To make a responsible choice, emotion and ego need to be removed from the decision. It is hard to remove emotion for many and ego for some, and that is why we need to have trusted friends (not "yes" people), around us. We need to be ready to hear the answers so that when we ask a question, we get the real answer, not the one the person will give in order to need to cover their heads from thrown objects after they answer honestly.
When people's egos are hurt they becomes viscous. Some of what people think are the nicest people, sprout horns and pointed tails in an instant. I do not allow that to happen more than once. People don't think when emotion and ego are involved. The brain shuts down.
I have said this before , and I will say it again, FIND OUT BOTH SIDES OF A STORY BEFORE PARTICIPATING, and if it does not DIRECTLY affect YOU, STAY OUT OF IT.
When you speak, speak from DIRECT knowledge and research.
Otherwise, you are liable to have one or more parties out on a headhunt, with you being the prize!
Choose quality friends over quantity acquaintances!
Do the right thing for the right reasons!
...and make responsible choices!
Peshaui Wequashimese
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