This started out as a funny discussion and turned serious....
Who NOT to be friends with:
People who talk badly about others , as they will eventually talk badly about you.
People who think the world is either "perfect" (what we call bliss ninnies), or Sucks.
People who use guilt as a tool to make others do something.
People who claim to be what they are not. This was wide and varied from" not married", "financially stable", an "expert in something", to reiki "master" or any other metaphysical title. Say "Show me the paper!". People who claim to be "psychics and mediums" on to people who claim to be anything that they think makes them look good.
People who lie and cheat. It doesn't matter who, whether it is the power company, the government (think Wesley Snipes),their friends. It shows their character, and it isn't a good picture.
People who are Haters or stay in a Clique , Clan or selective group.
People who only have time for you when they have the time, or when you are doing something they want to do.
People who take advantage of you, as in wanting time, money, attention, material things.
People who are prejudicial.
Snobs.
People who are abusive.
People who are not keeping themselves or their homes clean (doesn't have to be Martha Stuart's house though!)
People who always ask and never give.
People who are disloyal, even if they are not disloyal to you right now, they will be.
People who lie, mislead, and teach the wrong things.
People who do wrong for attention.
There were more but basically they all went back to one or the other of these things. These were the serious ones. When there is someone like this around you, PUT THEM IN THE BASEMENT, and throw away the key! They have no healthy purpose. You can try and teach them first, but once they show they are not interested in learning, toss them in that dank, dark dungeon, and leave them be.
People are sometimes put in our path so that we can teach them something. Sometimes these people think they are already an authority and we can't teach them a thing. We are not meant to struggle along , but to walk away. Once you try to teach and your lessons are rejected, it is time to move on.
For the holiday season give yourself the gift of peace by removing a problem person from your life!
Enjoy!
Peshaui Wequashimese
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