Psychic info isn't a crutch.

I have had clients ask me to do things, that first of all I will not do (ethically) and second of all, no one does. When I ask where they came up with that idea, the answer is usually a TV show or movie that put the thought into their heads.

The funny part is many energy workers make the same mistakes, so you have to wonder how good they are at what they do! There are people out in the world who think that clairvoyant means psychic. It doesn't . Being clairvoyant is a particular psychic talent.One of many. You don't need it to be psychic and being clairvoyant does NOT mean a person can necessarily access the future. Clairvoyance means "clear seeing" so it means the person sees something that is a symbol, archetype or clue to the answer.

As to predicting the future. I have found in 40 years or giving readings, that the future is not so easily read. Those who are honest will tell you that there are answers, but not cast in stone. The main reason for this is that people have free will and do exactly what you tell them NOT to do. The other reason is that they have to take a particular action and work towards it, and they get lazy and stop. People can alter the future sometimes.

Many times messages come out of nowhere, they are important and meant to be passed along. Then we have the questions people ask. They are many times unanswerable. For example, "will I find a better job?". First of all, will you look for one? Many times people ask this and you see that they never look. It sometimes is out of fear, or laziness, but they have been unhappy in their job for years, and never for a moment looked for a new job. The answer is , there are many new jobs for this person out there, but they need to get moving to get one. The answer may also be something like "yes if you stop drinking at work", and they never stop drinking at work.

Many times the answer to questions I get asked, are answers that are none of the querant's business. There is no need to know how many times you ex is having sex with his new girlfriend. There is no reason to know so many things that people ask. Questions should always pertain to the person asking, and only in situations where they are willing to make a change

Readings that are authentic usually come in this manner:

if you do "A", this will happen, but if you forget to do "part 1" you won't be successful. On the other hand if you do "B", then that will happen.

There are a few things in life that you can ask like "will I get married someday",  that will have the answer clearly seen. Then there are the questions that the person has to answer themselves. Many times people ask me to tell them what kind of business they should open and how it should be run. Uh, excuse me, not my job! It is YOUR business you are opening, not mine. The fact that a person doesn't have a clue, means they are not ready to run a business. A business is you doing what YOU LOVE. Otherwise it will fail, and it will be the worst job you ever had because you will have to take it home with you, and on vacation with you.....

I (many times) tell people clues so they can get thinking, and they don't think for a moment. They call me back later hoping "I will have more information". No, this one is strictly on your shoulders.That is like me telling you who your should love and spend the rest of your life with. That isn't my place nor the place of any psychic. We are here to tell you the pros and cons, to get to hidden information that may help you, and to guide you. We are not here to tell you what to do, or how to live your life.

Many think that if they live each day as a psychic tells them, nothing bad will happen. The first bad thing that happens is that they do not live. Their lives are a play every day. This is school, there are lessons to learn, and having another try to guide you around every lesson won't work, the first thing that will happen is that they will be given misinformation to give you! The lessons will be taught, there is no getting around that!

Many times psychic answers require you to do something or be somewhere. They also have a time frame that the answer is good for. For example, if there is a dream job, and you can't be bothered to look for it this month, then someone else will get that dream job. The Universe will not "punish" the hiring person and make them have to do without, because you are sitting on your butt an extra month. The same goes in relationships. When you are in a relationship and not sure if you should leave, Prince Charming isn't sitting alone at a bus stop for 6 months waiting for you to make up your mind about leaving the first person. Rarely does the Universe send a person around so you can smoothly jump from one relationship to another. There are not specific people we HAVE to be with waiting around for us, I don't care what New Age crap you read in your "soulmate" book.

A soulmate by the way is the person most integral in our current major life lesson. It can be a sister, mother, friend, or yes, spouse.

Psychic information is not there to give anyone an unfair advantage (and that my friends is part of why we psychics never know the winning lottery numbers). It is there to help,  guide, inspire, coach and help you make important decisions. It is not there to help you screw over another person, spy on your ex, or get life's rewards without lifting a finger. The Universe will not facilitate an unfair advantage, especially when used in a mean, hurtful and spiteful way!

It is so refreshing to me when people are making decisions and come for help, and then go out and DO something. The worst questions are "When am I going to be happy?" (When you decide to be so and make changes you need to make), "What will happen to me this year?" (Really, are you kidding me?). Sometimes people ask, "What will happen in my love life over the next 2 months?", and the answer is NOTHING. Put yourself in my shoes on that one.

Then there is the person who thinks of ways to ask the question to force the answer they want to hear. You aren't F Lee Baily and we aren't in court. A psychic saying it won't make it happen, so why waste your time and money???

There are two types of readings that are helpful and fulfilling, the first is the one we talked about a few sentences back where you are already on a mission and you want some help with it. Not for the work to be done for you, but help. The other is when we sit down and see what it that is important messages for you coming up. You have to be open (and you will get great info), because you may want to hear about an exciting love life that isn't in the cards, but there is some other really great stuff out there! Those readings take anywhere from 20-45 minutes. I get people that ask for those types of readings on the phone, but have paid for three minutes. Really? You want me to tell you important, specific information about your year in three minutes. That isn't going to happen.

People want a quick fix, magic wand. They want their thinking done for them, and they want no consequences. That doesn't exist. Period.

Each psychic has their own talents, ways of accessing information and style. Don't tell us how to do our readings, if you are such an authority on it, do it yourself. Seriously. You can buy tarot cards in any bookstore. I have had people say..."shuffle the cards really hard" (it won't make any difference, the answer is the answer). Shuffling the cards like a poker player is the sign of an amateur. Someone who wants to distract you so you think they are doing something. Tarot cards are to be treated like what they are, messengers from a higher power, not game pieces. When you shuffle them like a Vegas dealer, you scatter the energy. You disrespect the cards. The Universe lets me know when to stop shuffling, and it is pretty darn good at what it does,

Do not expect miracles, do not ask for information that really is none of your business, and ask for information that will help you. Then ACT on that information. Do not become a psychic addict , getting readings multiple times a day.You need to make your own decisions. And please don't tell the reader how to do their reading, especially when you got your information for a TV show or movie.

Never ask questions about a person's death date, even yours!

When used in the right manner, psychic information is a great help to people, when used incorrectly it is a train wreck waiting to happen!


Peshaui Wequashimese



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