's way can sometimes differ. My way was too slow for the Universe (and I realize now why that was too slow), so it sped me up. This will be another year o "weeding the garden", what we do not weed out, the Universe will, it is still in action and even more active than in the past.
This year I will again be teaching reiki, it's energy seems to grow more powerful by the day, and it is an awesome healer. I will not waste time with people that I know are using me, and I will not allow myself to be sympathetic to those who deserve no sympathy, it sounds harsh, but it is a reality. "Helping" means giving a hand, or showing others how to do things differently, it does not mean "doing it for them repetitively".
Make sure that you are growing and fostering growth in others.
Have a safe, happy and healthy 2014!
Always do the best you can with the right intent. Keep searching out knowledge and learn as much as you can! Always do the right things for the right reasons!~
Love and Light this 2014
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
...and then what?
The hot thing to do these days is "ghost hunt"...we who know what we are doing, prefer the term paranormal investigations. Everyone with a few dollars and a little nerve can get in on the excitement, which is fine...to a point.
The past 30 years or so , I have spent learning about the paranormal. I am not just talking ghosts and haunting, but all of it. Energy work, healing, cleansing, the psychic world, belief systems of the world, ancient religions, other beings (like black shadow people, earth spirits) ley lines, dowsing, and on and on and on.
There is so much there that is interconnected and effecting other aspects of each other.
When you go to a home to investigate, just getting a noise, an EVP, or seeing a shadow, doesn't tell you a thing. Seeing these things doesn't even mean a home is haunted, and if you provoke activity, the place may not even be haunted at all! You have to know or find out many things. First, is there a haunting, a genuine haunting? I have said many times, every house has a spirit or two. We carry them with us all the time in the form of guides. When people say their kids are talking to their invisible friends, it doesn't necessarily mean "ghosts", it could well be their guides. We cannot ever enter a building and there not be a spirit in that building since we carry them in all the time.
When we decide there is something going on, it still doesn't mean a haunting. A haunting requires consistent and continual activity that stays at the same level or increases, otherwise you simply have had spirit activity, or paranormal phenomenon.
Then you have to fine tune that a bit, for example, is the activity intelligent, residual, poltergeist , nature spirits or negative? You need to know how to figure all this out, and better yet, you need to know WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
When families are scared or having issues, just leaving that night saying "Yup, it's haunted" doesn't help them.
You have to be able to advise them or directly help them. You need an expert, someone who has been studying and experiencing things for a long time. You need people that understand the other side, how it works, the levels, the types of energy that can come through, and how to address that.
Too many people watch TV, go on a few organized hunts and then fancy themselves "ghost hunters", they go into people's homes, stir the pot and leave. This helps no one, it sometimes gets some EVPs for the investigators, but that is about it. The family isn't helped, and the activity may actually worsen.
When Uncle Joe who has passed is wandering around the house at night, that is fairly easy to address. What if the person were a suicide? What if it is non human? What if it is Nature Spirit activity or poltergeist activity? Do you know what to do? If the answer is "no" don't be leading , or forming a "ghost hunt group". Learn from experienced people. The ones who know how to handle each eventuality are rare. The ones who know how to figure out what is what aren't exactly easy to find either. People who walk around with a camera and a voice recorder are a dime a dozen.
Remember, when Zach Bagans goes into a site, he isn't there to help a homeowner solve their issue, so don't be like Zach.
My husband and I make sure we help people. Our group Paranormal Research and Investigation, Ohio Valley, knows how to investigate and how to help. We know how to figure out what is what and what to do about it. We know how to cleanse and bless the area in different ways. I always think it is funny when people say something like they held up a cross and told the spirit to get out. First of all, human spirits don't care what you are holding....evil stuff will take more than that, and what if the entity is non human or maybe a Jewish spirit? People watch too many movies that they think are informative.
I have said it before and will say it again....learn from knowledgeable people who have been successful in solving issues over a long period of time. Watching all the shows and going to established sites with groups does not a paranormal investigator make!
Be safe out there!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf.. May not be used,copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The past 30 years or so , I have spent learning about the paranormal. I am not just talking ghosts and haunting, but all of it. Energy work, healing, cleansing, the psychic world, belief systems of the world, ancient religions, other beings (like black shadow people, earth spirits) ley lines, dowsing, and on and on and on.
There is so much there that is interconnected and effecting other aspects of each other.
