Most days for me, are spent helping people not "find" their path, but to walk it. Walking your path is one of those things that is never simple, yet it is easy. When you walk the path that you are intended to walk, then the journey is facilitated by the Universe.
When you try to walk another person's path, it is more difficult, not necessarily impossible, but more difficult. We have a soul group to walk our path with , and that is plenty of people to keep us company.
The hard part comes in when we have interference from others. Sometimes they think they know how we should walk the path better than we do (when you aren't having issues, they DON'T know). They may try to pull us onto their path, or jump on yours, for many reasons. The key is to stay true to your path. Your path will have friends, family, and opportunities on it that are not troublesome, forced, or difficult.
When people get angry and upset with your path (and again if that path is working well for you), then that is their problem, not yours.The anger and frustration usually evolves out of jealousy and discontent with their lives, not yours! People don't realize that as long as you are doing something the best way, where you are hurting no one, including yourself, then they need to allow you your differences.
Many times when things are ugly it is because there is a person (usually a miserable, jealous one), who is trying to pull you backwards, or step in front of you on your path. Never allow people who do not have YOUR best interest in mind to alter your path. Many clients have people that try to make them do it their way, or include them when they have no business even asking to be included! You EARN respect, your EARN friendship, you EARN recognition, you don't just demand to be on someone's path or bully yourself onto it and start changing things.
Defend your path, and again this is after making sure you are walking a healthy one for you and all of those around you. Then walk it with your head held high , and defend it to any who try to dissuade you from walking it.
When people are upset that they aren't on your path, that is their issue that they need to deal with, not yours.
Meanwhile.....do unto others.
Peshaui Wequashimese
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