The root of all evil- Fear and insecurity

Every time someone does or says something harmful, it is done out of fear.
I have said it before and I will say it again. Fear is the STRONGEST emotion , and we have to work to remove fear from our lives.

I have heard clients tell of sabotaging co-workers out of fear of having these superstars replace them. Checking cell phones for calls and messages of a loved one to see if they are cheating.Losing out on loving relationships because they fear commitment. Cheating on money matters from expense reports to income tax as they fear not having the money to use/pay. Not showing up for events and appointments that would enrich their lives as there is a plethora of fear based reasons not to go.

Fear is the one thing that needs to be wiped out on this planet. Once fear is gone, every other negative action and event is gone. Yes there will always be death, illness and the like. We are not on the other side yet, but when fear makes people act out against others, it creates negativity and even horrible actions. People stay in horrible relationships becasue they fear being alone. They allow the first warm body into their lives, then wonder why their lives are a mess.

This morning a story was in the paper about a mother killing herself and her three children. She had lost her job and was in the midst of a divorce, the only way out she could see through the fear was death for all of them. How terribly sad is that!

I have been in that same situation, and made it through. It wasn't easy , but I made it. It meant going without, it meant life wasn't much fun for a couple of years, but I came out the other side stronger, smarter, and with the faith that I can do it. I can make sure that I survive.

Some walk around with a victim mentality. They see everything that happens to them as someone out to get them somehow. What a sad way to live. No one can ever be happy like that .


There are real things to be concerned about, things that we can do something about. We need to make sure we are doing right by ourselves and others. We need to make sure we are always self supporting, as healthy as we can be, as informed as we can be, and as strong as we can be. When we are all these things, we can meet any obstacle that is put in our path.

When we fear and despair, then we can never come out into the sunshine and happiness that is there for everyone.

Don't be your own worst enemy !!!

When you are self sufficient, there is nothing that can do serious harm to you.
Life is full of wonderful things, places, people, opportunities, however you have to be able to see them to take advantage of them. Many times I hear people say "I have no choice". There is ALWAYS a choice. People do not see the choice as it is hard. The choice may mean getting a second job, not spending what they don't have, moving, ending a relationship, examining a belief system, friend, or group. It isn't always "pretty", but when hard choices are made, beautiful things happen.

Sometimes we need to take the hard choices. Hard choices lead to a better place. We need to do the work and yet always see the glass as half full. Then it will be.

Onward and forward!

Do the right things for the right reasons!




Peshaui Wequashimese

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