Monday, October 31, 2011

Happy Halloween

Happy Halloween! Don't forget to jump over a bonfire at midnight as the day passes into All Saints Day. It is also the first "Day of the Dead" in Mexico tomorrow. The celebration begins tonight at sundown, and lasts into the next day.

It is a time for costumes, treats, entertainment, games, and scaring your friends and family. Tonight will be the live investigation of Pennhurst State School (which was an asylum for the mentally ill and mentally handicapped). The show will be on live from 6PM central until midnight. This "school" was understaffed and mixed people together who should never have been in close quarters. Here is a link to the history of the "school":

http://www.syfy.com/ghosthunterslive/history

Many groups have been there any much activity has been documented there.It should be an interesting night.


I am the type that has to know what all the possibilities are before calling something "paranormal", so I do like the GH skepticism. I just hope that this year isn't over run by the powers that be at Sy-Fy parading their stars from other shows through the GH investigation. Maybe enough people rattled that cage last year to be heard. Josh Gates will be hosting, and it is sure to be an interesting evening.

Enjoy the night. From trick or treating to watching GH or scary movies.


Happy Halloween!




Peshaui Wequashimese




(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission

Friday, October 28, 2011

Bonfire !

Bonfires have been a part or life for hundreds of years. They are part of many celebrations, and the word is said to be from the Celts "bone fires" when cattle bones were burned in the fall. There are certain times when bonfires are prevalent, and they are used all over the world. "Bonfire" times include, New Year's, All Hallow's Eve (Samhain),  Easter Eve (or Oestre), Walpurgis Night, and St. John's Day. There are many more, mostly regional , and just about every country in the world has a connection with bonfires.

When there was a bad time going on, like crop failure, people would build bonfires to keep away the evil spirits. They were frequently built at crossroads as that was believed to be a place where witches and other evil spirits could easily cross over into this world. People would leap over bonfires to keep evil spirits from following them. Animals were blessed by being passed through pairs of them. Fire was, and still is considered the ultimate cleansing tool.

Part of my Native American tradition involves fires in the middle of dance rings at pow wows, fire is an important part of many rituals and celebrations in many cultures. It is not only a ritual tool, but simply a way to keep back the darkness. What would a camping trip be without a campfire? You can clean water with it, cook on it, light with it, be warmed by it. It keeps bugs and animals away, and smells so good!

We have several bonfires a year. There is something special about sitting with friends around a roaring fire. Maybe it is the primal being in all of us that gets to come out and play. Maybe it is simply good friends, warmth, and sharing. Sharing stories, food, and laughs.

Not everyone has the room for a fire pit, but if you do, dig one out, you may be surprised how often you use it once it is there. Be careful of overhanging trees and structures. Give yourself plenty of room, and stay a bit back from neighbors, they may not enjoy the smell in their homes.NEVER use an accelerant to start a fire on the ground, there are safety and environmental reasons for that, especially if you are going to use it to cook food.

Happy bonfire season!!


Peshaui Wequashimese



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Thursday, October 27, 2011

Occupy ...more problems, no solutions.

I do read the newspaper each morning, and sometimes after reading on a subject, I hit the major news sites on the net to see what is up. I was hoping the "Occupy Wall Street" people would come up with some ideas. Just complaining about something won't make it better. Try saying to your kid,  "Your room is dirty" and staring at them...how fast do you think anything will change???? Right, never. The other issue I have with it, is that "share the wealth" idea is way too communistic for me.

My solution? Maybe it is as simple as "lower your prices". Maybe just making a billion instead of 5 billion profit would be good. See how easy that was, I didn't have to leave my home to come up with a suggestion.....I also didn't have to do the things that people in places like Oakland and Atlanta did. They ended up having to be removed. Because they were speaking out? No not at all, there still are many groups out there doing their "occupy" thing without any problems. So what happened?

There is ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS a person or group , who will take a good thing and ruin it. There is ALWAYS a person or group who will find their way around the rules, mores of society, and structure to get what is in it for them. There is ALWAYS a lazy person or group who takes the rewards and doesn't do a thing for them. That applies to "occupy" groups.

There are HUNDREDS of small businesses who have had their business profits lessened, buildings damaged or temporarily closed (and yes they are also the 99% by the way), because people either don't want to walk through the protesters or cannot. Roadblocks (to keep people from trampling protestors) are keeping people out of these businesses. Fear of being in the middle of a mob when it suddenly goes bad is also keeping people away from small businesses that are stuck in the  middle of "occupy" groups. This is not in every city, but it is happening , too often and just one small business being harmed is just too many.

Many small businesses are also reporting physical damage. From small accidental breakage to things that come as ridiculous. One lady who allowed protesters to use her bathroom in her restaurant, ended up with her sink ripped off of her wall, by the same people she was trying to help. They were just messing around, not trying to "harm" her, but they ruined her bathroom. She is one of the 99%

Huge sanitation issues exist. Many of these areas are being cleared out because they smell of human waste. One officer said he had not even seen that much of a mess, even on New Year's Eve. Sidewalks, grass, shrubs, doorways, and stairwells all fouled with urine, feces and vomit. All on the property of the 99%. This isn't just unpleasant, but unhealthy.

Drug and alcohol issues. Probably the reason for the high sanitation issues. Fights having to be broken up, and people needing medical attention due to drugs and alcohol. This brings up ANOTHER issue. Due to the mess and number of people, it is almost impossible to get emergency personnel quickly to people in the larger groups.

Garbage.....people sitting around in one spot for weeks make a lot of garbage.  They also throw off bottles and such that have been used as weapons. They are making a mess when they are in any neighborhood, and a HUGE mess when in a residential neighborhood. Making a mess on the property of the 99%.

Then there are the jerks....throwing fireworks at police when they come to patrol and check on things. Defacing property. Attacking others in the group. Theft. It only takes one or two jerks to ruin it for the group.

Protesters are complaining that homeless people with mental issues, drunks and drug addicts are filtering in to hide. Really? And you didn't see that coming????

Then there are those who get a little too much alcohol or have "crowd muscles" develop and attack police. I guess they think they will look good to idiots who say "Oh look at the bad cops". This isn't the 60's. WAKE UP! Not only are there more stringent penalties for officers, they carry recorders, both audio and video, ever since the 80's in most big cities. When you resist, say dumb things, throw firecrackers, or bottles, I can guarantee you, your life is about to go sideways, and well it should.

Then there is the group in a residential neighborhood that was drumming all night. Now I like drumming, but I doubt that the people in the houses around me would be too fond of it at 2 AM. Not to mention it is illegal, it is called disturbing the peace, or making a public nuisance.

They made their point, now it is time to pack it up. They are harming their 99% they so claim to love, not the president of Exxon. He is laughing his butt off.  They probably don't care that some are going to jail, as those who do aren't really part of the original idea anyway, and are most likely the "camp troublemakers", but still, they harm others, and make the cause look bad. Until they come up with an idea, a good idea, they need to stop causing health and safety issues, and stop causing harm and damage to people and property. Many cities are now dispersing the groups that have popped up. The mess that is left behind is disgusting. I think there was less mess after Woodstock.

Sometimes it just becomes something bigger than what it was originally intended to be, and that "bigger" isn't always better.

One friend commented.....they worry about the money out of the poor man's pocket. Who do they think is paying taxes to empty the garbage, protect them, pay police overtime, provide medical care? They have just cost themselves more than they profess they can afford. When their taxes go up next year to pay for all of their mess, they will just start complaining all over again.

As I said the other day.....are you part of the solution or part of the problem????

