I find it amazing....

I find it amazing where our country has gone. I suppose it is the technology, but we want everything 5 minutes ago. We want every problem solved now, and usually by someone else doing something. We want to sit back and magically have it happen. People try to solve the world's problems by Facebook postings and Tweets. Not only will that not even put a dent in things, but I have come to understand that people don't even begin to understand the problems.

People are more gullible, more ready to react, and more angry than ever before. They were set up. Set up to believe that they are always right and that if they stomp their feet hard enough and hold their breath, it will turn out their way. They still aren't smart enough to figure out....that ain't working.

The way to knowledge isn't a 20 second sound bite, a headline, a Facebook placard, a Tweet, a Google entry. It is research. research takes time. I remember being taught how to do a paper in college. You had to not only have items in your bibliography that supported your view, but ones that negated it. You then had to prove those that negated it, wrong, so as to support your thesis. Some students ended up trashing the paper and writing the opposing view point. They learned something.

Today, when people read something they agree with, it is totally correct. When they read something they don't agree with, it is wrong. Too bad that isn't reality. It is a good thing that they aren't in college, they would fail. At least the education system in this country is still up there fighting the good fight.

Spirituality suffers the same issues. There are people who don't think . Some ghost hunters see their "hero" on TV do something, so it must be good. They get so enmeshed in the process, they don't realize that their hero figured out ....that ain't working....and moved on to a new way , process, or tool. They see ghosts in every corner, every thought that pops into their head is a psychic message, and they have EVPs...of their friends talking.

There are people who form "churches" and institutions that hate. A perfect example is the Westboro Church. At the same time, people hate Muslims, not even having an inkling as to what the Muslim religion is about (and it ISN'T about killing people). Churches have become more of a social networking site than a place where people learn to and are reminded to do the right thing.

The hot thing today is to call yourself a Medium. Mediums are hot. Mediums are the "sexy" metaphysical. Mediums are actually very rare and easy to spot. I have met a few people who told me they were a medium, only two of them (out of about 30 people), actually were.  See , it is easy to pretend or fool yourself into being a medium. You can say a dead person is standing over there, a little girl and her name is Mary. Who can dispute that? Not many people. Being a psychic is harder to fake, but many try. My feedback is full of people saying that they are so glad that they listened, even though they didn't want to hear it, a client the other day said "you should work for the CIA!" (no thanks).You have to constantly prove yourself. Timing is an issue with me, I have such a hard time with timing, but then there are times I nail it. Timing is so effected by free will , that I hate doing it. Yet, I always give it my best shot. Mediums however, don't have to prove a thing....unless, yes there is a way, you ask them to connect with a family member they never knew. Ask them for a message from a family member. Make sure it is a "real" message. When they say  "Grandma says she is fine", that isn't a message. When they say "Grandma is happy to see that you stopped dragging around that blue teddy bear", THAT is a message.


The message to all of this......


RESEARCH. That means finding PROVEN, QUALITY sources and looking for the opposing point of view. It means checking "information" on sites like Snopes BEFORE passing it on. It means READING the whole thing.

You still have to do the HARD WORK to succeed in this world. There is no free lunch as they say.

Don't believe everything you see on TV , and believe nothing you read in a Facebook placard.

Conspiracies rarely exist. Go back to the first line in this paragraph to see how to find out if it is real or not.

Treat people well, everything you do DOES tally up. You also can't fix being rude to everyone each day with a donation to the local food bank. The Universe doesn't take bribes.

When you go to church each Sunday.....act like it all the rest of the week.

Newsflash...EVERYONE is psychic, so your aren't special. Now if you have a bigger antenna than most, congrats. It isn't a blessing though, trust me.

You will have to work for all you achieve. The work can be easy or hard depending on your attitude and determination. Try the positive way, it is much more fun.

Respect others.

Don't abuse others, accept abuse, condone abuse.

Unless it is a Mc Donald's burger, you can't have it in one minute or less. Savor the journey.

No one said it was easy, and there is a good reason for that....it isn't easy.

When something doesn't work again and again, for goodness sakes TRY SOMETHING ELSE.

Your traditions, ways, and ideals are yours, no one but yours. Do not force them on others. Ever.

The world is not here to serve you, you are here to serve the world....


Now get moving, time is a wasting!



Peshaui Wequashimese





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