This world is a place of many differences. They are all interwoven at some point, and you can easily find the connection when you follow the threads. You can see that all world religions and spiritual paths, involve growth and doing the right thing. You will see that all spiritual paths concentrate on you and what YOU need to do.
I find it amazing that so many people spend their precious few hours on this Earthwalk, a time meant for learning, growing and helping, to cause issues, spread hurt, try to make others look bad, and spread gossip. We are here for growth and helping. No matter what you are, Christian, Muslim, Native American...no one sent you here to be stagnant, hateful, and harmful. Then ask yourself why do so many people spend their day doing just that.
They can't wait to hurt someone. They are so unhappy and insecure, so hateful and small that they do it constantly, many times without ever realizing it. They spread gossip, share social networking posts that insult people, politicians, and religions, and make it OK with themselves by telling themselves they are spreading information that is important to the world. All they are spreading is negativity and hate to make themselves feel better. There are facts, there are news stories out there, but they usually aren't the subject matter of what is spread. Much is taken out of context, over exaggerated or used just to make someone look bad. When your life is a mission to make someone else look bad, no matter who that is, then you have a problem, and a very SMALL sense of self.
When a day involves seeking out the negative, you bring negativity to your life. When the day involves seeking out the positive, making things better, passing on happiness, help, and hope, that that is what you receive. Many are in bad circumstances and blame the world, not themselves, when the ONLY person responsible for your happiness is YOU. Surround yourself in good thoughts and actions and watch your life change. Like energy attracts like energy.
We do not get what we ask for, we get what we BELIEVE we will get.
Many miss that part of manifesting and spiritual teachings.
There are many paths to this success, and many religions, many ways, many belief systems to follow. They are all different , but yet all the same, and they are not ever "bad" just because they are different.
Just for today.....and as many days as you can carry it on.....instead of worrying about what others are doing, worry about what YOU are doing. Like the saying goes. Don't worry about what I am doing, worry that you are worried about what I am doing.
AND
Do the right things for the right reasons......
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Thursday, September 25, 2014
Thursday, July 10, 2014
So what do ghosts look like?
Republished from my Paranormal investigating blog:
I have had quite a few email on this one. It is a good question and there are several answers, but what you see on You Tube probably isn't it.
I have seen the "Other Side" all my life. The first time I can recall, was when I was about 4-5 years old. My Mom told me I was seeing things...literally...before then. That is 50 years of otherworldly spotting experience. I didn't jump on the band wagon with the first episode of Ghost Hunters. I was ghost hunting with my cousins when we were all around 8-13 years old. That was in the 60's my friends.
The psychic side of me gives me a little "cheater". I look at stuff and immediately know if it something paranormal, it is received differently to me. Not everybody has a cheater, so what is a person to do?
First of all, beware of any picture that is blurry or is supposed to come from a security camera and is fuzzy. Security cameras haven't been fuzzy for over a decade, they are as clear as your TV screen. I doubt anyone has those cameras anymore.
People blur their photos that they fake so you can't see the "smoke and mirrors", like the edgges of the 1870's photo.
I have seen a few different things in my life. I have seen things that were never human (and no, they aren't all demons, there are many other beings), but the spirits of the world all come in just a few ways.
People will see them as:
What looks just like a normal person. Full and solid, right down to items that are with that person.You don't know they are a ghost until they disappear.
What looks like a normal person missing parts of their body. Maybe they are moving along without legs for instance.
A flash of a piece of a person, again clear and solid, out of the corner of your eye. A dress that goes around the corner, or maybe a foot or shoe.
A mist. Usually dark. (Make sure you are not mistaking for breath on a cold day, etc for the mist, when you see one inside, you are pretty well guaranteed).
A black outline of a human. Many cannot fully develop, so they appear as a mist or silhouette.
The last one is still a mystery to us, although I believe they are totally of another "species". Black Shadow People (BSP). The ones listed above are not actually BSP, although I would say they look like them. Spirits however can and will communicate. BSP either can't or won't communicate. Their tell tale outline is different, in that there is always flowing garments, maybe capes or robes. They are sometimes very dark and solid, and sometimes lighter, making people believe they are "see through" like the old movie ghosts most faked on videos. I really do not believe they are the dearly departed of this world, but a whole other group. They don't give off the same energy and feel very different, they also can move very quickly, or step into a wall, especially in shadow, so they are standing right there as part of a larger shadow and you never know it.
Orbs are NOT ghosts. Orbs do NOT indicate ghostly activity! There is sometimes orb activity when there is paranormal activity, however usually not. There are also light anomalies (zipping lights) that are some type of unmanifested spirit. They are very clear and very deliberate in their movement. They are not perfectly round. Just about every picture I have seen where someone said "orb", it was really dust, pollen or water vapor. Most parapsychologists believe orbs are energy displaced , sometimes by spirits, but more likely a result of something else, like what we call angels or nature spirits, not ghosts at all.
Spirits always have an effect on the environment, but it is NOT always the same. They may cause an effect like something moving, or for instance grass being crushed down. They may make the temperature fall OR rise! They can make you feel "creeped out"...or feel nothing at all, but may cause meter readings. Sometimes we can hear them, out loud, on an EVP, or a spirit box.They always have an effect however.
Most people see spirits so clearly that they don't realize it until the spirit is gone.
Most (99%) of what you see online is faked. Most is faked so badly if you stop and look carefully you will figure it out. The only real ghost photos I have seen have come from paranormal teams, not individuals.
I have seen 3 different ghost cats (all appeared solid and others saw each one of them), and 6-7 humans. One I am not sure of , as it happened so quickly. I have seen tons of shadow spirits and BSP. I have seen a few in the other categories, like angels, nature spirits, and the like.
You can also smell them. Their perfume, aftershave, nicotine, or food.
What ghosts DON'T look like are those blurry figures prancing all over home made video. Sometimes BSP can be vague, but spirits, no, that is right out of the movies. It has become popular to be a ghost hunter and everyone wants to show "evidence" and get a little attention.
I have seen things move, I have seen and heard many things not of this earth, but if you think they look like a round ball of blurry light, a blurry half see through person walking down a hall, or a white sheet, you have been watching too much You Tube.
Happy Hunting!
(C) Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
I have had quite a few email on this one. It is a good question and there are several answers, but what you see on You Tube probably isn't it.
I have seen the "Other Side" all my life. The first time I can recall, was when I was about 4-5 years old. My Mom told me I was seeing things...literally...before then. That is 50 years of otherworldly spotting experience. I didn't jump on the band wagon with the first episode of Ghost Hunters. I was ghost hunting with my cousins when we were all around 8-13 years old. That was in the 60's my friends.
The psychic side of me gives me a little "cheater". I look at stuff and immediately know if it something paranormal, it is received differently to me. Not everybody has a cheater, so what is a person to do?
First of all, beware of any picture that is blurry or is supposed to come from a security camera and is fuzzy. Security cameras haven't been fuzzy for over a decade, they are as clear as your TV screen. I doubt anyone has those cameras anymore.
People blur their photos that they fake so you can't see the "smoke and mirrors", like the edgges of the 1870's photo.
I have seen a few different things in my life. I have seen things that were never human (and no, they aren't all demons, there are many other beings), but the spirits of the world all come in just a few ways.
People will see them as:
What looks just like a normal person. Full and solid, right down to items that are with that person.You don't know they are a ghost until they disappear.
What looks like a normal person missing parts of their body. Maybe they are moving along without legs for instance.
A flash of a piece of a person, again clear and solid, out of the corner of your eye. A dress that goes around the corner, or maybe a foot or shoe.
A mist. Usually dark. (Make sure you are not mistaking for breath on a cold day, etc for the mist, when you see one inside, you are pretty well guaranteed).
A black outline of a human. Many cannot fully develop, so they appear as a mist or silhouette.
The last one is still a mystery to us, although I believe they are totally of another "species". Black Shadow People (BSP). The ones listed above are not actually BSP, although I would say they look like them. Spirits however can and will communicate. BSP either can't or won't communicate. Their tell tale outline is different, in that there is always flowing garments, maybe capes or robes. They are sometimes very dark and solid, and sometimes lighter, making people believe they are "see through" like the old movie ghosts most faked on videos. I really do not believe they are the dearly departed of this world, but a whole other group. They don't give off the same energy and feel very different, they also can move very quickly, or step into a wall, especially in shadow, so they are standing right there as part of a larger shadow and you never know it.
Orbs are NOT ghosts. Orbs do NOT indicate ghostly activity! There is sometimes orb activity when there is paranormal activity, however usually not. There are also light anomalies (zipping lights) that are some type of unmanifested spirit. They are very clear and very deliberate in their movement. They are not perfectly round. Just about every picture I have seen where someone said "orb", it was really dust, pollen or water vapor. Most parapsychologists believe orbs are energy displaced , sometimes by spirits, but more likely a result of something else, like what we call angels or nature spirits, not ghosts at all.
Spirits always have an effect on the environment, but it is NOT always the same. They may cause an effect like something moving, or for instance grass being crushed down. They may make the temperature fall OR rise! They can make you feel "creeped out"...or feel nothing at all, but may cause meter readings. Sometimes we can hear them, out loud, on an EVP, or a spirit box.They always have an effect however.
Most people see spirits so clearly that they don't realize it until the spirit is gone.
Most (99%) of what you see online is faked. Most is faked so badly if you stop and look carefully you will figure it out. The only real ghost photos I have seen have come from paranormal teams, not individuals.
I have seen 3 different ghost cats (all appeared solid and others saw each one of them), and 6-7 humans. One I am not sure of , as it happened so quickly. I have seen tons of shadow spirits and BSP. I have seen a few in the other categories, like angels, nature spirits, and the like.
You can also smell them. Their perfume, aftershave, nicotine, or food.
What ghosts DON'T look like are those blurry figures prancing all over home made video. Sometimes BSP can be vague, but spirits, no, that is right out of the movies. It has become popular to be a ghost hunter and everyone wants to show "evidence" and get a little attention.
I have seen things move, I have seen and heard many things not of this earth, but if you think they look like a round ball of blurry light, a blurry half see through person walking down a hall, or a white sheet, you have been watching too much You Tube.
Happy Hunting!
(C) Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
Wednesday, July 9, 2014
Continuing with email responses.....Muany Ki fact or fraud?
A while ago I wrote on this "class". Many people have taken the classes and swear that they have the ancient rites of Mayans. They have no such thing, as these do not exist. The Native American community has spoken out against the class and its' intentions, rites etc....to no avail.
The NA community among others, has pointed out many issues in the teachings from naming Aztec dieties as Mayan, to showing "ancient writings" in Spanish (the Mayans didn't speak Spanish, but their own language). It was all a farce created in the late 80's in Colorado, begun by an archeologist who was thrown out most of South America and all Mayan gatherings because of his "invention". People traveled to South American and asked about "Munay Ki", the locals and what is left of the Mayans (there are still some Mayan people), were puzzled...what were these white people talking about. They tried to clear things up, they denounced Villoldo, and still , people plopped down hundreds of dollars to receive "ancient attunements" aka "rites".
People who are proponents of the rites say "but it has made me feel so much better", and that is about their only real defense of the "class". When you are an arden believer in these classes, and want to delve into the NA ways, and after plopping down a pretty substantial amount of cash, of course it made you feel better. All of the people who went to fake mediums in the 1800's heard from their dearly departed too. There are many psychological reasons why they feel better...none having to do with having ancient Mayan knowledge.
The fact remains it is not a reality, there are no nine ancient rites (unless the 1980's seem ancient to you), the classes themselves are filled with misinformation that even a basic scholar of NA and Southern American aboriginal studies would know is flawed; you NEVER charge for NA spiritual teachings; and you certainly never charge for entering a sweat lodge.
People want to feel better, they want an answer. Originally this class was held to "ensure" people that they would make the 2012 transition better than others, they would achieve a higher state of being. No one needed this class, or any class to do so.