When you go to a home to investigate, just getting a noise, an EVP, or seeing a shadow, doesn't tell you a thing. Seeing these things doesn't even mean a home is haunted, and if you provoke activity, the place may not even be haunted at all! You have to know or find out many things. First, is there a haunting, a genuine haunting? I have said many times, every house has a spirit or two. We carry them with us all the time in the form of guides. When people say their kids are talking to their invisible friends, it doesn't necessarily mean "ghosts", it could well be their guides. We cannot ever enter a building and there not be a spirit in that building since we carry them in all the time.
When we decide there is something going on, it still doesn't mean a haunting. A haunting requires consistent and continual activity that stays at the same level or increases, otherwise you simply have had spirit activity, or paranormal phenomenon.
Then you have to fine tune that a bit, for example, is the activity intelligent, residual, poltergeist , nature spirits or negative? You need to know how to figure all this out, and better yet, you need to know WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
When families are scared or having issues, just leaving that night saying "Yup, it's haunted" doesn't help them.
You have to be able to advise them or directly help them. You need an expert, someone who has been studying and experiencing things for a long time. You need people that understand the other side, how it works, the levels, the types of energy that can come through, and how to address that.
Too many people watch TV, go on a few organized hunts and then fancy themselves "ghost hunters", they go into people's homes, stir the pot and leave. This helps no one, it sometimes gets some EVPs for the investigators, but that is about it. The family isn't helped, and the activity may actually worsen.
When Uncle Joe who has passed is wandering around the house at night, that is fairly easy to address. What if the person were a suicide? What if it is non human? What if it is Nature Spirit activity or poltergeist activity? Do you know what to do? If the answer is "no" don't be leading , or forming a "ghost hunt group". Learn from experienced people. The ones who know how to handle each eventuality are rare. The ones who know how to figure out what is what aren't exactly easy to find either. People who walk around with a camera and a voice recorder are a dime a dozen.
Remember, when Zach Bagans goes into a site, he isn't there to help a homeowner solve their issue, so don't be like Zach.
My husband and I make sure we help people. Our group Paranormal Research and Investigation, Ohio Valley, knows how to investigate and how to help. We know how to figure out what is what and what to do about it. We know how to cleanse and bless the area in different ways. I always think it is funny when people say something like they held up a cross and told the spirit to get out. First of all, human spirits don't care what you are holding....evil stuff will take more than that, and what if the entity is non human or maybe a Jewish spirit? People watch too many movies that they think are informative.
I have said it before and will say it again....learn from knowledgeable people who have been successful in solving issues over a long period of time. Watching all the shows and going to established sites with groups does not a paranormal investigator make!
Be safe out there!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr. R M Wolf.. May not be used,copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Monday, December 16, 2013
You have to BELIEVE AND DO THE WORK
I have clients tell me all the time that they don't understand why things aren't getting more positive and abundant for them. They are saying affirmations, they are setting goals and asking for things, they are doing the work, but nothing is changing. They at the same time tell me how their life stinks, how this person is out to get them, and that one is getting better treatment, and the one of there is always getting what she wants....
I'm sorry I thought that you said you were working in the positive?
When you are still dwelling on why some other person is, in your opinion, or in fact, getting treated better than you; when you wish ill on those who you feel have done your wrong in the past; when you recite all the bad things going on in your life; when you have issues with everyone you meet and feel that every word out of a person's mouth is a hidden attack...then you are FAR from working in the light, thinking positively and doing the work.
You can say affirmations til the cows come home and NOTHING will happen, unless you are doing it correctly. Doing it correctly means changing your THINKING, your ENERGY, and your BELIEF. You can't just say the words, you have to BELIEVE them and WORK towards them.
Say affirmations as if they are already happening and state your goals. It is easy to find a positive thing to say. I have people who have a roof over their heads, tell me their financial world is a mess, dire, terrible. How can they think positive?
People who manifest well are people who are appreciative. They thank the Universe every day for each good thing. When you believe, and you work it, you will find it easy. Many struggle with this, some to the point where they actually need professional help....but most can do this on their own. Every time you want to complain and be upset about something, do two things, one state your unhappiness. When a person truly does you wrong, tell them about it, but make sure that you aren't just imagining a slight, or making mountains out of molehills. Then look at what good came of it. Thank the Universe for the good, and restate your goal.
It will go something like this:
My friend "So and So" again made a point to put me down today in front of others. I am sure this is happening and others have commented to me about it also.