Complaining does nothing. Having good, sound, viable solutions changes the world.
Wall Street needs to change, but does ruining small businesses,making a mess, causing unsanitary conditions, doing damage, disturbing the peace and attacking people make it better? Uh no, it makes it WORSE.



Peshaui Wequashimese

(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Halloween, a day the church almost banned

Halloween is a day that the veil was said to be at its' thinnest. The two worlds could easily cross over and back, one to the other. The land of the living and the land of the dead. Knowing what we know about quantum physics today and how there are somewhere between 11 and 13 dimensions (depending on who's theory you subscribe to), then we realize that the other side, or rather sides, are in fact very near, and may even run through us.

We know that matter is always moving and changing, and that nothing is actually solid. We know about the zero point field, and that energy cannot be destroyed...does this take the fun out of Halloween??? Not at all! It is wonderful to know that science is finally getting it!

The basics of Halloween were that on "All Hallow's Eve" (remember celebrations always started the sundown on the day prior, the Jewish faith still follows that practice), the veil was thin and we had to protect ourselves from the evil of the other side. Today we see the other side as having good , bad and in between, in the old days, it was all bad.

We can trace roots back to Rome, and the Celts in the British Isles. From the goddess Pomona to the festival of the dead, Parantalia. We can go back to Samhain (pronounced Sow Win), Old Irish for "Summer's End". The Scots also began the tradition of "guising" , they would sing or dance for treats. Their costumes were to fool and scare off the dead souls. They lit lanterns made of turnips (not pumpkins) to stave of the darkness and built bonfires at crossroads (where you most easily could be assailed by evil spirits).

Going door to door for treats actually goes back to Wassailing time (which became Christmas) . Wassailing was to collect for the poor however, not for yourself. Christmas has now become gifts for friends and family, and there is no need to go door to door. The old ways and celebrations were incorporated into the church to get people to come. From Halloween (All Saints Day) to Christmas (yes even Christmas), to Easter (which was Oestre, a fertility celebration). The church wanted the pagans , so they borrowed their celebrations. It really didn't work all that well, we still have the pagan ways today in Easter eggs and rabbits, in Christmas gifts, and Halloween! Since the church viewed Halloween as evil and "pagan" they tried to ban it and trick or treating and such stopped for quite a few years. Then in the early parts of the 1900's it had a resurgence that began in Canada. Today Halloween is celebrated in many countries from all of Great Britain, to Germany, Italy, and the US.

On Halloween in the days of old, people would walk their animals between two bonfires to purify them, and brave young men would leap over the fires to keep the evil spirits from following them. Halloween has become the biggest holiday in the US, the holiday where the most money is spent on the day, it has surpassed Christmas. I guess we all like a good scare.

So dress to scare the evil spirits, and disguise yourself so they won't know who you are if you need to be out and about. Be careful jumping over bonfires however, there are things other than goblins that can hurt you.

Good Samhain!


Peshaui Wequashimese


(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

A real campfire story, Babytown Cemetery

One day after I bought my house, I went wandering out back. There is a school way behind me, across a large open field, and I strolled down the hill to have a "look see". There didn't seem to be much there, just a school and athletic fields. There is an empty building next to me that has that "aura" of creepy, it belongs to the school and apparently housed nuns when they taught at the school. The creepy feeling was accentuated when people who went in to store things, left the lights on. When you looked at the deserted building in the middle of the night, and the lights were on...well it made you want to turn it into a ghost story.

The place may have that creepy aura because it is deserted and a little run down, all the vibrant life energy has waned, and it is dark there at night (unless of course someone forgets and leaves the light on).  Then there is the other reason. Hidden behind a hill are several graves. Since the school was expanded, they are now easily visible from the street.  There is a sign that designates the cemetery area on the school property, and it is said that the cemetery is also on private property of a nearby home. There are only a handful of stones there now, and  the sign designates it as "The Babytown Cemetery". Even the name is creepy.

No one seems to know where that name came from, but the original name of the cemetery, is said to be The Newman Cemetery. It is located just outside the city limits , and is mostly populated by Civil War veterans. One of those interred there was a vet named Woodruff, who's family lived just across the street.

The cemetery was "discovered" in 1998 during a school modernization/expansion. I know a few folks who have lived in this area all their lives and they had never heard of it, nor the discovery of the graves. However, one bonfire night, a friend brought a guest, who told us about the graves and her Dad being part of the whole discovery and interment. After some research,I found that indeed it was true, and there is a little "cemetery" there now. It seems that some were left where they were as the caskets were disintegrating as they were being dug around.....yet word is that are no more bodies there. I am sure many were left right where they were, and the project moved to another area.

Depending on what your read, the bodies were moved a little, moved completely, or left where they were. There were a couple of news articles on it, but they are too old to access on my computer, I need to make a trip to the news archives, or perhaps the genealogical society , to get more information.

So it turns out that there was a cemetery behind my house at one time. There may or may not still be one there, depending on if they moved the bodies to another cemetery or left them out there. There are about 7 stones that are said to be simply "memorial markers" (in other words, no bodies).

It is a story that has no ending yet, and maybe I will someday get some time to check into it more deeply. However, a disturbed or forgotten cemetery is always an incentive for a good ghost story. Please comment if you know anything more about the Babytown Cemetery.

Happy Haunting!!!




Peshaui Wequashimese



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Monday, October 24, 2011

Listen.......

Why is it people ask a question, when the totally have no desire to listen to the answer? Is it a hope that the answer will reinforce their belief?  I suppose. When it doesn't so that,  the ears turn off. I have a couple of clients, I should say "had" , I blocked them this morning, who constantly say that the aren't "getting that from him", meaning signs, signals and messages. No kidding. Really? Wow, what a surprise. That is where I come in.

I had the most puzzling call this morning as I was saying how the relationship is good, neither one of them want to throw it away and she says "I am not getting that". Huh? I suppose she misheard me becasue then she goes on to say that the relationship is fine. Isn't that what I said? I said he is feeling a little off balance and it will work itself out. I guess that equates to her as "He is leaving you".

Simply listening would really clear up a lot of issues in this world. Every day. Every moment.
People are so busy forming the rebuttal that they don't hear the question.

On an entirely different note....This weekend I saw a car accident. A man NAILED a car coming in the opposite direction. He then got out and started yelling at the person he hit. They wisely stayed in the car, I dialed 911. Some jerk hits you , then gets to yell at you? Threatens you? The world has gone mad.

We aren't running headlong into world peace, but quite in the opposite direction. When I moved here, it seemed like a safe, quiet little city. Now it is the meth capital of the free world, and I have seen so many car accidents (maybe becasue of all that meth), in the last 6 months. There are gangs shooting people. It is worse than the troubled city I lived in years ago. There are 10 times more cars on the road where I lived in NJ and Las Vegas, and ten times more accidents here. Has the whole world shifted or has the idiocy just finally reached here? Or both?

The people of the world have been separated into two groups, basically "growth" vs "stagnation", and are separating and they are forming groups, yet the stagnation folks seem to far outnumber the good ones. Let's hope we have a week where there are not any crazy issues, especially ones that require a call to 911.

Wake up, smell the coffee, and begin by listening. Not hearing, listening!!!


Peshaui Wequashimese


(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Friday, October 21, 2011

EVPs from last week.

I have several friends who have written to ask what the EVPs say that came from WNIN and if it were "direct communication". I am not sure what I would call "direct communication" unless it was a back and forth "discussion" recorded on a voice recorder or video camera. I would also say that unless you have a couple of reponses, you don't have "direct communication". The reason....what if I say, "Did you live here?" and there is a residual response "not here". I may think the voice is saying they didn't live there. They may be answering a long ago question as to where to place the sofa!