Do not waste your money on this class. The Native American Indiana Fraud Group has named it as a fraud , and named several of its teachers as frauds. They have also named places that teach it as fraudulent.
http://www.newagefraud.org/smf/index.php?topic=1622.0
People today like to take classes, not just Munay Ki, and call themselves "shaman". First of all there were no shaman in the continental US. There were medicine men , and others, but Shaman did not exist here. You cannot take a class and become a shaman. Shaman is a position that you have to be born to. You have to have skills and talents beyond normal humans. Knowledge beyond normal humans is necessary, and the tribe must name you as such, you don't appoint yourself the position.
Everything about this system is wrong. Historically, ethically, linguistically, methodologically, and traditionally. The good news is, I have seen it fading away, so I was surprised to receive an email on the subject. The reason for the email was that a reader was told to go to an event and researched it before he went becasue it didn't jibe with his knowledge of NA teachings. He was right to trust his gut and not attend the event.
There was a letter on line a few year back that discussed creating the system, but I cannot find a successful link to it anymore (and if I were the people who made this all up, I would destroy that letter also!).
Don't waste your money, and don't waste your time.
When I became a reiki master much changed for me. I know that it did change my life. I can tell you an interesting and true fact. I used to have headaches all the times from a couple of different things. I have not had a headache since I became a reiki master...and that was over seven years ago. I had not even thought about it until someone asked about headaches and reiki the other day.
Choose carefully, and remember that when honestly researching a topic, look to see if there are negative reports on it. Put the words after it that will bring up negative reports such as "authenticity" , "issues", "fraud", "fake", etc. You may be surprised at what you find!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr. R M Wolf
May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The NA community among others, has pointed out many issues in the teachings from naming Aztec dieties as Mayan, to showing "ancient writings" in Spanish (the Mayans didn't speak Spanish, but their own language). It was all a farce created in the late 80's in Colorado, begun by an archeologist who was thrown out most of South America and all Mayan gatherings because of his "invention". People traveled to South American and asked about "Munay Ki", the locals and what is left of the Mayans (there are still some Mayan people), were puzzled...what were these white people talking about. They tried to clear things up, they denounced Villoldo, and still , people plopped down hundreds of dollars to receive "ancient attunements" aka "rites".
People who are proponents of the rites say "but it has made me feel so much better", and that is about their only real defense of the "class". When you are an arden believer in these classes, and want to delve into the NA ways, and after plopping down a pretty substantial amount of cash, of course it made you feel better. All of the people who went to fake mediums in the 1800's heard from their dearly departed too. There are many psychological reasons why they feel better...none having to do with having ancient Mayan knowledge.
The fact remains it is not a reality, there are no nine ancient rites (unless the 1980's seem ancient to you), the classes themselves are filled with misinformation that even a basic scholar of NA and Southern American aboriginal studies would know is flawed; you NEVER charge for NA spiritual teachings; and you certainly never charge for entering a sweat lodge.
People want to feel better, they want an answer. Originally this class was held to "ensure" people that they would make the 2012 transition better than others, they would achieve a higher state of being. No one needed this class, or any class to do so.
Do not waste your money on this class. The Native American Indiana Fraud Group has named it as a fraud , and named several of its teachers as frauds. They have also named places that teach it as fraudulent.
http://www.newagefraud.org/smf/index.php?topic=1622.0
People today like to take classes, not just Munay Ki, and call themselves "shaman". First of all there were no shaman in the continental US. There were medicine men , and others, but Shaman did not exist here. You cannot take a class and become a shaman. Shaman is a position that you have to be born to. You have to have skills and talents beyond normal humans. Knowledge beyond normal humans is necessary, and the tribe must name you as such, you don't appoint yourself the position.
Everything about this system is wrong. Historically, ethically, linguistically, methodologically, and traditionally. The good news is, I have seen it fading away, so I was surprised to receive an email on the subject. The reason for the email was that a reader was told to go to an event and researched it before he went becasue it didn't jibe with his knowledge of NA teachings. He was right to trust his gut and not attend the event.
There was a letter on line a few year back that discussed creating the system, but I cannot find a successful link to it anymore (and if I were the people who made this all up, I would destroy that letter also!).
Don't waste your money, and don't waste your time.
When I became a reiki master much changed for me. I know that it did change my life. I can tell you an interesting and true fact. I used to have headaches all the times from a couple of different things. I have not had a headache since I became a reiki master...and that was over seven years ago. I had not even thought about it until someone asked about headaches and reiki the other day.
Choose carefully, and remember that when honestly researching a topic, look to see if there are negative reports on it. Put the words after it that will bring up negative reports such as "authenticity" , "issues", "fraud", "fake", etc. You may be surprised at what you find!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr. R M Wolf
May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Monday, June 30, 2014
From the "In Box"
I have a had a few people asking questions, and there are some good ones piling up. I have answered people individually, but I usually write a blog about those questions. Life has been so busy lately that I have not been a very active blogger, so I thought I better sit down and write! This one was asked in different forms by three people.The first question has been answered a few times, in past bogs, but maybe not so specifically, so I will go at it again. Always feel free to put words in the search and you will have blogs brought up to read on that "subject".
The first question was "what is the first tool someone should buy to start investigating, an EMF meter or recorder"? EMF meters are tools, that unless you are an expert on your surroundings , and what makes EMF in the first place....are totally useless. They are great in locations where there is no electricity, where you know how to properly use the meter and have eliminated other things that can cause them to go off (like receiving a message on your cell phone). Even then they are not 100% useful. All EMF meters do is measure a fluctuation in the EMF field around you. Guess how many times that happens naturally during the day? Hundreds.
They are NOT communicating devices, we have so many other items to use for that task that are much better suited for it. They are only good to see if something MAY be about to happen. That is it, that is their function. Period. They are not indicators of a spirit in the room. Walking around a building, especially one with electronics in it, and seeing a meter fluctuate means zero. It certainly does not mean spirits are present. It means the EMF field is fluctuating. Even solar flares can cause this. There are wires, phone systems, ceiling fans, microwaves, cell phones (even some cause blips when turned off), 2 way radios, energy transformers, radio/cell towers nearby, power generating systems nearby. Add to that ley lines, running water, solar flares, and other natural sources. Many of those won't set the meter off alone, but how much of a combination of one ot two of the above generally happens at once? Many times.
Not only are there too many other things than can set off a meter, do you know what readings indicated electronics, like a clock radio, rather than a spirit? Do you know what readings may indicate a spirit or not? Generally if you go over 8 , you are seeing electronics. Cell phones for example getting an update or message will read lower, and you think you have a ghostly message when al yo uhave is a loved one asking what time the investigation will be over.
Let's throw something else into the mix. Many times EMF meters will register NOTHING when there IS paranormal activity going on. It is apparent that some "ghostly" events do NOT set off the meter. Since we aren't always sure where activity is coming from (poltergeist? spirit? negative entity?), we don't know for sure what sets off the meter. Can some evolved spirits cloak that energy? Seems that they can.
Another issue is one I have seen so many times. People walk around all night with their nose buried in the meter, and miss a lot! Meters are meant to be used for a few seconds. They are to be used to take base readings in the beginning of the investigation, and when entering a room, see if there is a higher reading. When there is , investigate, when there isn't , move on. One investigator on another team said if he has people walk around with a meter all night he kicks them off of the team, becasue he is convinced they are actually afraid to see something subconsciously (and that really is a good point).
All we DO know is that SOMETIMES when there is about to be paranormal activity, these meters fluctuate. Your body (hair standing up, nervous stomach, nausea) is a better indicator than the meter. It isn't always reliable and some people are more sensitive than others, but it is still better than the meter!
When you have a little money and want to try paranormal investigating, buy a voice recorder. When a spirit communicates with you, you will know it! Meters are not an indicator of paranormal activity and frequently miss paranormal events. I have been in a room where a disembodied voice told me to "get out" at a client's home. There were 2 meters working, one only a few feet from me, and one down the hall. Neither registered a blip.
Toss out the meters, or better yet, sell them, and buy some other equipment!
More answers to come in future blogs!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The first question was "what is the first tool someone should buy to start investigating, an EMF meter or recorder"? EMF meters are tools, that unless you are an expert on your surroundings , and what makes EMF in the first place....are totally useless. They are great in locations where there is no electricity, where you know how to properly use the meter and have eliminated other things that can cause them to go off (like receiving a message on your cell phone). Even then they are not 100% useful. All EMF meters do is measure a fluctuation in the EMF field around you. Guess how many times that happens naturally during the day? Hundreds.
They are NOT communicating devices, we have so many other items to use for that task that are much better suited for it. They are only good to see if something MAY be about to happen. That is it, that is their function. Period. They are not indicators of a spirit in the room. Walking around a building, especially one with electronics in it, and seeing a meter fluctuate means zero. It certainly does not mean spirits are present. It means the EMF field is fluctuating. Even solar flares can cause this. There are wires, phone systems, ceiling fans, microwaves, cell phones (even some cause blips when turned off), 2 way radios, energy transformers, radio/cell towers nearby, power generating systems nearby. Add to that ley lines, running water, solar flares, and other natural sources. Many of those won't set the meter off alone, but how much of a combination of one ot two of the above generally happens at once? Many times.
Not only are there too many other things than can set off a meter, do you know what readings indicated electronics, like a clock radio, rather than a spirit? Do you know what readings may indicate a spirit or not? Generally if you go over 8 , you are seeing electronics. Cell phones for example getting an update or message will read lower, and you think you have a ghostly message when al yo uhave is a loved one asking what time the investigation will be over.
Let's throw something else into the mix. Many times EMF meters will register NOTHING when there IS paranormal activity going on. It is apparent that some "ghostly" events do NOT set off the meter. Since we aren't always sure where activity is coming from (poltergeist? spirit? negative entity?), we don't know for sure what sets off the meter. Can some evolved spirits cloak that energy? Seems that they can.
Another issue is one I have seen so many times. People walk around all night with their nose buried in the meter, and miss a lot! Meters are meant to be used for a few seconds. They are to be used to take base readings in the beginning of the investigation, and when entering a room, see if there is a higher reading. When there is , investigate, when there isn't , move on. One investigator on another team said if he has people walk around with a meter all night he kicks them off of the team, becasue he is convinced they are actually afraid to see something subconsciously (and that really is a good point).
All we DO know is that SOMETIMES when there is about to be paranormal activity, these meters fluctuate. Your body (hair standing up, nervous stomach, nausea) is a better indicator than the meter. It isn't always reliable and some people are more sensitive than others, but it is still better than the meter!
When you have a little money and want to try paranormal investigating, buy a voice recorder. When a spirit communicates with you, you will know it! Meters are not an indicator of paranormal activity and frequently miss paranormal events. I have been in a room where a disembodied voice told me to "get out" at a client's home. There were 2 meters working, one only a few feet from me, and one down the hall. Neither registered a blip.
Toss out the meters, or better yet, sell them, and buy some other equipment!
More answers to come in future blogs!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Friday, June 6, 2014
BUSY BUSY BUSY
I have been so busy doing MUNDANE things , I have not had time to write and teach. These are two of my favorite things to do , so it is frustrating. We are renovating a kitchen and took a trip to see my son graduate. Now, onwards and forwards, right? The kitchen has been torn apart for over a month now. It will look great when it is finished, but going through it is frustrating. It doesn't happen overnight like in the TV shows, I can tell you that.
One thing that came apparent after running around, discussing the past, and juggling so much lately, is that you realize how things that seemed life changing and all important at the time, are now past , forgotten events. We strive sometimes to get something done, right a wrong, make a change, and find that those things have become something in the faded past. That isn't good or bad, depending on what it is, but think about the things you stressed over 5, 10, or even 30 years ago. What happened to those events? You are still alive, and moving forward (hopefully), so were those moments that seemed so important, really that important.
Did it matter you didn't go to the prom with "so and so"; did it matter that the rift in your group, club, organization was a battle with people attacking each other; did it matter that it rained on your wedding day; did it matter that your friend walked away to another life. It mattered them but does it matter now. How often can we say "it wasn't funny then, but it is now"? The answer in my life is OFTEN!
Many things that bring on anger, frustration, sadness.....fade away with time. They say "time heals all wounds", and I believe it is true. Some heal more slowly than others, but the key is healing.
