Guides

The subject of guides has come up a few times in the past couple of weeks, so let's go over who, or what they are.

 Communication with guides usually happens without us knowing it. Sometimes we may say it is our conscious guiding us. Sometimes we ask for an answer to a problem and wake up with it the next morning. This is part of our guides at work. They also try to get us to have faith, but realistic expectations. They advise us , cheer us on, try to cheer us up, and protect us.

Our guides hear (and see) us quite clearly, it is just a matter of remembering to contact them, and having faith in our guides to be there. We need to tell them what our questions are. We need to ask for guidance, inspiration, and understanding.


Start by just asking out loud. Just state clearly what you want to know. Guides are not there to grant magical wishes, or give you the winning lottery numbers. They are there to help keep you on your path, they are like the advisers that you had in school. They are there to try to make it all a little bit more clear. They are there to help you find the answers.

Good guide questions are things like "Why am I not finding the right job?"; "What path should I follow for a career?"; "What can I do to help make this project better?";"Why do I keep failing at this?",  or any metaphysical question.

Then you need to look for the answers. They can be sent in songs on the radio, stories told to you by others, news stories,dreams,  a life situation being acted out in front of you. Repetitive circumstances are messages, especially when they are unusual. Look for the link, if you can't see it, ask someone you trust.

Ask for signs that you are right. Say something like "You want me to take a career in the health field, right? If I am correct , please show me deer in my yard three days this week.". Three is a good number for making sure that something is really there. Also pick things that are not too unusual (three rhinos in the yard won't work unless you live in Africa), or too commonplace (like , "let me see a bird today"). You may want to put some thought into your validation before asking your questions. Change the validation request from time to time. This is obviously a way of life for people who are very honest with themselves. They don't seen signs in everything that happens, yet they understand when a message is being sent. This won't work for skeptics or bliss ninnies (another good reason not to be one). You will fool yourself either to seeing signs where they don't exist, or not seeing what is put in front of you becasue you don't want to believe.

One way is to sit quietly and ask for your guides to come. You may need to so this several times, as they want to see that you are dedicated and serious. Once a being comes, ask their name. Ask three times, when something will not give its' name, tell it to go away, and that you banish it from ever coming around you again. Guides will never refuse to give a name. Make sure the name is the same all three times. Guides may have strange names, they may be in another language, like Native American names, or ancient Greek names. You can then say, I cannot pronounce that or remember it well, can I call you "----". Your guide will always say "yes". I do a guided meditation for meeting guides and other helpers, and it works wonders, sometimes you may need a hand with someone to facilitate that meeting for you.

Some people ask who their guide is, that is not up to me. I can pass on messages I get from your guide, but it is not my job to talk to them, it is your job. They will pass messages, short and sweet when you need to know something, but if you connect with them, they will contact you frequently, and certainly whenever you need them.


Matt and I met his main guide when I was doing Reiki on him. I saw the guide and told him about the person I saw and his name. Matt turned white, a "man" with that name had "introduced" himself a few weeks ago, looking the same as described, and Matt told him to go away, as he didn't know he was a guide, and the guide surprised him. So, energetic work sometimes brings in guides.

The other avenue is one I have discussed before, dreams. Your brain goes into another state of brainwaves making connection easier. That also goes for deceased loved ones, or receiving psychic information.

A psychic or a medium may be able to get you in touch with your guides, however, the best way is to do it yourself. They want to see you try, to see that you are willing to put the energy into it, and that you are willing to form a personal bond. When you have tried and were not able to connect, it is OK, but don't automatically take the easy way out. I have had other people's guides say , tell them I am always here, but not my name. I think having a psychic or medium find your guide for you is like buying a mail order bride....so do the work, and if you just can't after trying and trying, get someone to help you, but try all the methods above first.

The whole idea is to be able to speak to your guide right away any time you need help, not to spend time and money on psychics or mediums. The guides have that information for you, and are willing to help.

The guide connection usually takes months when you are just learning. It usually comes in little bits and pieces, but sometimes it is easy, visual, and auditory. Guides sometimes appear in the craziest outfits, it is what your interpretation of a guide will be, sometimes they are dressed as you like to see people dress. Maybe a ballgown, a tux, a doctor's lab coat, or a monk's robes. The most common is robes. You can ask them to appear dressed as they did in life and see a multitude of "costumes" ( they lived many lives). They appear generally as you expect them to appear (just like the law of attraction, we have the kind of day we EXPECT to have).

So start with talking out loud. Give it time, and be serious about it. The more dedicated and serious you are, the faster you will get messages.


Peshaui Wequashimese




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