That being said, the answer as to the EVPs, are that I do have three that I am sure of. There are other whispers that may be EVPs, but since I can't be sure (they may be other investigators for instance), I am not going to include them. The second floor hallway and first floor conference room were the places that these were recorded. They were also the places that had the most "energy" when we were looking over the place as cameras were being set up. The EVPs are clear and concise, anyone would know what they were saying.

The first is very clearly a very young child crying. It is as if the child were right next to me, which doesn't make much sense since I was sitting on the stairs to the third floor at the time. This is an infant, and not the crying of a child who could maneuver stairs.This is most likely a residual voice. Although we can never be sure.

The second came after several investigators asked anyone present to not be afraid of us. A very pouty voice of a young man says "not afraid". It is louder on my husband's recorder, so I assume the voice was closer to him. This would most likely be an intelligent response, although again, it could be something that was said a hundred years ago in response to something else.

The third was after I heard a noise and said "what was that noise". The response was "It is my wife". That could be interaction , and maybe life of the 1800's was going on all around us, with little pieces leaking through, like babies crying, and a wife going about her day. There was no other response so I am not sure.

It was a productive night, and the three EVPs to me are a bonanza. It took about 4-5 hours to get those. Meanwhile several of us were touched, and it was a night of learning and new friends.

These trips are often interesting and we frequently learn, even when we do not get anything ghostly. A friend asked if I were going to sit in a cemetery for Halloween. Heck no, it will be my husband and I , the cats, and a warm cup of tea in front of the TV, watching Ghost Hunters (Sy Fy Halloween night from 6-midnight).

Enjoy the weekend.



Peshaui Wequashimese



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Thursday, October 20, 2011

Energy, send out the right kind

I have probably written 5 or 6 blogs asking people not to spread email rumors. You know what I am talking about, those sensational things that appear in your mailbox, trying to get you upset in some way or other. Many good people find it hard to believe that there are people out there who would waste their precious time coming up with this crap. Yet, there are. Way too many in fact.

I received and email sent to a group this morning that wasn't a rumor, but a person saying...check Snopes, this isn't true! Ah a kindred soul. Many don't want to offend the sender , so they just delete the offensive email. Let's take a second out of our busy days and check this stuff out. Get the "false rumor" link and send it back to the sender. REALLY don't have the time to check, then at least send an email back asking "Did you verify this before sending it? It sounds pretty fishy to me.".

When I went to the rumor sites this morning to see if there was a "latest rumor" out there, I noticed that there were a few different reasons these rumors pop up. People hate a person (usually a political figure), and they want you to hate them too, so they twist words , or attribute a "letter about (fill in the blank: Americans, religions, etc), to a famous person so it will give it some weight. The other way these rumor mail come to being, is that people misunderstand (and believe me , God created a LOT of stupid people) a situation, become upset about it, and spread their misinformation all over the place. Others just think it is funny to see how long their creation takes to circle back to them, or appear on social networking sites. It is almost a contest to see who gets their crap posted on Facebook or Myspace first.

The worst part isn't the misinformation. The worst part is the MASS negative or hateful energy it puts out there. Anger, fear, frustration, sadness, are all things that we need a lot less of in this world right now. The energy around us affects us.

There ARE things we need to be shaken up about. It is OK to post true, negative things, it may cause positive change.It is great to post TRUE positive things. However, there rarely is any of those flying around the net. People swim in this drama, this anger and upset, then wonder why their lives are a mess. It isn't just an email, but the personality of people who thrive on passing that stuff around, who thrive on that energy. They bring it to themselves in the email rumor passing, and in their every day lives as well.The rumor passing is just one way of accessing that crappy energy for them. They tell the Universe, by these actions, that they like being upset, and so the Universe provides. You don't have to swing the pendlum to the opposite end and turn into a bliss ninny. Check out the rumors, there are three websites that do an awesome job of things (snopes, urban legends and truth or fiction), then if it is true...pass it on! When it isn't, return it to all on the sender's list, and if you saw it on Facebook, post the link showing it is false. Be a responsible citizen of the universe, not a Chicken Little.

When an email arrives that is delivering bad news to the masses, it is probably FALSE!!!
 Have the courage to speak up and say so, and at least CHECK IT OUT BEFORE SENDING IT OUT!

Stop adding hateful, negative, fearful energy to this Universe. We have enough that is really there! Spread the good stuff, and stop spreading the untrue energy. Show the Universe we want TRUTH in our in boxes, not lies.

Learn, RESEARCH and GROW



Peshaui Wequshimese


(C)2011  Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Reputation is everything

A young lady wrote to me and said she was disturbed by the crazy things she sees on Facebook every day. She is seeing many in a whole new light, and suggested a little restraint in what we post. She was jumped on , people yelling about their freedom of speech (here we go again, I know my rights, but I am clueless about my responsibilities).

I have "weeded my garden" of Facebook friends on several occasions. There have even been times when I removed people because I did not condone their behavior from bullying others to ranting and raving about things they read in publications with as much validity as the National Enquirer. While people consider a large "number of friends" a sign that they are liked, I consider it a sign of their insecurity.

When we need to find something to get really upset about and scream about for weeks on end, we have a problem. The accusations some people write show me that I have rocks in my garden with more brains. I get sick of reading it, and exercise my rights. I don't.

There is a hidden danger in things. What you write is there for all time, and you can make it private, but it can still get out. One person who went on and on about marijuana use on their page, was interviewed for a job that they were referred to by a friend. It wasn't a high level job, but a decent one. Well the referring friend's friend who worked there already, mentioned all the "pot posts" to the boss. Guess who didn't get the job.

From half naked photos to racist remarks, things that you post on line on any page are there for the viewing one way or another. You can lose jobs, friends, and opportunities through social sites, unlike the smart people who use them to GET jobs. The other part of that is that many have children who see Mom and Dad's Facebook page. After all it should be a site that the family can (and does) use. People have the ability to see their parent's pages. My kids are grown, but I still don't want them thinking all my friends are a bunch of  people with less sense than their school friends. Several parents I know and even a family member, have deleted a pile of "friends" because of comments they didn't think their children should see, even their 15 year old.

As to the request to "write about it". I did in a way, not about social sites in particular though. The article was short and sweet and will follow. Meanwhile, watch what you post, as it just may come back to bite you in the butt.

(The following is a blog that was written a while back on pretty much the same subject)

Guilty by association

A reader wrote and said that people need to remember that we are frequently "guilty by association". Now that may not go to the extreme where a person is considered "just as bad" as a culprit, however they are colored with the same brush. The reasons are many. They range from "why aren't you teaching the culprit better actions" to "why do you want to hang around with someone who does those things, you must condone them or do them too". The reader said that when he sees a person socializing with someone he knows is a problem in the spiritual community, he is very careful what he says and does around that person.

The Universe is in the process of sorting out groups, but don't wait for the Universe to do it. You may miss out on a good and valuable relationship because people are assuming you are like a person that you are seen with. Sometimes we are not aware that our associates are not such great people, however when we find out, it is time to fade out or run away, depending on the state of what is going on.

I recently had someone say they trusted a person's words, as the person was 100% Native American.......First of all, Native American's are humans, just like any human, most can be trusted and some cannot. Secondly, this person has a very small amount of NA in them. It doesn't matter what your blood is, it matters where your soul is.

Another friend chimed in with "He/she is an apple". That was a new one on me. I said "HUH?" They told me," an apple, meaning red on the outside and white on the inside". (I love it!) They then went on to say, I prefer people, no matter what color that are truly red on the inside.

