Questions from readers

I had a couple of questions from readers on different subjects. I like to share these since sometimes others have the same thoughts and do not write in.

1) Do you totally reject all "communication" by flashlight and K2?

Basically yes, they are not communication devices. There are communication devices to be used, use them. If it is a twist flashlight, then the "evidence" to me is ZERO, I would totally discount it. Same goes for K2, is is able to pick up other things. Also , as I said a couple of blogs ago, even if a spirit energy is manipulating a K2, how do you know it isn't just something messing with you? Go back and read that blog for more information on that.

2) When is the new moon for July?

TODAY

3) They say like attracts like. What about ugly girls getting nice, sexy guys?

 First of all the Universe sees everyone as physically beautiful, maybe humans could take a page from that book. The phrase is talking about like ENERGY. Like energy attracts like energy. So bad negative people attract negative people. Happy people attract happy people. Altruistic people attract altruistic people. Looks have nothing to do with it...and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

4) Why don't you allow people 18 and under to go on ghost walks?

A few reasons. First of all, when out wandering around, you may go onto someone's personal property. If they call the police on you, you can be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor (even if you are the parent). It isn't worth it. If you are where you don't have permission to be, that is just part of the charges that can be brought against you.

There is another reason. Sometimes you run into bad stuff. Now that goes two ways.There are times when myself and other people who are out doing these investigations, run into "bad stuff". There are two kinds of "bad stuff". One is everyday stuff, like people who are drunk, high; people who are making/selling drugs; animal issues; crazy people issues, and people hiding/squatting . They aren't always friendly. Some investigators have been shot at by drug manufacturers. Some have almost been run over by dealers trying to get out once they were spotted. There is no reason to involve anyone in this, especially children and young adults.

It is also dangerous out there in a purely physical sense. Cemeteries have fallen stones that you can trip over. There are snakes, spiders, ticks. Recently a stone fell on a boy and killed him. Old buildings have floors you can fall through, and things to trip over or get hurt on.


That being said , there is "bad stuff" out there in the spirit realm. That is more rare than the issues listed above, but it is out there. I have bumped into these things twice. I was able to protect the people with me, and back off successfully each time. What if a person with no knowledge or skills bumped into one of these beings? It could get VERY ugly, very fast. Bad enough if you make your decision to go , but what if you took your child and something "bad" happened? It isn't worth it. I have seen people grabbed, scratched, hit and knocked down. Your child may be all gung-ho and "Zakified" to go ghost hunting, but when they get scratched and punched by something they can't see, it may do damage beyond the physical.

Another reason is, it is all fun and games watching ghost hunting on TV, but when you find yourself alone or even with another person in the woods at night, things feel a lot scarier than they do when you are sitting on your couch. Some kids are great at it, but it really isn't worth the chance. One Zak fan who was 15 went with his Dad ghost hunting....he didn't sleep in his room for 4 months...and nothing "bad" happened. He would probably still be sleeping in his Dad's room if there was a scary event!

The two times I bumped into these nasty things were in places that I had been to several times before, without a problem, so don't think that going to a place you have been to that was "safe", is still safe.


5) What is the easiest way to stop getting all upset about things?

There isn't an easy way...all take time and training yourself. However the way that requires the least pomp and circumstance has two steps. One, live in the moment. When you start replaying the past, or getting upset over it, immediately take focus on the moment. Think about every little thing. Turning the doorknob as you walk through a door, looking at the door, was it painted another color once? It sounds silly, but refocusing your mind and making it check every detail of the RIGHT NOW, will make you focus on the now, so much so, the past cannot sneak in. The same goes for the future. Planning is fine, worrying requires the same "in the moment" focus.

The second half of that is having faith. You need to practice having faith. For some this requires weekly church meetings, or even bi-weekly. Some require a walk in nature, or meditation, or all of the above. The means doesn't matter. Just do it! Once you realize that everything important that happens, happens for a reason, and that the Universe is in control. You will be OK.This is harder to do for some folks than step one, but it is amazing what peace it brings. Learn from everything that happens. Watch for patterns, and when change occurs, accept it. Events that seem terrible in the moment end up being good things in the end. Even when they are a lesson. When we learn from them, we won't repeat the negative feeling event.

Keep sending questions!!!



Peshaui Wequashimese




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