That said, I want you all to try to find one of those instances (you can probably find many), and see how it faded and corrected itself with time, this way when a curve ball comes at you today, you can be older and wiser and let it roll on by!
Love and Light
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
One thing that came apparent after running around, discussing the past, and juggling so much lately, is that you realize how things that seemed life changing and all important at the time, are now past , forgotten events. We strive sometimes to get something done, right a wrong, make a change, and find that those things have become something in the faded past. That isn't good or bad, depending on what it is, but think about the things you stressed over 5, 10, or even 30 years ago. What happened to those events? You are still alive, and moving forward (hopefully), so were those moments that seemed so important, really that important.
Did it matter you didn't go to the prom with "so and so"; did it matter that the rift in your group, club, organization was a battle with people attacking each other; did it matter that it rained on your wedding day; did it matter that your friend walked away to another life. It mattered them but does it matter now. How often can we say "it wasn't funny then, but it is now"? The answer in my life is OFTEN!
Many things that bring on anger, frustration, sadness.....fade away with time. They say "time heals all wounds", and I believe it is true. Some heal more slowly than others, but the key is healing.
That said, I want you all to try to find one of those instances (you can probably find many), and see how it faded and corrected itself with time, this way when a curve ball comes at you today, you can be older and wiser and let it roll on by!
Love and Light
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, May 6, 2014
Did you ever.....
People ask what it is like to be psychic. The assumption is that we know everything about anything all of the time. We don't. We don't always want to know ANYTHING at all. I was taught to keep that door closed unless asked to open it, otherwise it is like peeking in your neighbor's window. I have my abilities set up to where I have to basically turn on the switch to get information. I do however have a deal that if it is important or non disruptive to send the message anyway. The same when dealing with those who have passed. They are also not allowed to wake me up at night.
I was on the phone this morning with a fellow reader who has an issue that most psychics have from time to time. Most of us, if not all (I can't say "all" as I haven't spoken to all psychics), have a wonderfully sharp ability as to sizing people and situations up. We know at least "good" or "bad". Sometimes we know it isn't good , but we have to go through it anyway...just imagine how much fun that is! I have always been able to size up people. I have also always moved forward with people I knew were not going to turn out to be the most pleasent experience, but like they say...there is a reason for everything. Sometimes the "warning" alarm is to let you know to "stay away", sometimes it is to say "be careful, you need to be here, but don't get in too deep". We have lessons and experiences that we can't know about, we would avoid the lesson if we knew it was going to be one, so that wouldn't work well. We just aren't allowed to know everything.
This morning's discussion was that this fellow reader had friends that just couldn't understand two things about her which were very important to her...and to me also, so hence the blog. They didn't understand why she just didn't resonate well with people they liked, or why she wouldn't allow one woman into her home. Our homes are our places of refuge. The systems we have set up, the protection we have set up, the flow we have set up, is perfect for us there. No outside influences, no negativity, no "bad stuff". We can open up, relax, and keep our sacred space "clean". I have protection around my home, and it is filled with good energy. That said, good energy doesn't always mean people will feel "warm and fuzzy" in that space. Good people who are open to learning will....people with ill intent won't. I need to keep that in place since I do many readings a day from my home, both in person and on the phone.
I think back to a person who a few months ago, told me the sage we burned at a blessing bothered her badly and made her sick...I told her maybe she was allergic. She said that no she was around sage all the time. I then knew it was one of two things, one was she could have a bad attachment, the other is that she wasn't as spiritual as she thought, and the atmosphere I have set up here was making her feel bad to make change. Either way it is a person I knew would not be around much. I was right.
My reader friend had decided to not even allow a person into her home (most of us do not allow just anyone in our homes), and her friends had issue with that. They called her "judgmental" and "negative". People don't understand that just becasue someone seems nice on the outside, they aren't necessarily all rosy on the inside. We have to respect the "alarm" that the Universe has provided us with. It is there for a reason. It is like having your smoke alarm go off at home, and just remaining in your armchair saying "the neighbor must be grilling outside". It is just dumb, to ignore it.
What makes it harder is many of us don't allow the whole world to know what we do. We aren't ashamed , we are just tired of "you will rot in hell" , "tell me what color my underwear is that I am wearing", "please tell me about my ex", " I will pray for you" (oh please don't), and....you get the idea.
This lady's group of friends are mixed of those who know what she does and those who don't. The ones in the know got it, and didn't make a big deal about it, the ones not "in the know" were the ones calling her names. The funny part is, she is a published author, under her own name of several paranormal books, it wouldn't be hard to figure it out.
Now there is a bunch of drama going on, people in the group invited this woman who makes her alarms go off to a pot luck at her home. A few of them took a cooking class together and they are ready to share with each other. She asked me what I thought she should she do. Good question. This one doesn't have an "easy" answer. When she asked why someone invited the "negative/alarm" lady, she said she just wasn't comfortable inviting her into her home....that is when the drama started.
The only suggestion I could come up with is to ask the Universe to have her kept away without harming her, and for her to also prep the house extra carefully for keeping out negativity. Lots of salt across doorways will keep truly "evil" people out, although truly evil people are few and far between.
People think psychic ability is a gift. It isn't, it is something we all have, and it can be more of a burden than a gift. Especially when you don't feel good about a person who is coming into your home, and you KNOW there is a reason why you shouldn't feel good. My home will make negative people feel badly. That is part of its' protection. I am sure that if this lady does show for the pot luck, she won't stay long....I doubt she will show.
I always trust my instincts about people. Many times the message is "not good but don't worry they will be gone soon". I have only had 2 people I can remember that were a "STAY AWAY" message....and it was clear afterwards why that message came through. The good news is that there aren't many truly evil people walking around.
Meanwhile for all those who don't consider themselves psychic....when you just aren't sure about a person , or feel outright uncomfortable around them, it is OK to say "no". Sometimes you will have to use a great deal of diplomacy doing that, and it usually has a fallout (someone's feelings always get hurt), but when you can see through the mask people wear, there is a reason for that....honor it. This doesn't mean that you have to call them names and throw Holy water at them, but steer clear!
I am waiting to see if the "negative" lady comes to my friend's pot luck. My Spideysense says she won't even show....hopefully I will be able to update you on that.
Always be open to your feelings....and trust them. They may only be for YOU personally, but that is OK!
Gina
I was on the phone this morning with a fellow reader who has an issue that most psychics have from time to time. Most of us, if not all (I can't say "all" as I haven't spoken to all psychics), have a wonderfully sharp ability as to sizing people and situations up. We know at least "good" or "bad". Sometimes we know it isn't good , but we have to go through it anyway...just imagine how much fun that is! I have always been able to size up people. I have also always moved forward with people I knew were not going to turn out to be the most pleasent experience, but like they say...there is a reason for everything. Sometimes the "warning" alarm is to let you know to "stay away", sometimes it is to say "be careful, you need to be here, but don't get in too deep". We have lessons and experiences that we can't know about, we would avoid the lesson if we knew it was going to be one, so that wouldn't work well. We just aren't allowed to know everything.
This morning's discussion was that this fellow reader had friends that just couldn't understand two things about her which were very important to her...and to me also, so hence the blog. They didn't understand why she just didn't resonate well with people they liked, or why she wouldn't allow one woman into her home. Our homes are our places of refuge. The systems we have set up, the protection we have set up, the flow we have set up, is perfect for us there. No outside influences, no negativity, no "bad stuff". We can open up, relax, and keep our sacred space "clean". I have protection around my home, and it is filled with good energy. That said, good energy doesn't always mean people will feel "warm and fuzzy" in that space. Good people who are open to learning will....people with ill intent won't. I need to keep that in place since I do many readings a day from my home, both in person and on the phone.
I think back to a person who a few months ago, told me the sage we burned at a blessing bothered her badly and made her sick...I told her maybe she was allergic. She said that no she was around sage all the time. I then knew it was one of two things, one was she could have a bad attachment, the other is that she wasn't as spiritual as she thought, and the atmosphere I have set up here was making her feel bad to make change. Either way it is a person I knew would not be around much. I was right.
My reader friend had decided to not even allow a person into her home (most of us do not allow just anyone in our homes), and her friends had issue with that. They called her "judgmental" and "negative". People don't understand that just becasue someone seems nice on the outside, they aren't necessarily all rosy on the inside. We have to respect the "alarm" that the Universe has provided us with. It is there for a reason. It is like having your smoke alarm go off at home, and just remaining in your armchair saying "the neighbor must be grilling outside". It is just dumb, to ignore it.
What makes it harder is many of us don't allow the whole world to know what we do. We aren't ashamed , we are just tired of "you will rot in hell" , "tell me what color my underwear is that I am wearing", "please tell me about my ex", " I will pray for you" (oh please don't), and....you get the idea.
This lady's group of friends are mixed of those who know what she does and those who don't. The ones in the know got it, and didn't make a big deal about it, the ones not "in the know" were the ones calling her names. The funny part is, she is a published author, under her own name of several paranormal books, it wouldn't be hard to figure it out.
Now there is a bunch of drama going on, people in the group invited this woman who makes her alarms go off to a pot luck at her home. A few of them took a cooking class together and they are ready to share with each other. She asked me what I thought she should she do. Good question. This one doesn't have an "easy" answer. When she asked why someone invited the "negative/alarm" lady, she said she just wasn't comfortable inviting her into her home....that is when the drama started.
The only suggestion I could come up with is to ask the Universe to have her kept away without harming her, and for her to also prep the house extra carefully for keeping out negativity. Lots of salt across doorways will keep truly "evil" people out, although truly evil people are few and far between.
People think psychic ability is a gift. It isn't, it is something we all have, and it can be more of a burden than a gift. Especially when you don't feel good about a person who is coming into your home, and you KNOW there is a reason why you shouldn't feel good. My home will make negative people feel badly. That is part of its' protection. I am sure that if this lady does show for the pot luck, she won't stay long....I doubt she will show.
I always trust my instincts about people. Many times the message is "not good but don't worry they will be gone soon". I have only had 2 people I can remember that were a "STAY AWAY" message....and it was clear afterwards why that message came through. The good news is that there aren't many truly evil people walking around.
Meanwhile for all those who don't consider themselves psychic....when you just aren't sure about a person , or feel outright uncomfortable around them, it is OK to say "no". Sometimes you will have to use a great deal of diplomacy doing that, and it usually has a fallout (someone's feelings always get hurt), but when you can see through the mask people wear, there is a reason for that....honor it. This doesn't mean that you have to call them names and throw Holy water at them, but steer clear!
I am waiting to see if the "negative" lady comes to my friend's pot luck. My Spideysense says she won't even show....hopefully I will be able to update you on that.
Always be open to your feelings....and trust them. They may only be for YOU personally, but that is OK!
Gina
Monday, April 7, 2014
Metaphysical Terms
This is a reprint of an old blog, but there is still a ton of misunderstanding on what is what, so here it is again!
Many times callers will ask for certain talents, or misunderstand a word used. The sad part is many terms are thrown around by people who don't know what the terms mean, and mislead people. Today for an easy Friday blog before my bi-annual week of rest, I am going to go over some terms.
Here are some terms you have probably heard, but many do not understand:
Querant- A person who asks questions about their situations to an adviser.
Let's talk about the "clairs". The prefix "clair" means "clear" , it is derived from the French language and talks about senses for obtaining information about the future. The clairs also can help some see past and present events. They are words to ONLY be used as describing divination skills.
Clairvoyant- Means "clear seeing" of future events. Nothing else. It means in your minds eye you can clearly see things. It means your messages come to you in visual clues and aspects. This "seeing" is not external, but on a screen in the seer's mind. It is symbols, faces, places, designed to answer questions for a querant.
Clairaudient- Means "clear hearing" of messages for themselves or others. It can be a word, or a sound like wedding bells.
Clairsentient- means "clear feeling", feeling the emotions of others or that the Universe sends as messages to demonstrate how a querant or person they are asking about will feel emotionally.
Claircognizant- Means "clean knowing". When asked a question by a querant, a claircognizant immediately knows the answer as if you asked them their name.
Psychometric - A person who can obtain messages by picking up an object. The energies where the object has been will be read and messages passed on. This is used mostly for past events.