Be careful of assumptions, and check out what people say and do. Appearances can fool you in both ways, good and bad. Make sure that you are not being mislead or in "Bad company". Make sure you are not "guilty by association".

Peshaui Wequashimese



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Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Well what happened was.....

Quite a few people want to know what happened on the lock in at WNIN. Maybe I shouldn't tell you so you all sign up next year and find out for yourselves...BWAAHHAAHHAAHA.

First let me say that I always enjoy a ghost hunt, and I am always looking to open up the mediumistic side of my gift, so any opportunity to go to a place that is said to have activity (notice I didn't say "is haunted" ), is something I am ready to do.The hard part is getting through the next day.

This was only the second time that I went out with Bill and his SIPI crew, but they are a bunch of fun, knowledgeable and most of all, professional people.

We all watch all the "ghostie shows", but we don't see the hard parts. Not so much the set up, but sometimes finding a quiet place to put monitors, and acess to power can be a challenge. There is also the fact that in many of these places you can discover people who don't want to be discovered. They aren't dead, but alive, like homeless people and meth manufacturers. I really do NOT recommend taking a stroll with a friend into a cemetery or building. It isn't worth it. Go with a large group or to a place that you know is secure. I have stumbled not only upon people, but animals that can cause issues. It hasn't happened to only me, investigators have been shot at in certain places. There is also a need to have access to food, water, bathrooms, and a fresh battery supply.

The hardest part to me, is looking and listening to the (hopefully it is there), evidence the next day. It is already a very sleepy time, and listening for EVPs or staring at video footage, can put you right out. You need to be sharp, and I always listen at least twice. I went back over an area yesterday that I thought there may have been something on, and sure enough, there is was, a whisper that I can clearly make out the words of. You also can't allow evidence to sit for weeks. Your memory won't be as sharp.( Could that be Bob's voice, was he there???? it kind of sounds like him...hmmmm, don't know.)

 I just wasn't sharp when I listened the first time. What I usually do, is come home and sleep a few hours then get up and try to have a regular day. Otherwise you are a mess, either walking around like a Zombie from lack of sleep, or you are wide awake at 10PM, "bed time".

So what happened? I can feel the strange energies in places and there were a few places where that happened.The spirits were there, I could feel them clearly. I also have several EVPs, ones that are true EVPs (we didn't hear them at the time). I was touched on the top of the head, and so were others, one lady on the back.  What people also don't realize is that you can sit for a VERY long time in one place with absolutely nothing happening, then BAM, either it gets exciting for a moment, or you have evidence that you don't even know you have yet. TV benefits from editing. Life doesn't.

I do have an EVP of a baby crying, it is clear and crisp. I also have words spoken by unseen entities.

At one point a young man who was with us said "It is going on 4 o'clock.". We all said "WHAT?". It couldn't possibly be that late (early?) yet. It wasn't quite that late, someone had a desk clock set ahead for some reason (or maybe Mr. Carpenter was trying to get us the heck out, so he could go to bed). The point is, once you get into it, time flies. The hardest part of it all is sitting still, quietly , for long periods of time, while staying awake. It isn't all fun and games.



So , did things happen? Yes. Did I catch some evidence? Yes. Did I have a personal experience? Yes. So was it worth it, it always is.

Thanks again Bill Miller and SIPI.

Happy Ghost Hunting!!!



Peshaui Wequshimese



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Monday, October 17, 2011

Not all "love and light"...

I am always looking to sharpen my skills. Once you believe you are the best psychic around, you limit yourself. There is no Ego in spiritual work, and we always need to strive not only to do our best, but to learn even more. I am preparing to teach a Psychic Development II class. I have taught it before, but I always check to see if there is a new technique out there, a new way to help people to accept their psychic selves or to grow that psychic self. I picked up a book that was sitting on my bookshelf and started to read it Friday. I wanted to see if it was good for my recommended reading list that I give my students.

Just pages into the book Extraordinary Psychic, I found words that are so important to me. Words that separate the truly spiritual from those who are playacting at it. Those who truly get it, know that there is bad in the world, and they know what to do about it, and why it exists.They know that it NEEDS to exist. They are active in the world, and actually do things to make it better. REAL actions, like speaking up (even when people don't want to hear it), teaching (even when people don't want to know it), donating (time, money, things), volunteering and sharing EVERY day with NO EXCUSES.I do mean EVERY DAY, literally. They are out there and there are many of them. They don't advertise that they do these things every day, they have no ego. They just do their works tirelessly and quietly. You will hear about certain things they do, most likely to show an example, or to make a point. But you won't hear of every good deed done every day.

Then there is the flip side. They may be involved in something like a charity, but not actually DO much of anything, at least until it is time to bask in the glory. They may do things that they feel are helpful (and are), but are the "lazy way out"....they chant, drum and always in the presence of others like them. They pray, make altars, but never actually "work". They don't do the hard stuff, just the stuff they like that makes them feel all warm and fuzzy. The drumming, chanting, praying, is a social event from what they make it,  not a "helping" event. They believe that just showing up , somehow saves the world...not with that intent and mindset!

My Reiki Master calls them Bliss Ninnies, a term I thought she coined, but it was her Reiki teacher who did so. When I was reading the book Friday , I knew this author had her head on straight when I read:

Violence is everywhere. Evil exists, no matter how many of us wish it didn't. Because these harsher forces exist out there, there are times we need to be able to stand up to them,when being all nice and loving is not the correct response....spirituality does not exist in a vacuum of "Leave it to Beaverish everything's love and light". Perhaps most important , we are not going to allow ourselves to become trapped in our own definitions, stereotypes,or fantasies of ourselves as and psychics and spiritual seekers. 

Debra Lynn Katz

The last line is so true of many 'spiritual" people, they moved from truly spiritual to a  stereotype.

Once you slip into that "I am a good person, I pray, I don't get upset, I love everyone" mentality, you have moved far outside "spiritual". It is called "denial". You are living in an unreal world. Katz goes on to say that there are many well intentioned , famous psychics and healers out there who are very messed up. It is so true, it is alarming.

They have excuses when confronted. They usually react strongly and even react in ways sometimes that are extremely nonspiritual. You don't even have to comment on them personally, just the "way of the world", and people in general, and they jump up and carry on about how THEY are not like that! Then you are the "bad guy", and the one who is nonspiritual. Spirit has good and bad. People are born and people die, our job is to actually, physically help each other as much as possible while living in the "real world".  They have excuses, words, and an indignant attitude...they are not spiritual people.

People have a bad habit of blaming every one and every thing else in the world today for their problems and the world's problems. However, once you turn the mirror toward them and say "here is part of the problem", they jump up and down and pour out words that they think makes them look better. It may make them feel better, but they sure do not look better. I chuckle some days as my close friends and family say something along the lines of "do they forget what you do for a living ?". What I do, is see into people as to their motives, even if THEY don't know them. I don't know if it was always my strongest psychic trait, or it was heightened by four years of psychology at Montclair State, but it is the one talent I never doubt for a second.

I am always trying to develop my psychic abilities. I teach, I have hundreds of clients, and I can live on my earnings as a psychic (although no where near as comfortable as someone like Sylvia Browne), yet I always try to develop more, including my mediumistic side, and ability to pick up better on non emotional information. I am getting much better at finding lost objects, and any new or refined skill is fine by me.

When I wrote my Masters Thesis on how I believe the works of Jung, most notable the use of the teachings on collective conscious, should be studied and shared by the metaphysical community,
I was hopeful that our move from the "woo woo" stuff into mainstream science would pick up steam. It has started and writers like Lynn Mc Taggart are helping to foster that along. The one thing that will keep the metaphsyical community from being believed, trusted and accepted, is the "bliss ninnies" , the "Leave it to Beaverish" folks. They keep us in the Dark Ages of the beginnings of parapsychology when those scientists who "believed in ghosts" were ridiculed and asked to leave Universities. Mainstream people meet them and walk away with smiles on their faces twirling their fingers around their ears.