I have told "So and so" that since I feel that she constantly puts me down , I will have to discontinue this friendship. I don't lecture her on it, call her names, or cause trouble in her life, I quietly exit.
Universe, thank you for helping me see the issue clearly and stand up for myself.
Affirm- The Universe is enabling me to take people out of my life that no longer serve my highest good , The Universe is bringing in new people who are helping me achieve my goals and giving the gift of true friendship which I will return in kind.
Now, keep in mind when we ask for highest good, it may be something we don't like. Maybe we need people to tell us that we are over sensitive about the and So & Sos of the world and need to let some things go.
People think that working towards a higher state and manifesting means only really warm and fuzzy things will happen....not so. When there are things you need to do or learn first, then they are NOT warm and fuzzy. You don't automatically get all the good stuff just because you say magic words....remember I said you have to work it.
To get Prince Charming, you need to BE Princess Charming. To get the great job, you have to be capable, qualified, and get along well with others. You don't just get magic.
Manifesting is a tool of communication and COOPERATION with the Universe, not the Universe bestowing gifts on you because you are so damn awesome.
When you dwell on and believe others have it better than you.....others WILL have it better than you, you are manifesting FOR them.
Work it, own it, be it.
Never ask for something to be taken from another (you don't know their life lessons and "highest good"). Never ask for the free will of others to be taken away (make him love me). Never ask for harm for another.
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
I'm sorry I thought that you said you were working in the positive?
When you are still dwelling on why some other person is, in your opinion, or in fact, getting treated better than you; when you wish ill on those who you feel have done your wrong in the past; when you recite all the bad things going on in your life; when you have issues with everyone you meet and feel that every word out of a person's mouth is a hidden attack...then you are FAR from working in the light, thinking positively and doing the work.
You can say affirmations til the cows come home and NOTHING will happen, unless you are doing it correctly. Doing it correctly means changing your THINKING, your ENERGY, and your BELIEF. You can't just say the words, you have to BELIEVE them and WORK towards them.
Say affirmations as if they are already happening and state your goals. It is easy to find a positive thing to say. I have people who have a roof over their heads, tell me their financial world is a mess, dire, terrible. How can they think positive?
People who manifest well are people who are appreciative. They thank the Universe every day for each good thing. When you believe, and you work it, you will find it easy. Many struggle with this, some to the point where they actually need professional help....but most can do this on their own. Every time you want to complain and be upset about something, do two things, one state your unhappiness. When a person truly does you wrong, tell them about it, but make sure that you aren't just imagining a slight, or making mountains out of molehills. Then look at what good came of it. Thank the Universe for the good, and restate your goal.
It will go something like this:
My friend "So and So" again made a point to put me down today in front of others. I am sure this is happening and others have commented to me about it also.
I have told "So and so" that since I feel that she constantly puts me down , I will have to discontinue this friendship. I don't lecture her on it, call her names, or cause trouble in her life, I quietly exit.
Universe, thank you for helping me see the issue clearly and stand up for myself.
Affirm- The Universe is enabling me to take people out of my life that no longer serve my highest good , The Universe is bringing in new people who are helping me achieve my goals and giving the gift of true friendship which I will return in kind.
Now, keep in mind when we ask for highest good, it may be something we don't like. Maybe we need people to tell us that we are over sensitive about the and So & Sos of the world and need to let some things go.
People think that working towards a higher state and manifesting means only really warm and fuzzy things will happen....not so. When there are things you need to do or learn first, then they are NOT warm and fuzzy. You don't automatically get all the good stuff just because you say magic words....remember I said you have to work it.
To get Prince Charming, you need to BE Princess Charming. To get the great job, you have to be capable, qualified, and get along well with others. You don't just get magic.
Manifesting is a tool of communication and COOPERATION with the Universe, not the Universe bestowing gifts on you because you are so damn awesome.
When you dwell on and believe others have it better than you.....others WILL have it better than you, you are manifesting FOR them.
Work it, own it, be it.
Never ask for something to be taken from another (you don't know their life lessons and "highest good"). Never ask for the free will of others to be taken away (make him love me). Never ask for harm for another.
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Ah the internet
The internet is a place where we can go to see places we would never see; to get information; to connect with others; to pay bills; go to school; video chat with family.....the possibilities are numerous. There is a bad side however, to the internet. It allows people who have bad intent, who are misguided, who are emotionally or mentally disturbed,or who are problematic, a platform to spout nonsense.