Psychic- A person who is able to get answers from beyond the normal ways and means. A person who uses sharpened intuitive skills to receive answers in order to help others from beyond our normal 5 senses. They can see into the past, present and future and have a "clair" listed above or combination of them. They can get information on the dead although they do not directly converse with the dead. They sense spirits, and energies.
Medium- People who are born with the ability to directly converse with the dead.They can see the dead in different "states" from what they looked like at death to sparks of light. Different mediums see and converse in different ways, but it is always direct and clear.They can ask questions of the dead and get clear responses, these questions do not include psychic information of the future, but about the deceased and their lives and current situations.
Trance Mediums are not conscious of their messages and need to be told them later. Physical mediums allow a spirit to overtake some or all of their physical body to send messages. Mediums do not have to use either of these methods, but can just simply converse.
Psychics and mediums can also sense and communicate with the other beings out there from angels, guides, gatekeepers, to entities on the negative side of things.
Do not confuse this with seeing ghosts. When you think you have seen an apparition, it does NOT mean you are a medium or even psychic. You just caught the right energy at the right time. Anyone with an open mind and lack of fear can see a ghost.
Intuitive- A person who picks up on the energy in an area, which may come with some information, from a feeling to a name. They cannot however ask for information and receive it. They are like a radio, they get what is sent only. Everyone is intuitive, but true initiatives have this skill highly sharpened. They cannot control it, it just comes to them, but the information is still totally valid.
Scrying- Looking into any reflective surface for messages. A method used by psychics. An example is a crystal ball, however some also use water, ice and mirrors.
Tarot- A divination method used by psychics and non psychics. There are 78 cards divided into the major and minor arcana that used archetypes to send messages quickly and clearly.
Prophecy- The gift that allows people to see world events before they occur.They relay messages from higher sources.
Spiritual- A way of living brought about by a belief that there is a Higher Power in this Universe. It is living life knowing that we are here for lessons, and we try to learn them as best we can for hope of moving forward to a state of closeness to that Highest Power in another dimension (sometimes referred to as Heaven).
Remote viewer- A person who can send their mind and sense to another place across the miles to see and hear what is currently going on somewhere else. It is sending one's conscious to another physical place. This may or may not involve psychic activity and people can be trained to do this.
This is just the basics and scratching the surface. There is much more to it, and many more terms, but these are the most commonly tossed around. The sad part is today many WANT to be psychic. It has become popular where it used to be something that you were ridiculed for, even burned to death for. Many take intuition , which we all have, and try to present it as being psychic. Psychics can reach out and find answers, intuitives have information sent to them, if they try to seek information they cannot obtain it.
The hot ticket these days is mediumship. The only real mediums I have met are very pious , pure and genuine people. They have a very bright light around them, it is easy for a psychic (or medium) to spot a fake. Psychics also have a brighter light around them. There is so much to all of this, it is a whole class for another day. My psychic development classes actually have three full days of class schedules.
Don't be fooled by people who don't know the answers to how all this works, only those who are in clear and direct communication with their guides and the other side will have all the answers as to how the metaphysical world works. Metaphysicians will also have many answers but will not be able to describe the experience.
Many today not only fake things, or act things out because they really believe they have a skill, but there are also schizophrenics and other mental and emotional disorders that mimic psychic or mediumship skills. Beware the fakes and mentally ill.
Enjoy your week!
Many times callers will ask for certain talents, or misunderstand a word used. The sad part is many terms are thrown around by people who don't know what the terms mean, and mislead people. Today for an easy Friday blog before my bi-annual week of rest, I am going to go over some terms.
Here are some terms you have probably heard, but many do not understand:
Querant- A person who asks questions about their situations to an adviser.
Let's talk about the "clairs". The prefix "clair" means "clear" , it is derived from the French language and talks about senses for obtaining information about the future. The clairs also can help some see past and present events. They are words to ONLY be used as describing divination skills.
Clairvoyant- Means "clear seeing" of future events. Nothing else. It means in your minds eye you can clearly see things. It means your messages come to you in visual clues and aspects. This "seeing" is not external, but on a screen in the seer's mind. It is symbols, faces, places, designed to answer questions for a querant.
Clairaudient- Means "clear hearing" of messages for themselves or others. It can be a word, or a sound like wedding bells.
Clairsentient- means "clear feeling", feeling the emotions of others or that the Universe sends as messages to demonstrate how a querant or person they are asking about will feel emotionally.
Claircognizant- Means "clean knowing". When asked a question by a querant, a claircognizant immediately knows the answer as if you asked them their name.
Psychometric - A person who can obtain messages by picking up an object. The energies where the object has been will be read and messages passed on. This is used mostly for past events.
Psychic- A person who is able to get answers from beyond the normal ways and means. A person who uses sharpened intuitive skills to receive answers in order to help others from beyond our normal 5 senses. They can see into the past, present and future and have a "clair" listed above or combination of them. They can get information on the dead although they do not directly converse with the dead. They sense spirits, and energies.
Medium- People who are born with the ability to directly converse with the dead.They can see the dead in different "states" from what they looked like at death to sparks of light. Different mediums see and converse in different ways, but it is always direct and clear.They can ask questions of the dead and get clear responses, these questions do not include psychic information of the future, but about the deceased and their lives and current situations.
Trance Mediums are not conscious of their messages and need to be told them later. Physical mediums allow a spirit to overtake some or all of their physical body to send messages. Mediums do not have to use either of these methods, but can just simply converse.
Psychics and mediums can also sense and communicate with the other beings out there from angels, guides, gatekeepers, to entities on the negative side of things.
Do not confuse this with seeing ghosts. When you think you have seen an apparition, it does NOT mean you are a medium or even psychic. You just caught the right energy at the right time. Anyone with an open mind and lack of fear can see a ghost.
Intuitive- A person who picks up on the energy in an area, which may come with some information, from a feeling to a name. They cannot however ask for information and receive it. They are like a radio, they get what is sent only. Everyone is intuitive, but true initiatives have this skill highly sharpened. They cannot control it, it just comes to them, but the information is still totally valid.
Scrying- Looking into any reflective surface for messages. A method used by psychics. An example is a crystal ball, however some also use water, ice and mirrors.
Tarot- A divination method used by psychics and non psychics. There are 78 cards divided into the major and minor arcana that used archetypes to send messages quickly and clearly.
Prophecy- The gift that allows people to see world events before they occur.They relay messages from higher sources.
Spiritual- A way of living brought about by a belief that there is a Higher Power in this Universe. It is living life knowing that we are here for lessons, and we try to learn them as best we can for hope of moving forward to a state of closeness to that Highest Power in another dimension (sometimes referred to as Heaven).
Remote viewer- A person who can send their mind and sense to another place across the miles to see and hear what is currently going on somewhere else. It is sending one's conscious to another physical place. This may or may not involve psychic activity and people can be trained to do this.
This is just the basics and scratching the surface. There is much more to it, and many more terms, but these are the most commonly tossed around. The sad part is today many WANT to be psychic. It has become popular where it used to be something that you were ridiculed for, even burned to death for. Many take intuition , which we all have, and try to present it as being psychic. Psychics can reach out and find answers, intuitives have information sent to them, if they try to seek information they cannot obtain it.
The hot ticket these days is mediumship. The only real mediums I have met are very pious , pure and genuine people. They have a very bright light around them, it is easy for a psychic (or medium) to spot a fake. Psychics also have a brighter light around them. There is so much to all of this, it is a whole class for another day. My psychic development classes actually have three full days of class schedules.
Don't be fooled by people who don't know the answers to how all this works, only those who are in clear and direct communication with their guides and the other side will have all the answers as to how the metaphysical world works. Metaphysicians will also have many answers but will not be able to describe the experience.
Many today not only fake things, or act things out because they really believe they have a skill, but there are also schizophrenics and other mental and emotional disorders that mimic psychic or mediumship skills. Beware the fakes and mentally ill.
Enjoy your week!
Thursday, March 20, 2014
Welcome Spring!
Scientifically, today is the Vernal Equinox in the Northern Hemisphere.Today the equator passes the center of the sun, our tilt starts to go in the opposite direction. Weather is warmer, and the sun's focus adjusts.It is the day half way between the solstices.
Spiritually, today is a wonderful day for new beginnings. It is a day to choose your method of rebirth, and your method of starting anew. Use prayer, spells, manifestation, or just plain old planning, to start off today on a new adventure.
Some of your paths and actions may no longer serve you, and it is a time needed for a new beginning. You may want to start on a new path, just to do so! New paths are always good when their focus is good. Our journey here on earth is meant to be a time of learning and growth. Just because life is going well, doesn't mean we should ever stop learning. take a class, find a new hobby, a new place on this earth to visit, a new perspective. When our lives are not going well , we need a new direction, new focus, new partner, new job, new attitude.
Here in my part of Indiana, it is still winter. Spring will arrive at 11:57 AM, just in time for lunch! Those of you who have not decided what Newness you will bring into your lives have time to figure out where to start. I am sure that you already have an idea what you want to change.
Make sure that you pick something with as much "newness" to it as possible, and get started.
When there just isn't something, no matter how hard you try, then either say a prayer, meditate, or put on your thinking cap to come up with the idea today. You may not be able to get started right away, but you can find the starting point! That in itself is a new beginning!
What in your life needs change or adjustment? What is not going as well as it needs to? What have you been thinking of changing for a while now? New beginnings can include ending something, like bad habits, harmful relationships, and overspending, or it can be starting something new, like a new health regiment, new hobby, or new class.
Find that newness and start going! Happy spring!!!
For those of you have have not started this already.....in everything you do, remember to: DO the Right things for the Right reasons!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Spiritually, today is a wonderful day for new beginnings. It is a day to choose your method of rebirth, and your method of starting anew. Use prayer, spells, manifestation, or just plain old planning, to start off today on a new adventure.
Some of your paths and actions may no longer serve you, and it is a time needed for a new beginning. You may want to start on a new path, just to do so! New paths are always good when their focus is good. Our journey here on earth is meant to be a time of learning and growth. Just because life is going well, doesn't mean we should ever stop learning. take a class, find a new hobby, a new place on this earth to visit, a new perspective. When our lives are not going well , we need a new direction, new focus, new partner, new job, new attitude.
Here in my part of Indiana, it is still winter. Spring will arrive at 11:57 AM, just in time for lunch! Those of you who have not decided what Newness you will bring into your lives have time to figure out where to start. I am sure that you already have an idea what you want to change.
Make sure that you pick something with as much "newness" to it as possible, and get started.
When there just isn't something, no matter how hard you try, then either say a prayer, meditate, or put on your thinking cap to come up with the idea today. You may not be able to get started right away, but you can find the starting point! That in itself is a new beginning!
What in your life needs change or adjustment? What is not going as well as it needs to? What have you been thinking of changing for a while now? New beginnings can include ending something, like bad habits, harmful relationships, and overspending, or it can be starting something new, like a new health regiment, new hobby, or new class.
Find that newness and start going! Happy spring!!!
For those of you have have not started this already.....in everything you do, remember to: DO the Right things for the Right reasons!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Monday, March 10, 2014
Do unto others, and check up on those who don't
I always say that to keep us out of trouble, one of the best rules of thumb, is the old "do unto others". We don't all like or appreciate the same things, but it is a good guideline, especially once we get into some serious decisions on how we treat others.
If I could turn all the lies told on my behalf into manure I could fertilize the world. Most of that is because I my work sometimes involves a website that allows callers to leave feedback. It is usually an OK thing, but there are always people who just have to try to hurt you. They were hurt by your answer and they need to retaliate that hurt, so they slam you in your feedback. It is a financial hit that is annoying more than anything. I have the blessing of having a large customer base, so even though they do not always leave feedback (some call daily), I still have calls coming in. When readers are new, they do not have that luxury. It can take a wonderfully talented person and knock them right of the site, a person who could have helped many people.
It is to a point where many readers won't take calls from certain callers, or new callers, or people they have a bad vibe about. It is self preservation. I DO know this, we can check on the "reputation" of a caller. It is simple, we Google their screen name. Google is a wonderful thing. When you Google a person and a site, you can see all their feedback....and read it. It is so sad that there are people out there who NEVER say anything positive.