When you meet a Bliss Ninny, please don't give in to their "peace, love, and all is sunny fluffy bunnies and unicorns " attitude. Don't let their words that make no sense flood over you. Stand up to them and teach them of the yin and the yang. Hold up the mirror to them. Bliss ninnies aren't spiritual, and are in fact the antithesis of spirituality. The deny half of what the Universe has created.

Be smart, be strong, be real, and for goodness sakes, don't be a Bliss Ninny!!!!


Peshaui Wequashimese





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Friday, October 14, 2011

Ghosts and spirits and BSPs

When I was a kid , they scared me half to death.We called them ghosts, and now we know them as all kinds of things from spirits and poltergeists to black shadow people and disembodied voices.

Noises, things moving, someone sitting on the bed and closet doors opening, were a nightly experience. My name was chanted over and over, sounds could be heard all night and our covers were pulled off. At 10 years old it was terrifying. Then some wonderful soul helped us calm the activity. His name was Reverend Charles and he is long gone. He wasn't a Catholic priest, but an amazing psychic medium with lots of arcane knowledge.

Being psychic since the day I was born, I knew there was a man there albeit a dead one , and I knew he was  not a very nice person. Then we found out he had murdered his wife at his bar downtown. She was in the attic and he, unfortunately, in our bedroom.

I developed my abilities and started to do readings, although I wasn't doing them full time yet, when I landed in another haunted house. This was a whole different scenario, and was more of a portal than a spirit haunting. "The man all in black" that I swore was a live human come to rob me, was the "highlight" of that adventure. The phone always had static (and the lines were replaced 4 times in 6 months, until I realized it would never help), cabinet doors opened and closed, the toilet ran whenever it wanted to, although that was all new too, then "repaired"  twice during the time I lived there. The worst part was that as soon as the sun went down, the house took on the most awful feeling.

Then I started to work as a psychic full time,I moved into a house where there wasn't anything going on. I learned how to protect my home and how to keep peace around me. The metaphysical became a passion instead of a fear. I then became a reiki master, got more in touch with my Native American spirituality, and became an ordained minister. Then I earned my Masters and PhD in Metaphysical Sciences from IMM writing on reiki and the collective conscious.

Now I have been working as a psychic and a healer exclusively for over 5 years, although I have been doing readings along with other mundane jobs for over 40. I love doing in person readings. I also love something that always terrified me, going into haunted spaces. Now sometimes , and it is rare, they feel so yucky I really DON'T want to be there, but those places are few and far between. I have learned how to set great boundaries and put up walls that keep me safe and comfortable.

I teach, because I love to teach, (psychic development, tarot, Universal law), and it is fulfilling to be able to help others quiet their homes and not be so afraid.We do house cleansings for free, no one should have to pay to remove annoying spirits. I know what it was like, and wish there were more people who openly did these things "back in the day".

This weekend my husband and I will be involved in a lockdown in Evansville with a a group we explored another home with in the past. It will be nice to see them again. The group is SIPPI and they are knowledgeable and professional. It is nice when you get to explore active places without having to try to sleep and live in them, and I have to say my favorite was Waverly Hills. However this weekend we get to add a new place to our explorations. I am sure it will be fun, although there will be a lack of sleep.....

Enjoy your weekend, and hopefully I will have a good story or two next week for you!


Happy Hauntings!

Peshaui Wequashimese



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Thursday, October 13, 2011

Hypocritical is the word of the day

Yesterday someone made a comment in the newspaper, and I thought it was pretty interesting. I thought about it, and then forgot about it, as the day started and things got busy around here. When I woke up this morning, it was back in my conscious and also a whole set of things that show that the world has indeed gone insane.

People are so angry lately, and it really isn't anger about the world, it is anger about their individual lives. They are unhappy and it MUST be someone's fault, other than their own. Most of what they are screaming about,  actually doesn't effect them one iota, but they need a release. The hypocrisy in the world today is outright amazing.

What got my thinking started yesterday was an article about the "Occupy" people, how they want to change things, which isn't a bad idea...but have no ideas as to how. It made me think of the hippies of the 1960's. Only I have to say that the hippies had it much more together. They were actually people who dropped out of society. They didn't have a dollar in their pocket, they formed families and took care of each other.They had nothing. They didn't complain about Wall Street while tweeting about it on their iphones.

Today the people making all the noise, do it with their iphones, wearing Nike, Addias, Birkestock shoes, driving cars to their sit ins, eating at fast food chains, and filming it all on cameras made by, you guessed it, Big Business.

Once I noticed this, the chuckles started. The ones yelling they are the 99% have the most up to date computers and obviously internet, as they are posting on Facebook. Right after bitching about Big Business , they greatly mourn Steve Jobs. Ahem....Steve was a Capitalist. He was worth billions. You can't nominate Steve for Sainthood and be one of the 99%. That is hypocrisy.

The chuckles grew as I noticed that most, if not all of the 99% people are ones with no jobs or underemployed BECAUSE they CHOOSE to be so. These are the folks who sit home most, if not all of the day, and look for something to complain about. They never had a real job, ever, even when Johnson was president, back in the hippie days.

So, if you REALLY mean what you say about being against Big Business.....sell your car first. This will show those companies that got bailouts, and you won't have to buy gas or oil from those terrible oil companies anymore. Walk like the hippies did or pool your resources with the others and get an old VW van. While you are at it, stay away from the supermarket. General Mills, Proctor and Gamble sells their wares there. Plant a nice organic garden, it is better for you anyway. Toss out all your prescription medicine. Flush it down the toilet. Those drug companies are horrible people, they make billions a year! Better get rid of all that clothing that you didn't make yourself nor sheer the sheep to get the wool. And for Goodness Sakes, take the TV, DVD player, CD player, Mp3 player, video camera, digital camera, computer, laptop, and smartphone and dump it in the nearest dumpster. Take that 401K and give it to the masses.

Now that you are REALLY doing something about the problem, get a job. Don't tell me there aren't any. I know several companies right here that are looking for people and have good jobs available. Since you tossed all that electronic stuff, maybe you will have time now to work. Then you won't have to complain about having nothing while those fat cats have it all.

Then the same people that whine about big business, whine about health care for all. They don't want the rich to have the money, but they don't want to poor to have the benefit of it either....maybe they just want themselves to have it, then they are the big cats and we can all whine about them.

This is a Capitalist country. That means if you are faster, smarter, more hard working and innovative than the next guy, you get rich. Apparently it also means all the whiners get to cry about you  having all the money. Oh well, get off your butts and make some money. Mc Donald's is including health care in their employee benefits right now.....

If all that still isn't working for you, there is a place pretty close by where you won't have to worry about Big Business, it is tropical, you can go to the beach every day if you choose. It is called Cuba, if hot weather doesn't work for you , there is always China. A large country, you can live in the mountains, or you can be in a large city.

When you don't have a viable solution and you raise hell, you are what is called "part of the problem". This country isn't perfect, changes are needed, but this is a new world and the ways and ideas must be new. So far I haven't seen any new ideas, just people who bitch about big business on their iphones, laptops and notebooks. That my friend, is called hypocrisy.

As we used to say back in the day....be part of the solution, not part of the problem. I thank the Universe for big business. It gives me a Ford to drive, medication to keep my BP in check, and a laptop to write on.

