Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Pulling back....sign of the times?

Another reader asked me if I were feeling as she does. She has had it with people who have every excuse in the book for being lazy, egotistical, nasty, greedy.....she has started pulling away from groups and doing things on her own. She was worried that she would become a recluse,yet she isn't really staying at home all that much.

I told her...no, you are not alone. About a year ago a very spiritual friend did the same thing, I walked away from groups that had not a clue in the world, and weeded down people that I give my time and attention to even more recently. Several other readers and ministerial people I know are doing the same thing.

There is a strong belief in the metaphysical community that "like attracts like" energy even more strongly felt these days. People who are "faking it" are grouped with others who are "faking it". People who are greedy will be with other greedy people. People who are clueless, will be with the clueless. People who are afraid of making waves will be with others who are afraid of making waves, and all of the other above groups....

People who really walk their talk will be with the people who really walk their talk. Group dynamics are changing, and it is OK to leave a group or a specific person that you feel isn't getting it. And "it" isn't Bliss Ninnyville.

The genre doesn't matter...Christian, Native American, Taoist, Buddhist, Jewish...what matters is authenticity, honesty, and an understanding of there being a higher power, and how to use the Universe's good energy towards making a happier life. It is about learning, growing, being honest, being humble, being open.

It is about following your heart and intuition, not a person...NEVER a person. Harold Camping, James Ray, and others have shown us that Universal message loud and clear the past year or so.

Groups will break up and reform. It will happen on its' own, but if you are uncomfortable somewhere or with someone, then do not feel guilty walking away.There is a more appropriate group to walk to, and you will find them, and they will find you. Trying to force old alliances will only frustrate you and slow down your progress.

I said a while ago that it was time to listen to the real teachers, not the ones who told you what you wanted to hear, but the ones that were tougher, stricter, and more determined.The good teachers are walking away from those who choose not to learn, their energies are needed elsewhere, not to be wasted with people who really don't want to know. It has been happening and still is, the valuable teachers are pulling back. They still teach, but don't "socialize" with groups of people who just don't want to get it!

One of my teachers told me that the tolerance level of people who do walk their talk is getting less and less, and they will not suffer fools lightly. She went on to say that there are people who will say...but you have to love them and save them. We are not here to save anyone...and loving someone , many times, means tough love. It means walking away from them, telling them they are wrong, showing them the right way,even warning others about them. All things your parents did for you! Love doesn't mean being everyone's best friend , that helps no one. It keeps the person stuck, and they cannot learn, and may not even know they need to learn or change. Condoning bad behavior is the same as exhibiting it.

Walking away from some, landed me in larger groups of so many wonderful people. People I would do anything for and who would do anything for me. They are not just names on a social networking site, but real people. There are quality people out there, make sure that you find them.


Walk your talk
Do the right thing FOR THE RIGHT REASON!!!




Peshaui Wequashimese




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