Let's talk about Icky

A friend and I were chatting about things yesterday and she was commenting on how being around certain situations and people lately, made her feel like she was under attack. I said, I don't see you being under attack, but when you are around people/situations that no longer fit your energy, you will feel icky. She said, "That's it, a new term for the blog, icky!"

I have probably used "icky" before, although I am not sure....but as I have written previously, we will start to see people's true colors, and when we cannot , we will still be directed away from them. When you like someone, it is hard to persuade you to "stay away". So the Universe steps in and provides "icky".

The people who belong together won't feel icky, or angry, or frustrated with each other, they will be all fine , happy, and clueless as to the rest of the world. People who don't belong in the group, will feel uncomfortable around these people. The discomfort may not be the squirming in the seat kind(although it may!), but it will be an undercurrent in the room that doesn't feel right. A feeling of static or ungrounded energy.Some will even feel headaches around certain people, and even icky stomachs.

We will run into "icky" more and more these days as the groups form, and un-form. As like attracts like, not on an intelligent or logical basis, but on an energetic one. Your head may say "I like this person.", but your energy will say "run away!". People who try hard to "fake it" will slowly, but surely, not be able to do so anymore. Your logical mind always gets in the way of your instincts unless you have learned to use and trust them. The mind may say "but he seems like a nice guy", and your stomach says "RUN RUN RUN", then go with the stomach. It isn't a bad burrito you ate, especially when it happens more than once.

Read the roadsigns. When you find that every time you are with a group you feel badly, are upset, even angry; when you are in a place or with a group, and always end up sick, hurt, depressed or angry later on; when you find that after being with a certain group you are confused, and your energy feels scattered; when you are with a certain group and feel "icky", it is a sign from the Universe to get back on your path, and your path is not with the "icky".

Learn to read Universal messages, it make life so much easier!

Do the right things for the right reasons!


Peshaui Wequashimese

NOTE: I also had an email yesterday from a lady who wanted to make a remark, but was afraid that "God's good people" would attack her. She said that she was amazed that when I said that much of the NA community doesn't like their creation stories called "myths", that people tried to justify calling it such by semantics. She said "This isn't about semantics, if someone says our culture looks at that as a bad thing, just say thank you for telling me, I am sorry , I didn't know, then don't do it anymore."

I have to say that I have been attacked by people who go to church every Sunday and apparently don't comprehend a word that is said there. I understand her reluctance. I think it is sad that people are afraid to speak up. I did tell her that the people who were discussing it were good people, and they mean no harm, and I am sure they get it, and that is what discussions are for.

Silence is deadly. Never be afraid to speak out. If people want to act like they are in high school, good. They just show their true colors. We are all entitled to our beliefs, and if anyone tells you are wrong , or are going to rot in hell, then realize THEY are the ones who need the most "saving". Say a prayer in whatever way you  belief system allows for them, and MOVE ON!


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