When you are truly concerned about big business, research (there is that word again). Did you know that many of these businesses donate huge sums to charity, that they are integral in green development, both in their manufacturing and energy resources for all of us. Did you know those food giants I mentioned earlier feed breakfast to all head start and school children on Indian reservations in this country? Instead of protesting against them, maybe you should find out what they do with all that money first, and then give your hard earned money to the companies that do positive things with their profits. That is what the non hypocrites do. Live in this world, have a job, and are mindful about where they spend their money . Hypocrites sit around and whine on their expensive electronics.

This is my best year ever, and it isn't only me, so if you are stuck, YOU are stuck. Unstick yourself and maybe, just maybe you can be one of the people the hypocrites complain about. Put on your big girl panties and deal. Have an original thought. Use the brain and muscles the Universe gave you to actually do something productive. Whining isn't productive.

You create your reality. When you create anger, chaos and disappointment, that is where you will live every day. When you create joblessness, hopelessness, and pettiness, that is what your life will be like.

Thank the Universe for all that you already have. It doesn't matter if you drive a Chevy and not a Mercedes. Be thankful for your Chevy.Work your ass off and you can have a Mercedes.
There are people in this world walking everywhere they go, in bare feet, no wonder the Arabs hate us. We are a nation of ungrateful whining idiots who have 20 times more than they do. Wake up and smell the coffee!!!

There is another twist to all of this. The ones whining because they don't have the expense accounts and fancy cars....are the ones who claim to be spiritual. When you are spiritual you thank the Universe/God/Creator everyday for what you have, and you work toward growing each day.  You know the Bible says not to covet what others have. So spiritual or religious, you know you shouldn't be whining about the haves....so what is your real reason? Unhappy at home? That is it. The person who is making you unhappy right now is YOU. Not the president of Exxon, nor Donald Trump. You. You are solely responsible for your happiness and well being. You.

 ...and by the way that saying...god helps those that helps themselves, is TRUE!

OK, I have to get off my soapbox now as I actually have work to do!



Peshaui Wequashimese


Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Empath, one overused word

I wish I could tell you how many people have told me in the past 12 months that they are an empath. You don't have to ask them why they feel that way, they tell you, and what they tell you usually indicates one of two things. They don't have a clue as to what an empath is, and that they need some serious psychiatric help.

So what is an empath? An empath is a person who can psychically tune into a person's feelings and emotions. There is more to it than just the unseen however. True empaths not only pick up on the emotional and mental health of others, but can do it at a distance, and many times without ever speaking to the person. The other part of being an empath means clearly and easily reading signals coming off of a person in their presence, some call it reading body language, but it is deeper than that. It is not just picking up on the signals according to a psych text, but what they are really saying about that particular person right now.

Empaths not only recognize the feeling and emotions, but actually feel them. They may be around a person and feel anxious because the person feels anxious, it takes training, psychic ability and experience to figure out if they are feeling anxious themselves, picking up on the person, or the person is a dangerous person to be around and their instinctual nature is warning them off.

Walking into a room and suddenly feeling anxious does not make you an empath, it makes you human.

The downside to being an empath is that you need to be a strong person to handle everyone's "stuff". You have to learn to take it in stride, much as a psychiatrist must do after listening to people who are depressed or angry all day. Many think you need a thin skin to be an empath, to allow those feeling to flow. NOT true, you need a very THICK one, skills, knowledge and a support system. There are ways to set up walls and boundaries to keep yourself sane and happy. Many learn these mechanisms on their own, I had to (there was not any good access to this type of info when I was growing up), and others, luckily, have mentors to help them.

The reason I say that the word is over used is twofold. One reason is that people equate it with "psychic". When people here the word psychic, they want to know what their future will hold. True empaths cannot tell you. That doesn't mean that they do not have other abilities that can do that task, but just being an empath, does not give you the power to tell the future.

So the word is misused in that way, people want to claim psychic ability and call themselves one of the two most familiar words, empath or clairvoyant. People think that if you are not clairvoyant, you aren't psychic. WRONG. Clairvoyant means clear seeing. My skill at finding lost objects is starting to grow (who knows why)...and that skill is clairvoyant for me, yet when people want to know how other's feel about them, clairvoyancy won't do any good to anyone. It is useless. That is where being an empath or clairsentient steps in.

Back to reason two, and this one is most prevalent (sadly). People have emotional and mental issues. Ninety-nine percent of the people who tell me that they are empaths, are emotionally and mentally ill, usually schizophrenic. Their wild emotions and thoughts, mood swings, and hearing voices come from somewhere other than the Universe. They come from inside themselves, generated by themselves. They usually fear another, or think another is madly in love with them. There is never a moderate feeling coming to emotionally or mentally ill people. It is always over the top. They are being stalked, or they have lurid sexual thoughts they think are generated by an unsuspecting person. They can't sleep, are emotionally upset all of the time, and can't seem to get away from the interfering emotions.

Empaths are never dramatic, over the top, or frightening. Those who need counseling are. True light workers work quietly and peacefully. They do not live in a place of emotional upset. They learn to control and realize where messages are coming from. They can get messages from just about anyone, not just the one person they claim is madly in love with them, or out to get them.

Don't use the word empath, unless that is what you truly are. Test yourself through experience, talk to people, but don't let them know that you are trying to test yourself, as many play games and any doubt will slow down psychic development.

When a "psychic" or whatever metaphysical term the person is using, is demanding, nasty, dramatic, a Prima Donna or tells you to do harmful things, they are not light workers, stay far away. They either need attention or they are needing psychiatric help.

Watch out for the crazies, the information superhighway has created many who call themselves psychic, empaths, clairvoyants, etc., and they don't even know what the words mean.A true medium is a rare person, yet there are so many who claim mediumship. They certainly cannot help you, and most likely need help themselves. Be careful and always look for quality.

Don't fool yourself, and , don't be fooled by those who are fooling themselves.

Peshaui Wequashimese




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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Party blog recieved a TON of email

Apparently the whole "party thing" was a huge topic. I didn't expect it to be so, but it was.Many don't want to say anything to the offenders so they don't cause issues. There were all kinds of emails in my box yesterday and last night...there were more complaints than I had, but here is what folks asked me to mention:

RSVP- Just about every email mentioned that people don't bother to tell you if they are coming or not. This is important to the host from how much food , bottled water, paper plates, drinks, party favors, and chairs. One comment also said that if they know person "X" is coming , they can't invite person "Y", so it is nice to know. Many also said that those who don't respond to the invite, just simply don't get asked to attend anymore.

Another complaint on the RSVP topic, do not ever add a guest or guests unless you ask the host first. NEVER add people to large expensive events like weddings.Period. The bride and groom have no desire to pay $80 to feed someone they never met. Many large events are on a budget, and it is NOT OK to  invite others. If the wedding invitation says your name and "guest", you may write in a name, otherwise GO ALONE. This is one of the biggest social mistakes, adding to the guest list of catered events.

Check with the host before adding anyone, many small events, the host will say "SURE".

When you RSVP one way or the other and things change NOTIFY THE HOST ASAP.

READ the invite. it may ask you to bring a particular item, or wear a particular style of clothing.

RSVP the way the hosts asks you to, don't walk up to them in a setting , like church , and say "I will be at your party Friday night". Maybe the don't want the whole church to attend.

Don't invite yourself or make sarcastic remarks about why you weren't invited. You weren't invited for a reason. Maybe it is just you, maybe there is another guest that would feel uncomfortable in your presence, and it just isn't your turn. Maybe you made a mess of the last party, literally or figuratively. Maybe the host is on a budget. Maybe you just haven't been showing up after saying you would be there, so the hosts gave up. Don't show up or ask where your invite is. When you feel there is a serious issue, contact the host and ask if you hurt or offended them in any way. You may find that at the last party you danced naked in the punch bowl and are off the list.

