Dreams

Today I want to talk about dreams. Many times people have dreams (usually about someone they WANT to dream about), and they think they are being sent a message. They come up with all kinds of reasons WHY it "is" a message, and want to know what the message means. It is impossible for me to interpret something that isn't a message. Some accept the fact that it was not a message after all, and some just flat out won't believe it.

It is true that the easiest way for us to obtain messages is just as we are falling asleep. It is when the mind naturally goes into the brain wave function that psychics go into on purpose to get messages while awake. However, these flashes are not "dreams", and every dream is not a message. Over 98% of them are simply your subconscious "taking out the trash". It needs to do that, and do it rather frequently, or we would all literally go mad. The other 2% is usually your mind trying to remind you of something you forgot, to jog your memory.

Sometimes our subconscious wants us to stop waiting for the ex, so it parades him/ out so we can work through whatever we need to in that dream, then dispose of him/her. Many mistakenly take it as a "message from him/her". First it would take a very learned, trained and naturally powerful person to send that type of energy. I doubt you ex has the ability. Unless you are one powerful psychic , you aren't "picking up on their energy" either. That takes a pretty strong natural ability, and if you had it, you most likely wouldn't use the dream state to get it.

Most of the time, dreams are our own thoughts and feelings, not someone's that we wish we would hear from. Messages when we fall asleep are quick phrases of words, not an episode a half hour long from the Oxygen channel. Conversations with guides are brief and to the point. Things are not acted out, but communicated. When you are rolling around on the beach with an ex, that isn't a message from him, that is a dream of yours.

Message dreams are also very real in that things do not "morph" into other things, or have drastic changes in time or place. They flow smoothly and consistently, yet they are very different than reality. They have a literal brightness to them, a clarity, and rarely does the message come from a live human. It usually comes from guides or those who have passed.

Please do not be fooled by dreams, or by people that will tell you that this person is your "soulmate" (Oh how I would love to strangle the person who came up with romantic soulmates and twin flames!). This is your mind trying to let go of something, to have one final fling and good bye, to work out a scenario that you always wanted to work out.

When you are supposed to be with someone, you will. There will be no difficulties, no drama, no refusal, no husband or wife attached to your so called soulmate (no matter how unhappy they profess to be). That is a whole other lesson for another day.

In the meantime, dreams are just that, dreams. We can find meaning to them psychologically, as your subconscious frequently deals in archetypes, but dreams are not messages from the ex. Don't allow an ex to hold you back, move forward and find a real partner and true happiness!!




Peshaui Wequashimese





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