Soulmate fallacy.

The word "soulmate" is a New Age word. It isn't an old concept nor a Universal reality. We sometimes end up with our perfect partner, and sometimes it is a person we are supposed to be with for a myriad of reasons. However , the belief that one person is THE one, or that just because we are totally and completed infatuated with someone, does not mean we are supposed to be with them (if that were true Brad Pitt would have millions of soulmates).

Soulmate came from the terms associated with soul groups.We are all part of a soul group. That IS a Universal reality. Your soul group is 112 souls who have contracted together to help each other in life lessons each lifetime. They are souls who have crossed all the way over, and have gone on to the levels of the other side that we generally call "Heaven" in Christianity. There are levels to it, but that is a blog for another day. Each Earthwalk is a learning experience. Deep learning on a life lesson and soul level. We are contracted together in a group of souls that we have traveled to this dimension with many times. There is an intricate pattern decided ahead of time, and some people we may interact with all our life, others we will share brief , but meaningful encounters with. Some of these people we will have as family, as friends, as teachers, and others as lovers of some sort.

Sometimes old life memories return. We can't forget everything, as this is a learning sequence of lives, it would do no good to forget the old lessons on how to live and behave, so trace memories remain. When we meet a past life lover or even child in this life, our soul instantly reacts to that strong cellular memory. Some people even then remember particulars of the past life and can name streets, events and people they would have no way of knowing. When you feel that pull towards another, people sometimes say the word "soulmate". Especially if they are good looking....the homely ones, not so much.

The fact is the person who is closest to being what we term a "soulmate" is the person who is most integral and important in our current life lesson. It can be our child, brother, boss, neighbor. Soulmates are not lovers. There is another misnomer, "Twin Flame". Your soul cannot be divided in half. There is not another part of your soul that you need to partner with. All these terms do is make people act irrationally and irresponsibly. People try to partner with people who want nothing to do with them, or who are already partnered with another. People wait years for a person who never returns their affections. People even become stalkers and have protection orders taken out on them all in the name of "soulmate".

Why would the Universe give you the partner you were "supposed to be with", and then have them be married to another and tell you to get lost? It wouldn't. There is not a person who you are supposed to be with, unless you need to work out karma, and the Universe with facilitate that, not make it difficult. It will throw those people into your life.

When you feel there is an old connection to another person find a licensed and qualified hypnotist that has a certification in past life regression. You may just find you have known that person many times before.

We stay with out soul group throughout our many Earthwalks. The entire soul group will attain the level of being able to remain in the "heaven" dimension at the same time. That is part of why it is so important to work with those in your soul group. People who do not cross all the way over (like ghosts who haunt places), abandon their soul group and the ability to move up and on. There are many reasons spirits have given as to why they don't want to cross or are afraid to. Our free will is still our gift from Creator/God/The Universe, even in death.We don't have to go to that "heaven" place.

This life is short. Spend it with a person who returns your love in equal measure, and appreciates you as much as you appreciate them. Relationships are a partnership. They should be 50/50 as often as possible. We all have bad days, but when you are with someone you love, the bad days are few and far between.

Peshaui Wequashimese



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