Bring what you say you will. Quite a few folks said that they were depending on a person to bring a certain item, and the item was forgotten . Then the person needed to leave to get whatever was needed. Many ask to BYOB. This ensures you will have the drink of your choice, the brand of your choice. You are also now responsible for your own alcohol intake. Alcohol is expensive. Read the invite, if it says "cash bar" bring cash!

Don't bring a person the host has issues with. A few people had guests brought to their parties that were people that they never wanted to see again. Usually it was a well meaning friend who brought the "never want to see you" person, to try to repair the friendship. Many times parties are at the host's home, this should be a place of refuge. One person actually brought a person who said they wanted to be friends again, and was used by that person to get into the party, where they ceremoniously tossed all the food on the floor. The other party goers managed to inflict a black eye and bruised shin before tossing the food smeared jerk out into the street.

It is simple. Answer Yes or No to your RSVP in the manner the host requests. Don't add people to the guest list. Bring what you say you will. When you can't make it , advise the host ASAP, after all, stuff does happen...but that isn't the host's problem. Don't crash, nor make sarcastic comments to the host or other guests about not being invited. Act appropriately while there. Don't bring people that you know are an issue. It really isn't hard at all, and if you really and honestly don't know why you aren't invited , send a nice note to the host. Then accept their answer, or non response. They may seriously not want to deal with you, period.

One more thing, sent by the younger generation, don't post on Facebook or TWITTER "Partying at Bob's tonight". It can make for Bob having more guests than he planned on, and also put people into the mix that maybe , just maybe shouldn't be there at all!

Do the right things for the right reasons....

Share this with all your party problem and awesome party people!


Peshaui Wequashimese
Dr. R M Wolf, PhD


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Monday, October 10, 2011

Need a break.......

It is suddenly October. How did that happen? It means that many things naturally slow down. There is not so much outside work (we have a pretty big backyard), no more ghost walks, but still some bonfires. We have time to get serious about certain things (like making quilts and drum beaters),and time to relax more.

Saturday I spent most of my day preparing for a bonfire. The pit had to be cleaned up (turning dirt is a great way to get some exercise), moving chairs and washing them down, gathering and setting up the wood, piling wood by the ring, food shopping, chili cooking, bread baking, and a little more furniture moving. Matt was away helping a friend so it was just me and the cats..... I prepared food for all who said they were coming, and then several didn't show, nor call, nor text. I will be eating chili for days. Maybe they remembered it was the last day of Fall Festival, or the car broke down, or they just forgot....who knows, I just wish I would have known, I wouldn't have made so much food.

I have friends that frequently do parties, they also have problems with people even responding to if they are coming or not. Why is it so difficult? Always RSVP, and if something changes that day, contact the host ASAP. Stuff happens, schedules change, that is fine, but just let people know!

It took quite a bit of time to do all the bonfire prep, and there were things like laundry in between. The night before was a scheduled ghost walk. Although 3 people requested it, and one asked repetitively for a reminder of the date, Matt and I drove out to New Harmony at 9:30 Friday night , and no one was there. So, I am glad the ghost walk season is over, otherwise I might just say "screw it". Maybe a winter off will help. I think from now on, ghost walks will be by request only for that person and their group, and they will HAVE to let me know if they aren't showing up, because I will call them that night to make sure.

The good news is that the bonfire was fun, we had some great discussions and good food.

Meanwhile, my callers keep me busy, and I have a couple of classes scheduled. I already work seven days a week , all day, you would think that would be enough. So, I am doing what I started to do a few months ago, pull back. When people who are trusted and dedicated ask for things (two classes have been requested in the past month or so), I will gladly do them. However, I will be slowing down.

We have a quite a few folks who say they are coming to the Halloween bonfire...hopefully they will all be here. At least the fire pit is pretty well ready to go.

I know I am doing too much, so I am using a clue from Mother Nature and slowing down, at least for the next 6 months. I have updated my webpage: triplemoongoddessgina.com , and have some serious classes that I will be teaching.

Meanwhile, enjoy the season and cool weather. I hope that you all have a wonderful autumn, and a healthy one.

Onwards and forwards!


Peshaui Wequashimese



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Friday, October 7, 2011

Day of Atonement

Tomorrow at sundown, begins Yom Kippur. Like most ancient holidays, the beginning of the ceremony or celebration begins at sundown, not sunrise. This is why some holidays have "eves" as part of our modern traditions.
 
Yom Kippur is the "Day of Atonement". It is the time when repentance is done for anyone or anything that may have been done wrongfully in the preceding year. It may seem to be at a strange point in the year, but the Hebrew calendar is set up differently than the Roman one we use today.

This is a day of fasting and prayer. Most of the day is usually spent in temple , in a long (usually about 4 hours) service. This day completes the High Holy Days, and starts a new year.

Use this weekend to look back over the past year and see what it is that you need to do differently this next year. Asking for forgiveness means nothing if you have not learned from the experience and simply repeat it again this year. the Universe doesn't care if you make mistakes, it does care if you continue to repeat them.

The key is to learn from your mistakes, to learn, grow and to be stronger. Use this weekend as an early Roman New Year. Make some changes and stick to them.

Have a good year!

Peshaui Wequashimese


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Thursday, October 6, 2011

Ouiji Board...one word, DON'T

There was a show on last night that prompted a few emails on the subject. I have said it before and I will say it again....NEVER use a Ouiji Board. It is like throwing open the gates to the masses. Imagine yourself stepping into Times Square in New York on New Year's Eve to get valid and honest advice on your life and saying that you were going to totally buy into the first (drunken, crazy, criminal, immature, or rarely an honest, sane, sober, helpful soul) person you meet. How do you think that will go? What are the odds?

Worse yet, you invite them into your home. What if they are harmful, crazy, evil, or even not of this earth? A Ouiji board is a wide gate into the ether. It doesn't delineate between souls of people and souls of the hundreds of other things that float in that ether. It is an easy access for those spirits that will not be heard by psychics and mediums as their skills and gatekeepers keep them from being heard and disrupting lives.

What happened to the folks on that show last night is mild compared to what has happened to many who used Ouiji boards. Let the people who know how to open those metaphysical doors, and know what ones to open and what ones to keep closed, do that for you. Is it really so important to know when you are going to be pregnant, or what is the name of the man you will marry, that you will risk having an evil entity exist in your home with you?

The story that was popularized as the movie and book "The Exorcist" is based on a true story. It was a little boy, not a girl , that the events happened to. The entryway of the demon? A Ouiji Board. It just isn't worth it.

There are so many ways to find information that you feel is important. There are reputatable psychics, readers, mediums, and astrologers out there. You can pendulum, muscle test, or seek the advice of others. The LAST place you should go is a Ouiji Board! I also tell you to make sure that you have a reputable reader, so why would you go from expert to a tool that is noted for its' dangerous qualitites.

Another person asked me last year about burning the board, and a few asked about last night. They said they thought that closed the gate and the entity couldn't get back. The entity cannot stay on this side constantly, it needs to go back. You need to hope that you have good timing, but even if you "trap" it on this side, there are many doors to force it through for the trip back. The light is always stronger than the darkness. You need a person who is skilled in sending entities back to make sure it is really gone. Burning the Ouiji board last night was absolutely the right thing to do. Never taking one out in the first place is a better idea.

There is absolutely no reason to ever mess with a Ouiji board. Period.

Stay safe!



