I have been so busy doing MUNDANE things , I have not had time to write and teach. These are two of my favorite things to do , so it is frustrating. We are renovating a kitchen and took a trip to see my son graduate. Now, onwards and forwards, right? The kitchen has been torn apart for over a month now. It will look great when it is finished, but going through it is frustrating. It doesn't happen overnight like in the TV shows, I can tell you that.
One thing that came apparent after running around, discussing the past, and juggling so much lately, is that you realize how things that seemed life changing and all important at the time, are now past , forgotten events. We strive sometimes to get something done, right a wrong, make a change, and find that those things have become something in the faded past. That isn't good or bad, depending on what it is, but think about the things you stressed over 5, 10, or even 30 years ago. What happened to those events? You are still alive, and moving forward (hopefully), so were those moments that seemed so important, really that important.
Did it matter you didn't go to the prom with "so and so"; did it matter that the rift in your group, club, organization was a battle with people attacking each other; did it matter that it rained on your wedding day; did it matter that your friend walked away to another life. It mattered them but does it matter now. How often can we say "it wasn't funny then, but it is now"? The answer in my life is OFTEN!
Many things that bring on anger, frustration, sadness.....fade away with time. They say "time heals all wounds", and I believe it is true. Some heal more slowly than others, but the key is healing.
That said, I want you all to try to find one of those instances (you can probably find many), and see how it faded and corrected itself with time, this way when a curve ball comes at you today, you can be older and wiser and let it roll on by!
Love and Light
Peshaui Wequashimese
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