It is hard to get sites to control feedback, many are trying, some have changed their formats so that people cannot make litigious remarks. The site I work on recently warned callers not to make such remarks,as if the reader complains about people saying things like "fake" , then the site will release the caller's information to legal authorities for processing. The anonymity of the internet goes away.People who write nasty, slanderous things can get sued.
The internet has made people who don't have the courage to say anything directly, Bravehearts. They mouth off quite frequently and in a nasty way.
That isn't the end though. When you use a site and you see negativity against anyone, research the person who left the feedback. Do they say the same thing all the time? DO they leave nasty feedback all over the site or all over the net? Then that is not a person who's advice you want. Don't let them tell you who to call, where to eat, or where to stay on vacation.
My husband and I stay at a nice , quiet resort in Sedona every year. One year a flood of nasty feedback was written about the place. This place prides itself on being secluded, quiet , and peaceful. That is why people go there. It is a small place tucked in a canyon where a creek runs thorough. There isn't room for any cars other than at each cabin site, and it is one of the most peaceful places on earth. After reading the nasty feedback I realized it was a group of people who came on to the property, who were not staying there and who participated in a noisy party until they were all thrown out. No guests are allowed on this site, only people registered. No loud parties are allowed, no upsetting the guests who come for the peace and quiet. So here the owners ended up with 7 or 8 nasty write ups by people who didn't even pay to stay there! The VERY sad part is that people who do not know better will read it and not stay there. The loss is to the owners AND the people who didn't get to experience this wonderful place.
Be careful what you read, verify it, check it out. Check it our correctly.
When you see bad feedback, check out the person who left it. Check it out on any site. Yelp is full of nasty people having terrible things to say, and I know the site I work on has mentally and emotionally disturbed callers, plus angry people. Check out the feedback author. Don't allow a negative and hurtful person to keep you from a reader, restaurant, hotel...that may be just perfect for you!
Realize that many use feedback as a weapon. Many who loved the service never write their kudos, so when you do get good service, SHOUT IT OUT!
Do unto others, and as I say....do the right things for the right reasons!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
If I could turn all the lies told on my behalf into manure I could fertilize the world. Most of that is because I my work sometimes involves a website that allows callers to leave feedback. It is usually an OK thing, but there are always people who just have to try to hurt you. They were hurt by your answer and they need to retaliate that hurt, so they slam you in your feedback. It is a financial hit that is annoying more than anything. I have the blessing of having a large customer base, so even though they do not always leave feedback (some call daily), I still have calls coming in. When readers are new, they do not have that luxury. It can take a wonderfully talented person and knock them right of the site, a person who could have helped many people.
It is to a point where many readers won't take calls from certain callers, or new callers, or people they have a bad vibe about. It is self preservation. I DO know this, we can check on the "reputation" of a caller. It is simple, we Google their screen name. Google is a wonderful thing. When you Google a person and a site, you can see all their feedback....and read it. It is so sad that there are people out there who NEVER say anything positive.
It is hard to get sites to control feedback, many are trying, some have changed their formats so that people cannot make litigious remarks. The site I work on recently warned callers not to make such remarks,as if the reader complains about people saying things like "fake" , then the site will release the caller's information to legal authorities for processing. The anonymity of the internet goes away.People who write nasty, slanderous things can get sued.
The internet has made people who don't have the courage to say anything directly, Bravehearts. They mouth off quite frequently and in a nasty way.
That isn't the end though. When you use a site and you see negativity against anyone, research the person who left the feedback. Do they say the same thing all the time? DO they leave nasty feedback all over the site or all over the net? Then that is not a person who's advice you want. Don't let them tell you who to call, where to eat, or where to stay on vacation.
My husband and I stay at a nice , quiet resort in Sedona every year. One year a flood of nasty feedback was written about the place. This place prides itself on being secluded, quiet , and peaceful. That is why people go there. It is a small place tucked in a canyon where a creek runs thorough. There isn't room for any cars other than at each cabin site, and it is one of the most peaceful places on earth. After reading the nasty feedback I realized it was a group of people who came on to the property, who were not staying there and who participated in a noisy party until they were all thrown out. No guests are allowed on this site, only people registered. No loud parties are allowed, no upsetting the guests who come for the peace and quiet. So here the owners ended up with 7 or 8 nasty write ups by people who didn't even pay to stay there! The VERY sad part is that people who do not know better will read it and not stay there. The loss is to the owners AND the people who didn't get to experience this wonderful place.
Be careful what you read, verify it, check it out. Check it our correctly.
When you see bad feedback, check out the person who left it. Check it out on any site. Yelp is full of nasty people having terrible things to say, and I know the site I work on has mentally and emotionally disturbed callers, plus angry people. Check out the feedback author. Don't allow a negative and hurtful person to keep you from a reader, restaurant, hotel...that may be just perfect for you!
Realize that many use feedback as a weapon. Many who loved the service never write their kudos, so when you do get good service, SHOUT IT OUT!
Do unto others, and as I say....do the right things for the right reasons!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Three is not a bad number.....
I watch up and coming "ghost hunters", and it is amazing what effect social media has had on them. When I first started studying paranormal activity in the late 1970's, you rarely heard the word "demon". Now it seems like there is one lurking in every dark corner (there really isn't).
I have a love/hate relationship with paranormal investigation shows. They are wonderful for showing people that there is life after death and that people who "see ghosts" don't belong in the insane asylum. However, people think that everything they do is totally valid. It isn't.
Three has become a "bad number". Once on a Ghost Adventures episode a priest told Zach Bagans that his three scratches were the "mocking of the trinity" and that it was a demonic attack. Demons will scratch you with 10 lines if they want to. Three scratches does NOT mean it is a demonic entity that scratched you, just a powerful spirit, or one who has been on the other side a while and has figured things out. I know people who have been scratched and punched and none of them were attacked, nor possessed by a demon. Three is not a bad number.
Reach your hand out in front of you right now, palm down , as if you are going to run your hand down something...how many fingers face down (scratch position)? The answer is three...it is the easiest way, and the natural way for a hand to reach out and scratch you. Thumbs face in and pinkies are shorter and don't reach. Can you force five fingers? Sure you can, but naturally, the scratch would be three, index, middle and ring fingers.
I have even seen a YouTube video where a "investigator" is claiming that a K2 in the red is a demon. This is utter nonsense. It is simply a reading of over 20 MilliGauss. That's all. My microwave reads over 20, it isn't possessed that I know of. K2 meters do not always pick up spirit activity. You can have things happening in an area, and the needle never moves. There are also times when it is off the charts, and the reason is a natural occurrence. The red however does NOT indicate demonic activity.
I have been looking for answers for over 30 years. Studied parapsychology, psychology, religion, and have a degree in psychology and metaphysics. I have only been in two places in all that time, that I could say there was something "evil" in it. Nasty spirits, yes, things that never lived on this earth, yes (and just becasue they never lived on this earth doesn't make them demons, a prime example is angels!), nature spirits, yes, and natural phenomenoon, yes. Paranormal activity, tons of it, yes. Most likely demonic, twice.
Please do not believe everything you see on YouTube and read on the net.Many times spirits will act aggressive, although they are pretty weak, just to get you to leave them alone. They growl, just like you can if you try right now, that doesn't make you or it a demon.
I get tons of email of people asking if they have an attachment, a possession. So far all they have been attached and possessed to is the Ghost Adventures TV show.
I have had hundreds of paranormal experiences in my life, and hope to have many more, however for those who think the number three, and growls indicate demonic activity, you are way off base. One other note...that "flashlight communication" trick is pure garbage. Half turned on lights will flash when they want to. Watch carefully next time and you will see that the flashes do not match the questions....they just turn on and off at random.
We did a little experiment once at Villisca and asked if a former member was a purple cat. The answer was "yes". The silly questions went on for about 5 minutes, with the lights arcing off and on. You want answers from a spirit? Get a good digital voice recorder and /or a Spirit box. You will hear the investigators say the spirit is "excite" or "confused", no it is just general physics.
The paranormal is not all that hard to find out. A good investigator checks EVERYTHING to see why an event happened. They do not sit in a chair and say " I heard a noise, it's a ghost". They see what the noise was, and how it was made....and they certainly don't say "three knocks, its a demon!"
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
I have a love/hate relationship with paranormal investigation shows. They are wonderful for showing people that there is life after death and that people who "see ghosts" don't belong in the insane asylum. However, people think that everything they do is totally valid. It isn't.
Three has become a "bad number". Once on a Ghost Adventures episode a priest told Zach Bagans that his three scratches were the "mocking of the trinity" and that it was a demonic attack. Demons will scratch you with 10 lines if they want to. Three scratches does NOT mean it is a demonic entity that scratched you, just a powerful spirit, or one who has been on the other side a while and has figured things out. I know people who have been scratched and punched and none of them were attacked, nor possessed by a demon. Three is not a bad number.
Reach your hand out in front of you right now, palm down , as if you are going to run your hand down something...how many fingers face down (scratch position)? The answer is three...it is the easiest way, and the natural way for a hand to reach out and scratch you. Thumbs face in and pinkies are shorter and don't reach. Can you force five fingers? Sure you can, but naturally, the scratch would be three, index, middle and ring fingers.
I have even seen a YouTube video where a "investigator" is claiming that a K2 in the red is a demon. This is utter nonsense. It is simply a reading of over 20 MilliGauss. That's all. My microwave reads over 20, it isn't possessed that I know of. K2 meters do not always pick up spirit activity. You can have things happening in an area, and the needle never moves. There are also times when it is off the charts, and the reason is a natural occurrence. The red however does NOT indicate demonic activity.
I have been looking for answers for over 30 years. Studied parapsychology, psychology, religion, and have a degree in psychology and metaphysics. I have only been in two places in all that time, that I could say there was something "evil" in it. Nasty spirits, yes, things that never lived on this earth, yes (and just becasue they never lived on this earth doesn't make them demons, a prime example is angels!), nature spirits, yes, and natural phenomenoon, yes. Paranormal activity, tons of it, yes. Most likely demonic, twice.
Please do not believe everything you see on YouTube and read on the net.Many times spirits will act aggressive, although they are pretty weak, just to get you to leave them alone. They growl, just like you can if you try right now, that doesn't make you or it a demon.
I get tons of email of people asking if they have an attachment, a possession. So far all they have been attached and possessed to is the Ghost Adventures TV show.
I have had hundreds of paranormal experiences in my life, and hope to have many more, however for those who think the number three, and growls indicate demonic activity, you are way off base. One other note...that "flashlight communication" trick is pure garbage. Half turned on lights will flash when they want to. Watch carefully next time and you will see that the flashes do not match the questions....they just turn on and off at random.
We did a little experiment once at Villisca and asked if a former member was a purple cat. The answer was "yes". The silly questions went on for about 5 minutes, with the lights arcing off and on. You want answers from a spirit? Get a good digital voice recorder and /or a Spirit box. You will hear the investigators say the spirit is "excite" or "confused", no it is just general physics.
The paranormal is not all that hard to find out. A good investigator checks EVERYTHING to see why an event happened. They do not sit in a chair and say " I heard a noise, it's a ghost". They see what the noise was, and how it was made....and they certainly don't say "three knocks, its a demon!"
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Looking for love.....
The very worst way of finding a good relationship, is to look for it.
When people look for a relationship, they may surely find one, but as to finding a great one, the chances are very slim. One thing that happens is that when people get caught up in "looking" , they have a hard time finding the right combination, so they settle. They figure if they have 8 of the 10 things on their list, that is pretty good. It isn't. Eventually, and usually sooner rather than later, the relationship starts to go sideways. The little things that were thought to be "not all that important" , suddenly loom large as "deal breakers".
Some hang in there , determined to have relationships, and end up in abusive marriages, marriages where the partner constantly cheats, marriages that end up as "room mates" rather than lovers and partners, and some don't even get to marriage stage. Most don't.
It always amuses me when I tell people that there is a great guy coming in three months and get the response that "three months" is something akin to 40 years on a desert island. They say "I can't wait that long!" (Yes you can, and I don't have a man in my back pocket to pull out and produce for you.). I didn't get married at all the first time until I was 28, and after being divorced for several years, I found my perfect match. Yes, I said several years, and here some people can't wait until next month to find a relationship.