Worse yet, it allows people to perpetuate the perfect bull. The best way to get away with telling a whopper of a lie is to make sure there is a lot of truth to it. Many people don't check things out at all. They believe if it is on the net it is true (which probably happens less than half the time). I have written many times about not passing along all those "warnings" your friends and family send you . You know the ones about how it is easy for someone to rob your house if you do this, clean your oven if you do that, steal your car if you are here or there....it is endless.
There are places to check this information. Not only are there sites that deal with all the BS and sort it out for you, but there is common sense. There are reliable news sources. Make sure that you check several of those also. Then there are the spoof sites, they write witty satire in a way that gullible people latch on to as real. Make sure you aren't being pranked by a site like The Onion.
Then there are the really bad guys. They have big soap boxes. Webpages, pages on Facebook and other social networking sites. They are negative as can be, and take the stance that they are helping, or exposing. I assume you have heard of the Westboro Baptist Church. They are a prime example. There are many sites and pages now that claim to expose wrong doing, bad people, and more. I don't know who made them the Karma Police, but apparently they think it is OK to enforce their beliefs on the world. They do that "good lie" thing, they start with a fact or facts, and either embellish or make that fact look like a very bad thing. They get their self esteem through putting others down. They are passive aggressive people who have nothing better to do than try to make others look small so they can look big.
I was going to name sites this morning, but then thought...why give them more press, they would love it. They are easy to spot. They don't do it for profit, they do it for an emotional high that makes them feel like they are saving the world.
When any site tells you someone or something is bad, check it out. Check it out several ways and in several places. When there is one iota of untruth, stop, disregard the whole thing and move on. Sites like these ruin people's lives, businesses and relationships. They are nothing but mean, spiteful and hateful, with a big dose of Holier Than Thou. Bypass them all! Nothing good will ever come of any person saying they have the scoop on who is good and who is bad. Gossip is gossip, even if it is on a webpage.
Be careful out there because there is more MISinformation, than information on the webpage these days.
...and while you even think for a moment of spreading the rumor, remember these two things:
DO UNTO OTHERS
DO THE RIGHT THING FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr RM Wolf , may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Worse yet, it allows people to perpetuate the perfect bull. The best way to get away with telling a whopper of a lie is to make sure there is a lot of truth to it. Many people don't check things out at all. They believe if it is on the net it is true (which probably happens less than half the time). I have written many times about not passing along all those "warnings" your friends and family send you . You know the ones about how it is easy for someone to rob your house if you do this, clean your oven if you do that, steal your car if you are here or there....it is endless.
There are places to check this information. Not only are there sites that deal with all the BS and sort it out for you, but there is common sense. There are reliable news sources. Make sure that you check several of those also. Then there are the spoof sites, they write witty satire in a way that gullible people latch on to as real. Make sure you aren't being pranked by a site like The Onion.
Then there are the really bad guys. They have big soap boxes. Webpages, pages on Facebook and other social networking sites. They are negative as can be, and take the stance that they are helping, or exposing. I assume you have heard of the Westboro Baptist Church. They are a prime example. There are many sites and pages now that claim to expose wrong doing, bad people, and more. I don't know who made them the Karma Police, but apparently they think it is OK to enforce their beliefs on the world. They do that "good lie" thing, they start with a fact or facts, and either embellish or make that fact look like a very bad thing. They get their self esteem through putting others down. They are passive aggressive people who have nothing better to do than try to make others look small so they can look big.
I was going to name sites this morning, but then thought...why give them more press, they would love it. They are easy to spot. They don't do it for profit, they do it for an emotional high that makes them feel like they are saving the world.
When any site tells you someone or something is bad, check it out. Check it out several ways and in several places. When there is one iota of untruth, stop, disregard the whole thing and move on. Sites like these ruin people's lives, businesses and relationships. They are nothing but mean, spiteful and hateful, with a big dose of Holier Than Thou. Bypass them all! Nothing good will ever come of any person saying they have the scoop on who is good and who is bad. Gossip is gossip, even if it is on a webpage.
Be careful out there because there is more MISinformation, than information on the webpage these days.
...and while you even think for a moment of spreading the rumor, remember these two things:
DO UNTO OTHERS
DO THE RIGHT THING FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2013 Dr RM Wolf , may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
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