Discernment and Boundaries

One of the biggest lessons we learn in the metaphysical world is discernment/setting boundaries. We are not supposed to teach everyone, help everyone, agree with everyone, or enable anyone. We are supposed to set healthy boundaries with all our friends, clients and students.

There are many in the world who try to heal all the sick, read for all those who want readings and never make them do an energy exchange (money is a form of energy exchange), and then wonder why their skills aren't sharp, they are sick, they feel drained...it is becasue we are not supposed to do for everyone. Part of what we do in life to help others, is to teach them to help themselves.

We have to set boundaries in everything we do. That includes spiritual work. We cannot help others if our battery is always low. We cannot be at the top of our game, or safe in intense situations if we are half worn out, not sharp, and alert.

We also have to constantly remember to listen to Universal messages. When the Universe is telling you to stay away from a person, even if they need help, stay away. Maybe it is not time for them to receive help yet, maybe more lessons need to be learned, or another person may be effected. It is not our place to second guess the Universe. We are here to partner with the Universe and be the human forms that help do things so others can learn, grow and thrive.

We have to remember to always use protection and to always be alert. Some people carry a lot of negative energy, illness and even attached spirits with them, and we need to protect ourselves from these things. When you go into helping someone completely open, you are open to negative and positive, and the negative can sneak in. NO ONE can become possessed or allow an attachment without in some way welcoming that in. Your soul is not in constant danger of evil, but you also don't want to swim in those waters without protection. You also need to know what you are doing. Seriously know. A matchbook application to be an ordained minister won't cut it.

Many people get excited over delving into the psychic, the supernatural, the metaphysical. It is fascinating and  eye opening, but it is not a game. You are going in to places where there are energies that are strong, serious, and concentrated, if you don't know what you are doing, you can get into serious trouble. You can be helping to heal someone who has serious issues and dark energy, and when you open yourself up to heal that person, it can come in.

Remember the old Zack from GA? He isn't so confrontational any more. They learned the hard way. When things follow you home, effect your health, sleep, peace, and ability to function, then it isn't so much fun anymore.

Make sure you are always with someone who knows what they are doing, and also remember that there are many fakes and self taught people from the Misinformation Superhighway (the internet) out there. Learn from people who know what they are doing, and learn well.

Meanwhile, for all energy workers, give yourselves a break. I have so many good people asking why they are always run down, ill, and debilitated lately. It is becasue they are doing too much.
Don't sap your strength, you may need it one day!


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Dr. R M Wolf, May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.