I also get people saying things along the lines of another person being married , and she is a horrible person, she is mean, and rude. How do you know how she is when they are together alone? How do you know he doesn't like her just the way she is? Maybe he has a hard time being assertive and likes her to do the job since she is so good at it. Don't judge other people's relationships to qualify your own.
Make sure that you don't rush, and when you get there, don't change. Don't get lazy in your relationship, don't enter into to it in the first place if you are seeing issues from the start. Make sure it is a 50/50 relationship every day. When it isn't 50/50, it won't last.
Getting pregnant is also no way to keep a man, it is a great way to scare many of them away. Make sure that your relationship is on excellent footing (kids add stress and if the relationship is already rocky, kids will break it, not fix it), make sure finances are in order, and make sure you are physically prepared.
When you take your time and forge a meaningful, loving, partnership, then you will have a wonderful relationship for many years.
Don't rush!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
When people look for a relationship, they may surely find one, but as to finding a great one, the chances are very slim. One thing that happens is that when people get caught up in "looking" , they have a hard time finding the right combination, so they settle. They figure if they have 8 of the 10 things on their list, that is pretty good. It isn't. Eventually, and usually sooner rather than later, the relationship starts to go sideways. The little things that were thought to be "not all that important" , suddenly loom large as "deal breakers".
Some hang in there , determined to have relationships, and end up in abusive marriages, marriages where the partner constantly cheats, marriages that end up as "room mates" rather than lovers and partners, and some don't even get to marriage stage. Most don't.
It always amuses me when I tell people that there is a great guy coming in three months and get the response that "three months" is something akin to 40 years on a desert island. They say "I can't wait that long!" (Yes you can, and I don't have a man in my back pocket to pull out and produce for you.). I didn't get married at all the first time until I was 28, and after being divorced for several years, I found my perfect match. Yes, I said several years, and here some people can't wait until next month to find a relationship.
I also get people saying things along the lines of another person being married , and she is a horrible person, she is mean, and rude. How do you know how she is when they are together alone? How do you know he doesn't like her just the way she is? Maybe he has a hard time being assertive and likes her to do the job since she is so good at it. Don't judge other people's relationships to qualify your own.
Make sure that you don't rush, and when you get there, don't change. Don't get lazy in your relationship, don't enter into to it in the first place if you are seeing issues from the start. Make sure it is a 50/50 relationship every day. When it isn't 50/50, it won't last.
Getting pregnant is also no way to keep a man, it is a great way to scare many of them away. Make sure that your relationship is on excellent footing (kids add stress and if the relationship is already rocky, kids will break it, not fix it), make sure finances are in order, and make sure you are physically prepared.
When you take your time and forge a meaningful, loving, partnership, then you will have a wonderful relationship for many years.
Don't rush!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
Thursday, February 13, 2014
Back to ME ME ME
I probably have written 20 blogs on how too many people always self focus. People who want to be in their comfort zone all of the time. It is OK to do that when it doesn't effect others. It is not OK to do that when even one other person is effected.
There have been so many comments lately by clients about selfish people in their lives. I try to word it nicely saying something along the lines of "he has too much inner focus" to which the person usually replies, "yeah he's selfish". Well at least we know what is going on!
We went through a period in the 80's where kids were told that everything they did, were, and wanted was OK. Some parents forgot to parent while teaching their kids this, and instead of ending up with confident kids, they ended up with pushy, selfish people.
One lady yesterday complained of no friends, her family won't talk to her, they are all horrible people. She wanted to know why she was surrounded by people who wouldn't help her and who wouldn't talk to her. She asked why she wasn't allowed in her parent's homes and why none of her friends answer the door....she ranted about what a bunch of evil, horrible jerks they were.....(...and unfortunately this happens frequently).
OK, first of all, if they are so very horrible, why do you want to be around them? She thought about that for a while, then said she needed people to be there for her....Really? Why? The goal in life is to be an independent as you possibly can. That doesn't mean snub the world and live in a cave, it does mean that when you have your act together and you can always rely on yourself to get done, whatever you need done, then you will never have an issue like this. Ladies, you NEED to earn your own money. You need to be able to know how to take care of business. You need to do it well.
When "almost friendless" / "My family hates me" asked why all the people were so horrible, why all these situations went badly, I asked her...What is the common denominator? What is it in all these scenarios that is the same? The answer was her.
A long time ago my Mom told me that when people spout off ,and you constantly hear the same complaints about others from them, you will hear that person describe what they fear or know themselves to be. She didn't quite word it that way, but it was along the lines of "people who are constantly calling other people liars, are the worst liars themselves". That was a long time ago on my path through life, and as I went along to college and majored in psychology, the taught us the same thing....and you know what? It is true.
When people call others liars all the time, they are the worst liars. When people call others demanding or pushy, they are the most demanding and pushy person you will meet. The old timers called it "the pot calling the kettle black". You will know what others are, just by what they constantly accuse others of being. The common denominator, the "horrible person" in the caller's life was her. (What was the old political cartoon..."we have met the enemy and he is us....). Once she realized this, she really became upset of course, but hopefully she will try to change. She is in so deep I doubt she can do it without help.
When we grow up and older, we should accumulate experiences, talents, friends. We should become richer in every aspect. Things we have done, things we know, yes money, and we should be adding friends and family members. That doesn't mean that things do not change or people do not drift away, however when your amount of good friends is going down instead of up, you have (and are) the problem.
People no longer allow others to upset and ruin their lives, they weed their gardens, and they SHOULD do that. There is no reason to keep hateful, abusive, harmful, negative or selfish people in your life. Keeping them and allowing them to be these things just cripples them, it does not help them. It tells them that it is OK to be a jerk, and then when others with stronger backbones get real with them, they think the person with the backbone is the jerk.
Look around and see who is around you. Is the number and quality better than it was 5-10 years ago, or worse? When it is worse, it is time to take a good, hard, look in the mirror and make changes. Be careful of those people who are always shouting "Liar!" or "Thief!", they are describing themselves!
Be the best you can be, and do unto others.
D tohe right thing for the right reasons, not for selfish reasons....when people have an issue with that, weed the garden!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission. Pass on the link , we are happy for you to do that!
There have been so many comments lately by clients about selfish people in their lives. I try to word it nicely saying something along the lines of "he has too much inner focus" to which the person usually replies, "yeah he's selfish". Well at least we know what is going on!
We went through a period in the 80's where kids were told that everything they did, were, and wanted was OK. Some parents forgot to parent while teaching their kids this, and instead of ending up with confident kids, they ended up with pushy, selfish people.
One lady yesterday complained of no friends, her family won't talk to her, they are all horrible people. She wanted to know why she was surrounded by people who wouldn't help her and who wouldn't talk to her. She asked why she wasn't allowed in her parent's homes and why none of her friends answer the door....she ranted about what a bunch of evil, horrible jerks they were.....(...and unfortunately this happens frequently).
OK, first of all, if they are so very horrible, why do you want to be around them? She thought about that for a while, then said she needed people to be there for her....Really? Why? The goal in life is to be an independent as you possibly can. That doesn't mean snub the world and live in a cave, it does mean that when you have your act together and you can always rely on yourself to get done, whatever you need done, then you will never have an issue like this. Ladies, you NEED to earn your own money. You need to be able to know how to take care of business. You need to do it well.
When "almost friendless" / "My family hates me" asked why all the people were so horrible, why all these situations went badly, I asked her...What is the common denominator? What is it in all these scenarios that is the same? The answer was her.
A long time ago my Mom told me that when people spout off ,and you constantly hear the same complaints about others from them, you will hear that person describe what they fear or know themselves to be. She didn't quite word it that way, but it was along the lines of "people who are constantly calling other people liars, are the worst liars themselves". That was a long time ago on my path through life, and as I went along to college and majored in psychology, the taught us the same thing....and you know what? It is true.
When people call others liars all the time, they are the worst liars. When people call others demanding or pushy, they are the most demanding and pushy person you will meet. The old timers called it "the pot calling the kettle black". You will know what others are, just by what they constantly accuse others of being. The common denominator, the "horrible person" in the caller's life was her. (What was the old political cartoon..."we have met the enemy and he is us....). Once she realized this, she really became upset of course, but hopefully she will try to change. She is in so deep I doubt she can do it without help.
When we grow up and older, we should accumulate experiences, talents, friends. We should become richer in every aspect. Things we have done, things we know, yes money, and we should be adding friends and family members. That doesn't mean that things do not change or people do not drift away, however when your amount of good friends is going down instead of up, you have (and are) the problem.
People no longer allow others to upset and ruin their lives, they weed their gardens, and they SHOULD do that. There is no reason to keep hateful, abusive, harmful, negative or selfish people in your life. Keeping them and allowing them to be these things just cripples them, it does not help them. It tells them that it is OK to be a jerk, and then when others with stronger backbones get real with them, they think the person with the backbone is the jerk.
Look around and see who is around you. Is the number and quality better than it was 5-10 years ago, or worse? When it is worse, it is time to take a good, hard, look in the mirror and make changes. Be careful of those people who are always shouting "Liar!" or "Thief!", they are describing themselves!
Be the best you can be, and do unto others.
D tohe right thing for the right reasons, not for selfish reasons....when people have an issue with that, weed the garden!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission. Pass on the link , we are happy for you to do that!
Thursday, February 6, 2014
Value, a word to remember. Soulmate a word to forget.
People do not put a value on value.....OK sounds silly , but here we go.
People have relationships, they call their partner their "soulmate" because for some reason (and sometimes that reason is dysfunction), they are so attached to this person, they think it means that their union is in someway ordained by God on High. Seriously, God doesn't care. Yahweh doesn't care, no matter what you call the spiritual leader in your life, it doesn't care.
The Universe will sometimes put us in a situation together. It may be to have a wonderful relationship, and it may be to learn a harsh lesson. Did the Universe sit down and pick your mate before you were born. No, it has much more important things to do. YOU even picked your parents! You picked your lessons, and you picked you challenges. When all that truly important stuff is decided by you, what makes you think the Universe picked your love interest?
The whole "soulmate" thing is a modern contrivance, made up by people who want to sell books, readings, spells, counseling and coaching. Can you honestly say that the Universe placed you with someone who won't talk to you., cheats on you, won't give you the time of day, because they are your perfect partner? Your "soulmate" is not married to someone else or dating someone else. They are not abusive, they are not a person who will ignore you, tell you to get lost, or call and complain that you are stalking them. When it isn't working, it isn't even a valuable relationship, it certainly isn't something that would be a soulmate situation!
People need to put more value on themselves, some people put too much, but others allow people to treat them like a dirty dishrag and then wonder why everything goes to hell every day.
Value. We don't value our friendships, our families , our job, our lives. We complain, gripe, accuse, and slander. When we truly value, we will never do these things.
Let's think in a mundane way to make it clear. When we see an item for $1.99 it may or may not be a good value. When it is a cheeseburger, you probably aren't getting good value or service. How big is it? What is the nutritional value? The taste? Does it fill you up? Now buy a $4.99 cheeseburger that tastes great, fills you up, is healthier, and is bigger. That is a better value. Some people but the cheapest they can find, and then say, "Well if it doesn't work it is cheap to replace". OK, Let's say I buy a $1 scrub brush. It doesn't scrub very well, the bristles fall out, the handle snaps, and it hurts my hand if I scrub hard. Since it breaks all the time, I have bought five of them this year, so it is really a $5 scrub brush, plus my time and gas to get five of them.The things I am trying to scrub aren't a as clean as I would like. I see value in things , so instead I buy a $3.99 scrub brush. It cleans better and I use it all year. It is more expensive, but it is a better value.
We have to also put value on things. We have to celebrate our friends, situations, jobs, even if they aren't exactly what we would prefer. Not everyone thinks like us, and when we try to force others into our way, it never works well. That said, many times in life, you have to do things, or do things in a way that you wouldn't normally. The key is to make suggestions, then move forward.