Peshaui Wequashimese



(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Change, still coming

There is still much change coming to the world and I am so happy that is happening, however I do see that people are getting more and more CRAZY. The good are getting more attuned, and more helpful, but the "bad", and negative people are getting worse.

This isn't just anger, frustration, or even a just plain lackadaisical attitude, but meanness. People are really horrible . I guess the fact that the ones who have issues are being left behind, and are having those with good energy leave them, has created a worse version of what they were to begin with. Their teachers are being pulled away from them, and they have stopped learning and growing.

A man nearly ran me over in Walmart the other day. Now I know Walmart is not the citadel of etiquette and decorum, but he was in such a hurry he actually physically moved me (and I am not a tiny thing by any means), then as he passed, stuck his hand out in a half gesture behind him without looking back,  that I suppose was meant to mean "sorry".

Then yesterday as I was crossing the street , a lady cruised through a stop, drove on the wrong side of the road, nearly ran me over and said, "Watch out" (not in a nice way either, more like get the freak out of my road). I don't think I was supposed to hear her, but I did, and said "You watch out", to which I was greeted with a series of the "B" word and more. She was shouting out the window all the way down the street, at that point she became comical.

Last night I spoke to the most over the top crazy person who was ranting and raving. Everything positive I said, she turned into a negative, but not just a negative, a dramatic, over the top, horror story negative. I actually thought that I had signed off after speaking to her (or better yet being screamed at by her), when another reader called me to say she just had the most horrible conversation with a client who is a stalker. Her caller was threatening, mean and sarcastic. My colleague was asking what she could do to fend off this person without getting attacked (when we say something these crazy people don't like they leave us bad feedback).


People are being just downright viscous idiots.Then there are the ones who try to fit into the "spirituality" realm and don't have the good nature of a snake.  I wrote yesterday about a person promising a flute for over a year and not providing it nor the money back that he was paid. People are acting like irresponsible jerks.

 That said, there are still wonderful people out there, no doubt about it, my point is that the idiots and getting more idiotic and meaner, while the good folks are growing and shining brighter. When you know someone is being a jerk, pull away, you don't need to be around them in the first place and apparently people are getting worse and worse. Never condone this type of behavior, and be honest with people who are acting badly.

When you title yourself as a spiritual person, a person of the world community, ACT LIKE ONE.

When you bump into someone, say you are sorry and MEAN IT.
Yes, the laws and rules of society DO apply to you too.
When you make a promise keep it.
When you have goods or money ,that belong to someone, return it.
Do the right thing for the right reason.


Peshaui Wequashimese




(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Ripped off by a "spiritual" flute maker.

How do you know what is the right thing to do?

This was a question posed to me by a reader via email. It should be easy to know what the right thing is, the issue lies in people sometimes having a difficulty to doing it. There are so many ways to get the answer, from saying to yourself "what is fair", "what is the law" or "what would (insert responsible adult's name here) do". You know what is right. You know it isn't all about you.

I have a situation going on right now with a person that Matt paid quite a bit of money to, a year ago, to make me a flute. I have had many excuses from it just needing finishing touches and it will go out in a few days (in April), to  "I don't have my tools available to make it". The fact is , at this point, I don't want the flute. I want Matt to have his money back. The energetic significance of this flute is one of deceit, that is not the energy I will put out there.

This could have been resolved many times. The money could have been returned (it could have been returned at the rate of $10 a week and been paid up already), and returned in an economical way. The flute could have been finished , even if it meant borrowing someone's tools. The litany of broken promises and outright lies could have been left entirely out of the picture. The excuses were just that, not reasons, just excuses.

This was originally supposed to be a Christmas present for me in 2011. Matt was upset that it didn't arrive, but had bought me other beautiful things to make sure I had something to open on Christmas day. There was no warning it wasn't coming. It just got closer and closer to Christmas without arriving. Imagine poor Matt if he didn't have the foresight to get something else. How badly would he have felt!

Then it was supposed to be here for my wedding,that didn't happen. Then to take on our honeymoon, that didn't happen. Then it was supposed to be here right after we got home, that didn't happen. This was all in April and May.

Then it was just a slight problem that would be addressed and fixed (yeah right), that didn't happen. Then there was flat out ignoring of my queries . I asked for Matt's money back and I was promised it would be here by June 1, and guess what...that never happened.

Then I was told that the person who had our money was short on funds . I told him, "mail it in installments". Now a year has gone by since Matt made the first payment. This has caused upset and stress around Christmas, the wedding and at other "normal" times. Meanwhile not a flute and not a penny.

I am a person of my word, and I know my responsibilities. I am not a liar and a cheat, and when I encounter such people it makes me furious. I think a year's time and flexibility with the situation has been more than kind enough. I have given this person a final chance, and am now perusing him legally.A year is more than time enough.

I know the difference between being understanding to someone's situation and being a doormat. I have been sliding to the doormat side of things, and party time is over.

The couple of hundred dollars won't make either one of us starve to death, and I have a roof job in the "thousands range " to pay for, but the real reason for my anger, is being lied to and having my husband ripped off. Ripping off my husband is cause for the flying monkeys to be released.

When you say that you are going to do something do it!
Do it in a reasonable time frame.
Keep your word, you are nothing without it.
Don't steal from others (and taking money promising goods in return and never supplying the goods nor the money back is THEFT).
Do the RIGHT THING for the RIGHT REASONS.
When you can't do it, MAKE IT RIGHT.
Make it right in a timely manner.

We all have situations in life that make things difficult from time to time. It is how we deal with solving those difficulties instead of stealing from others that makes us a spiritual , honest, good person.

May you always figure out "what is the right thing to do"....and then DO IT!



Peshaui Wequashimese


(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf.

Monday, October 3, 2011

The Great outdoors

This weekend Matt and I worked outside most of the day. We planted, cleaned, mowed, weeded, and starting sorting through the wood pile out back. Having a large piece of property with many trees , means lots of leaves, twigs and branches. That means bonfire and chiminea fuel.

I love being outside. I always have. I was lucky enough to grow up in a place that was so varied as to the landscape. There were forests, the ocean, mountains, farms, and even city streets to stroll. You could go from one Naturescape to another in a matter of an hour or so. The variety was perfect. I no longer have that variety close by, but my husband and I travel frequently, so I get my "Mother Nature fix".

I can't imagine not seeing all the wonders that are out there. I finally got to see geysers and boiling mud pots, by visiting Yellowstone (and anyone who is into the beauty of nature MUST go to Yellowstone). It was refreshing just NOT to see McDonald's bags and cigarette butts. I have seen some awesome beauty in my life and I am one of the lucky folks.

There is so much out there to see, and it is all just waiting for you. You can get a carload of people into any National Park, for a whole week, for $25 total, that is a huge $3.57 per day for the carload. You can use it at another National Park that same week, so we drove into Grand Tetons, about half an hour away. Matt and I saw two National parks for $1.79 per person per day. Where can you get a deal like that!

So much is out there, not to mention fresh air, sunshine, wildlife, and quiet. The only sound that awoke me during the night were the howling coyotes. I love the great outdoors. Always have, always will. I will always need a green space behind my home , and the ability to travel to see new places. When you don't explore you are missing much.

Since we do have to work and take care of our home, we can't be in Yellowstone all the time, or the Adirondacks, or on top of hawk Mountain.....but it is always there waiting for us.

Remember , when you cease to learn, you stagnate, and die intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally. When you do not see and appreciate other places, the same happens as well.

Be part of the world.
Experience it first hand.

Learn, research and grow.
Do the right things for the right reasons.


Peshaui Wequashimese



(C)2011 Dr. R M Wolf. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.