Life is too short to spend it with a jerk who you labeled "soulmate", a cheeseburger that doesn't fill you up and has no nutritional value, and things that keep breaking (or are less than what you could have), because you are not putting a value on things.
The handsomest man on the block is not your soulmate because you can't stop thinking about him, and the lowest number after the dollar sign is not the best value. I have heard the word "soulmate" five times since yesterday. None of these people were worthy of the term, more like abusive, noncommittal jerks.One man, to his credit, was just a guy who is fresh out of a marriage and is not interested in dating. Just because you are head over heels in some altered state over a person or thing, doesn't mean it has any real value or is your "soulmate".
Value people who value you. That doesn't mean people who always agree with you or do what you want. That doesn't mean men who chase you (and then when they catch you, they walk away). It means a true partnership, and that is always 50/50.
Everything you do today should be looked at in terms of "value" . Don't cheat yourself looking for the easiest, cheapest, smoothest way, you may be surprised at what you see!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
People have relationships, they call their partner their "soulmate" because for some reason (and sometimes that reason is dysfunction), they are so attached to this person, they think it means that their union is in someway ordained by God on High. Seriously, God doesn't care. Yahweh doesn't care, no matter what you call the spiritual leader in your life, it doesn't care.
The Universe will sometimes put us in a situation together. It may be to have a wonderful relationship, and it may be to learn a harsh lesson. Did the Universe sit down and pick your mate before you were born. No, it has much more important things to do. YOU even picked your parents! You picked your lessons, and you picked you challenges. When all that truly important stuff is decided by you, what makes you think the Universe picked your love interest?
The whole "soulmate" thing is a modern contrivance, made up by people who want to sell books, readings, spells, counseling and coaching. Can you honestly say that the Universe placed you with someone who won't talk to you., cheats on you, won't give you the time of day, because they are your perfect partner? Your "soulmate" is not married to someone else or dating someone else. They are not abusive, they are not a person who will ignore you, tell you to get lost, or call and complain that you are stalking them. When it isn't working, it isn't even a valuable relationship, it certainly isn't something that would be a soulmate situation!
People need to put more value on themselves, some people put too much, but others allow people to treat them like a dirty dishrag and then wonder why everything goes to hell every day.
Value. We don't value our friendships, our families , our job, our lives. We complain, gripe, accuse, and slander. When we truly value, we will never do these things.
Let's think in a mundane way to make it clear. When we see an item for $1.99 it may or may not be a good value. When it is a cheeseburger, you probably aren't getting good value or service. How big is it? What is the nutritional value? The taste? Does it fill you up? Now buy a $4.99 cheeseburger that tastes great, fills you up, is healthier, and is bigger. That is a better value. Some people but the cheapest they can find, and then say, "Well if it doesn't work it is cheap to replace". OK, Let's say I buy a $1 scrub brush. It doesn't scrub very well, the bristles fall out, the handle snaps, and it hurts my hand if I scrub hard. Since it breaks all the time, I have bought five of them this year, so it is really a $5 scrub brush, plus my time and gas to get five of them.The things I am trying to scrub aren't a as clean as I would like. I see value in things , so instead I buy a $3.99 scrub brush. It cleans better and I use it all year. It is more expensive, but it is a better value.
We have to also put value on things. We have to celebrate our friends, situations, jobs, even if they aren't exactly what we would prefer. Not everyone thinks like us, and when we try to force others into our way, it never works well. That said, many times in life, you have to do things, or do things in a way that you wouldn't normally. The key is to make suggestions, then move forward.
Life is too short to spend it with a jerk who you labeled "soulmate", a cheeseburger that doesn't fill you up and has no nutritional value, and things that keep breaking (or are less than what you could have), because you are not putting a value on things.
The handsomest man on the block is not your soulmate because you can't stop thinking about him, and the lowest number after the dollar sign is not the best value. I have heard the word "soulmate" five times since yesterday. None of these people were worthy of the term, more like abusive, noncommittal jerks.One man, to his credit, was just a guy who is fresh out of a marriage and is not interested in dating. Just because you are head over heels in some altered state over a person or thing, doesn't mean it has any real value or is your "soulmate".
Value people who value you. That doesn't mean people who always agree with you or do what you want. That doesn't mean men who chase you (and then when they catch you, they walk away). It means a true partnership, and that is always 50/50.
Everything you do today should be looked at in terms of "value" . Don't cheat yourself looking for the easiest, cheapest, smoothest way, you may be surprised at what you see!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Visiting Haunted locations
When we talk about going to haunted locations, we get a mix of responses. One is "You believe in that stuff?" The second is "Why bother the dead?". The third is "Can we come too!?"
The first answer is" absolutely" . I have had too many direct experiences that happened WAY before the creation of TAPS and GAC that were pretty convincing. Then I learned about how to communicate with my guides, and the information I garnered was very valuable.
Question two, "why bother the dead"? Why do people think the dead are being bothered? Many approach people, come into their homes and even cause issues. When they cause issues we send them on their way, just as you would any misbehaving or unwanted guest. I would say from experience MOST spirits we have communicated with aren't bothered at all. They want to communicate, and many cannot see, hear or feel them...or are afraid of them, so their opportunities are limited. Some do want to be left alone, and we do leave them alone unless they are causing distress to someone living. Then we either make a deal with them to behave, or oust them.
The dead are the same people they were in life. The talkative, friendly, active people are still the same and have no problem interacting with you. The grouchy, nasty, unfriendly ones, are also still the same and either won't interact, or will be negative.
When we are told "we don't want to talk", we move on. We do not EVER provoke, demand, or force answers from spirits. We know we wouldn't want someone coming into our home and treating us like that, so we don't treat them like that.
Question three, "can we go too?" . The answer is "maybe". I have seen people come and go, they either get scared, feel guilty, worry about things following them home (which can be an issue if you don't know what you are doing), or act so badly that they ruin an investigation ( the biggest issue). Currently we have a group that votes members in, and they have to have experience. That doesn't mean we won't go on "ghost walks" and teach people, but we do not invite them on investigations, especially to client's homes.
When you visit a haunted location, please be respectful. How would you like it if a group of people barged in your front door and demanded answers from you? The "do unto others" rule applies to the dead also.
Remember also that the dead are active in the daytime, they are around you always, they are just who they were when they were alive, you just can't see them (unless you are a medium). Make sure that you treat them well, but if they "act up" treat them like a child who needs instruction or an intruder in your home, depending on the situation and severity. Make sure that when you need help, that you get qualified help.
Ghosts ARE people too.....
Do the right things for the right reasons!
Check out our group page on Facebook under:
Paranormal Research & Investigation, Ohio Valley
Peshaui Wequashimese
Please feel free to share the link for the blog.
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used , copied or reproduced without prior written permission
The first answer is" absolutely" . I have had too many direct experiences that happened WAY before the creation of TAPS and GAC that were pretty convincing. Then I learned about how to communicate with my guides, and the information I garnered was very valuable.
Question two, "why bother the dead"? Why do people think the dead are being bothered? Many approach people, come into their homes and even cause issues. When they cause issues we send them on their way, just as you would any misbehaving or unwanted guest. I would say from experience MOST spirits we have communicated with aren't bothered at all. They want to communicate, and many cannot see, hear or feel them...or are afraid of them, so their opportunities are limited. Some do want to be left alone, and we do leave them alone unless they are causing distress to someone living. Then we either make a deal with them to behave, or oust them.
The dead are the same people they were in life. The talkative, friendly, active people are still the same and have no problem interacting with you. The grouchy, nasty, unfriendly ones, are also still the same and either won't interact, or will be negative.
When we are told "we don't want to talk", we move on. We do not EVER provoke, demand, or force answers from spirits. We know we wouldn't want someone coming into our home and treating us like that, so we don't treat them like that.
Question three, "can we go too?" . The answer is "maybe". I have seen people come and go, they either get scared, feel guilty, worry about things following them home (which can be an issue if you don't know what you are doing), or act so badly that they ruin an investigation ( the biggest issue). Currently we have a group that votes members in, and they have to have experience. That doesn't mean we won't go on "ghost walks" and teach people, but we do not invite them on investigations, especially to client's homes.
When you visit a haunted location, please be respectful. How would you like it if a group of people barged in your front door and demanded answers from you? The "do unto others" rule applies to the dead also.
Remember also that the dead are active in the daytime, they are around you always, they are just who they were when they were alive, you just can't see them (unless you are a medium). Make sure that you treat them well, but if they "act up" treat them like a child who needs instruction or an intruder in your home, depending on the situation and severity. Make sure that when you need help, that you get qualified help.
Ghosts ARE people too.....
Do the right things for the right reasons!
Check out our group page on Facebook under:
Paranormal Research & Investigation, Ohio Valley
Peshaui Wequashimese
Please feel free to share the link for the blog.
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used , copied or reproduced without prior written permission
Thursday, January 16, 2014
ASSUME.....well you know how that goes
Yesterday was a day that was full of people assuming things and making their life worse for it.
There are so many times when a small issue can be quickly cleared up, but instead is made into Mount Everest. The way to keep this from happening? Simple, ask a question.
How many situation comedies are based on someone seeing , hearing or experiencing something that they get the wrong idea about?You as the audience know, as you are privy to the actions the "assumer" didn't get to see, and you laugh your way through the show watching them make a fool out of themselves.
How many times in real life have you been that fool?
This life is school. We are here to learn to show our achievements (or failures so we can be taught again). We are here to communicate with , teach and learn from others. Instead of assuming the worse about people, assume nothing.
Here are two examples from the past 48 hours.
A woman sees on her boyfriend's phone a text to a female saying "You are beautiful". She had not time to read others....just that one. I looked and found it to be to a family member. I can think of other scenarios where someone may text this and it doesn't mean that he is having sex with her. I told my secretary this once when she helped solve a huge problem for me....so does that make me a lesbian? People let their minds go to places of their own insecurity. This lady I am talking about went totally insecure and almost messed up a great thing..
First of all , remember Shakespeare's words. "Peek not through the keyhole lest you be vexed".(King Lear)
In other words, when you are nosy, you may find something you don't like, and it may be about you. You may find something that you totally do not understand and worry about that is totally nothing at all. We find what we look for. When we look for negative in the world, we find it. When we look for positive in the same world, we find it. Train yourself to look for positive.
Getting back to the lady with the phone...her boyfriend was texting his 10 year old daughter who was being picked on in school. She met his daughter, and lo and behold, it was her name on the text.....
The next issue was a person who had made a mistake in life, she felt very guilty about it and was having trouble reconciling the event. During an argument with her boyfriend, he said to her that another male friend (who the boyfriend was jealous of), had told everyone of her mistake she made in life. It worked, she shut that man out of her life.
The problem, the man friend never said it, never told anyone, he was a friend of hers when this event happened, and the boyfriend wasn't even around yet. She found out when the boyfriend confessed to her after the old friend was cut out a few weeks. Her "wonderful" boyfriend was gloating over how vulnerable she was, he was "showing her" that she needed him becasue she couldn't make sound decisions on her own. Apparently her "picking boyfriend abilities" aren't that sharp. I told her to ditch him....she did. She and the old friend are friends again.
I have said it in many blogs. When you have an issue with someone talk to THEM about it. You can get other people's opinions, but ALWAYS make sure that you talk to the person who you think wronged you.You may find out that you are assuming.....the wrong thing.When they won't talk to you, that is OK, it's their funeral.
Someone asked me last night what I would do if a person I knew , assumed something untrue about me. I said...Let them go. I have done it and will do it again. I have done it recently.
When a person who is close to you in some manner, assumes something bad or negative about you and doesn't bother to stop a moment and ask you about it, then good riddance. I don't need people like that in my life. I have better things to do and better people to associate with. I have done it a few times now, in my life. I would do it again. I have no problem weeding my garden.
Make sure you always ASK, not ASSUME. It will keep you from stressing over things, it will help you make the right decision, and it will keep you from looking like a total fool.
Don't be the star of your own situational comedy!
Do unto others...
and
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
There are so many times when a small issue can be quickly cleared up, but instead is made into Mount Everest. The way to keep this from happening? Simple, ask a question.
How many situation comedies are based on someone seeing , hearing or experiencing something that they get the wrong idea about?You as the audience know, as you are privy to the actions the "assumer" didn't get to see, and you laugh your way through the show watching them make a fool out of themselves.
How many times in real life have you been that fool?
This life is school. We are here to learn to show our achievements (or failures so we can be taught again). We are here to communicate with , teach and learn from others. Instead of assuming the worse about people, assume nothing.
Here are two examples from the past 48 hours.
A woman sees on her boyfriend's phone a text to a female saying "You are beautiful". She had not time to read others....just that one. I looked and found it to be to a family member. I can think of other scenarios where someone may text this and it doesn't mean that he is having sex with her. I told my secretary this once when she helped solve a huge problem for me....so does that make me a lesbian? People let their minds go to places of their own insecurity. This lady I am talking about went totally insecure and almost messed up a great thing..
First of all , remember Shakespeare's words. "Peek not through the keyhole lest you be vexed".(King Lear)
In other words, when you are nosy, you may find something you don't like, and it may be about you. You may find something that you totally do not understand and worry about that is totally nothing at all. We find what we look for. When we look for negative in the world, we find it. When we look for positive in the same world, we find it. Train yourself to look for positive.
Getting back to the lady with the phone...her boyfriend was texting his 10 year old daughter who was being picked on in school. She met his daughter, and lo and behold, it was her name on the text.....
The next issue was a person who had made a mistake in life, she felt very guilty about it and was having trouble reconciling the event. During an argument with her boyfriend, he said to her that another male friend (who the boyfriend was jealous of), had told everyone of her mistake she made in life. It worked, she shut that man out of her life.
The problem, the man friend never said it, never told anyone, he was a friend of hers when this event happened, and the boyfriend wasn't even around yet. She found out when the boyfriend confessed to her after the old friend was cut out a few weeks. Her "wonderful" boyfriend was gloating over how vulnerable she was, he was "showing her" that she needed him becasue she couldn't make sound decisions on her own. Apparently her "picking boyfriend abilities" aren't that sharp. I told her to ditch him....she did. She and the old friend are friends again.
I have said it in many blogs. When you have an issue with someone talk to THEM about it. You can get other people's opinions, but ALWAYS make sure that you talk to the person who you think wronged you.You may find out that you are assuming.....the wrong thing.When they won't talk to you, that is OK, it's their funeral.
Someone asked me last night what I would do if a person I knew , assumed something untrue about me. I said...Let them go. I have done it and will do it again. I have done it recently.
When a person who is close to you in some manner, assumes something bad or negative about you and doesn't bother to stop a moment and ask you about it, then good riddance. I don't need people like that in my life. I have better things to do and better people to associate with. I have done it a few times now, in my life. I would do it again. I have no problem weeding my garden.
Make sure you always ASK, not ASSUME. It will keep you from stressing over things, it will help you make the right decision, and it will keep you from looking like a total fool.
Don't be the star of your own situational comedy!
Do unto others...
and
Do the right things for the right reasons.
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Thursday, January 9, 2014
It is all relative
I notice that the media (and especially the social media), like to use blanket statements about all kinds of different things , that they state as facts. I have yet to see a Facebook posting that has a full honest statement on it. It is always someone adjusting little snippets of almost truth to prove a point. That is very hard to do when there is little to no factual information in the statement, but people don't seem to care. Then people read it, think it is cool, and pass it on as fact.
The finer points of information in the mundane world are easier to show proof or to negate. When someone makes a statement like "the highest cost of living occurs in Moscow, Russia", it is easy to check that out (and that is true by the way). You can research and find lists of cities worldwide. When you have a statement like "workers in Norway make the best products because they are the highest paid in the world", you are treading in dangerous territory. Firstly I want to say that I made that up, but let's for a moment assume I did not. Where is the proof that their high pay is the reason that they make better product? Maybe it is their technology. Maybe they are raised differently with a value and pride in their work. Maybe they are the highest paid, but maybe they live in the country with the highest cost of living, so they aren't feeling so "well paid" and passing that feeling on to the work. When you make $10 an hour and a loaf of bread is .85 cents, you have a better cost of living than a country where you make $20.00 and hour, but a loaf of bread costs $3.00.
It is all relative.
The same goes with the spiritual or metaphysical world. A prime example is that people think that you have to be clairvoyant to be psychic. Not true. That is like saying you have to be a center Hall Colonial to be a house. A clairvoyant is a a type of psychic. Clairvoyants easily get messages through images they have to interpret. Sometimes the image is a archetype, and other times a specific image. It is a rare person indeed who is able to get messages the way you see on TV, that is by watching a scene play out.
The problem on the metaphysical side is unlike the mundane, where we can get a specific answer, we are many times left to "figure it out". This is why the beat paranormal investigators have a big touch of skepticism. Remember, an EVP does not a haunted building make....and many times weird photos are simply weird photos. They can be common things that are caught looking "uncommon". Bouncing raindrops in the right light, look like little fireballs coming out of the earth.
Whenever someone uses a statement including words like "best", "most", "always", be careful. RESEARCH before passing anything on.
Social media is the worst place to find facts, and should always be read with a healthy dose of skepticism. I had a friend one day pass along a "cleaning" hint that involved heating ammonia....when you heat ammonia, it explodes. It is what people make bombs out of (ammonium nitrate). It would take your breath away , make you pass out, and you probably wouldn't feel the explosion...but that is the type of stuff that is posted on Facebook.
An intelligent person is not one who has memorized a bunch of facts, but one who can think for themselves. It is a person who looks for answers, isn't gullible, and who knows how to properly research. Make sure that you are one of those if you are in the paranormal, metaphysical , or mundane community.
Check it out before passing it on!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
The finer points of information in the mundane world are easier to show proof or to negate. When someone makes a statement like "the highest cost of living occurs in Moscow, Russia", it is easy to check that out (and that is true by the way). You can research and find lists of cities worldwide. When you have a statement like "workers in Norway make the best products because they are the highest paid in the world", you are treading in dangerous territory. Firstly I want to say that I made that up, but let's for a moment assume I did not. Where is the proof that their high pay is the reason that they make better product? Maybe it is their technology. Maybe they are raised differently with a value and pride in their work. Maybe they are the highest paid, but maybe they live in the country with the highest cost of living, so they aren't feeling so "well paid" and passing that feeling on to the work. When you make $10 an hour and a loaf of bread is .85 cents, you have a better cost of living than a country where you make $20.00 and hour, but a loaf of bread costs $3.00.
It is all relative.
The same goes with the spiritual or metaphysical world. A prime example is that people think that you have to be clairvoyant to be psychic. Not true. That is like saying you have to be a center Hall Colonial to be a house. A clairvoyant is a a type of psychic. Clairvoyants easily get messages through images they have to interpret. Sometimes the image is a archetype, and other times a specific image. It is a rare person indeed who is able to get messages the way you see on TV, that is by watching a scene play out.
The problem on the metaphysical side is unlike the mundane, where we can get a specific answer, we are many times left to "figure it out". This is why the beat paranormal investigators have a big touch of skepticism. Remember, an EVP does not a haunted building make....and many times weird photos are simply weird photos. They can be common things that are caught looking "uncommon". Bouncing raindrops in the right light, look like little fireballs coming out of the earth.
Whenever someone uses a statement including words like "best", "most", "always", be careful. RESEARCH before passing anything on.
Social media is the worst place to find facts, and should always be read with a healthy dose of skepticism. I had a friend one day pass along a "cleaning" hint that involved heating ammonia....when you heat ammonia, it explodes. It is what people make bombs out of (ammonium nitrate). It would take your breath away , make you pass out, and you probably wouldn't feel the explosion...but that is the type of stuff that is posted on Facebook.
An intelligent person is not one who has memorized a bunch of facts, but one who can think for themselves. It is a person who looks for answers, isn't gullible, and who knows how to properly research. Make sure that you are one of those if you are in the paranormal, metaphysical , or mundane community.
Check it out before passing it on!
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C) 2014 Dr R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Happy 2014
I would like to start by saying that I am sorry that there has not been much blogging lately. I always "take of" between Christmas and New Year, but it was extended this year because we sold our home, bought a home, and helped move a raptor program (which involved building new mews). This was compounded by the usually Christmas celebrations that included a trip to an airport that is 2 hours from home...that was 4 car rides for a total of over 8 hours spent driving. Now it it time to get back to business....so here we go!
2014. The world is changing. Each year many exit at the end of the year, and this year that was even more evident in my personal life than last year. Each year the veil gets thinner, people who are "walking their talk" get rewarded even more, and people who are not doing the right things, get taught even more. Karma is working her way more strongly than ever. It isn't instant in many cases, but it is timely, and many are seeing big changes. Please remember that Karma is a TEACHER not a PUNISHMENT.
Those who are not only doing the right things, but manifesting correctly and working with their team, are getting amazing results. The Universe is listening and depending on what you are doing or saying, that is a good thing or bad thing.
A few years ago, I coined the phrase "Do the right things or the right reasons". It is a simple statement for life, and how to make the right choices everyday. It makes the decision easy, maybe not the action of it, but the decision part is simple. It is even more important today than it was when I first typed it on this blog. It is exponentially more important today.
This year I was slow in making changes with people, I was trying to slowly and gently back out of a group, the Universe thought I took to long and gave me incentive in words and actions of others that were reprehensible. I wrote about it in an earlier blog, so I won't go over it again here, but it was a shining example of how our way of doing things, and the Universe's way can sometimes differ. My way was too slow for the Universe (and I realize now why that was too slow), so it sped me up. This will be another year o "weeding the garden", what we do not weed out, the Universe will, it is still in action and even more active than in the past.
This year I will again be teaching reiki, it's energy seems to grow more powerful by the day, and it is an awesome healer. I will not waste time with people that I know are using me, and I will not allow myself to be sympathetic to those who deserve no sympathy, it sounds harsh, but it is a reality. "Helping" means giving a hand, or showing others how to do things differently, it does not mean "doing it for them repetitively".
Make sure that you are growing and fostering growth in others.
Have a safe, happy and healthy 2014!
Always do the best you can with the right intent. Keep searching out knowledge and learn as much as you can! Always do the right things for the right reasons!~
Love and Light this 2014
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf.
2014. The world is changing. Each year many exit at the end of the year, and this year that was even more evident in my personal life than last year. Each year the veil gets thinner, people who are "walking their talk" get rewarded even more, and people who are not doing the right things, get taught even more. Karma is working her way more strongly than ever. It isn't instant in many cases, but it is timely, and many are seeing big changes. Please remember that Karma is a TEACHER not a PUNISHMENT.
Those who are not only doing the right things, but manifesting correctly and working with their team, are getting amazing results. The Universe is listening and depending on what you are doing or saying, that is a good thing or bad thing.
A few years ago, I coined the phrase "Do the right things or the right reasons". It is a simple statement for life, and how to make the right choices everyday. It makes the decision easy, maybe not the action of it, but the decision part is simple. It is even more important today than it was when I first typed it on this blog. It is exponentially more important today.
This year I was slow in making changes with people, I was trying to slowly and gently back out of a group, the Universe thought I took to long and gave me incentive in words and actions of others that were reprehensible. I wrote about it in an earlier blog, so I won't go over it again here, but it was a shining example of how our way of doing things, and the Universe's way can sometimes differ. My way was too slow for the Universe (and I realize now why that was too slow), so it sped me up. This will be another year o "weeding the garden", what we do not weed out, the Universe will, it is still in action and even more active than in the past.
This year I will again be teaching reiki, it's energy seems to grow more powerful by the day, and it is an awesome healer. I will not waste time with people that I know are using me, and I will not allow myself to be sympathetic to those who deserve no sympathy, it sounds harsh, but it is a reality. "Helping" means giving a hand, or showing others how to do things differently, it does not mean "doing it for them repetitively".
Make sure that you are growing and fostering growth in others.
Have a safe, happy and healthy 2014!
Always do the best you can with the right intent. Keep searching out knowledge and learn as much as you can! Always do the right things for the right reasons!~
Love and Light this 2014
Peshaui Wequashimese
(C)2014 Dr R M Wolf.
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